Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Yu Xiuhua once said: "Just thinking of you, the world regresses in a bright halo, and some of what we think are eternal, including time, are vulnerable." ”
Falling in love with someone is like having light in this world, with people who can walk hand in hand, and your heart is always steady.
It's just that some love will always go through wind and frost, encounter separation and integration, and encounter waiting.
After two people are separated, the man can't forget you, and he still loves you deeply, there will be a performance, a behavior: put you in his heart.
02. After separating from you, I would rather be alone
I know a buddy who has been with his girlfriend for two years.
Originally, the two wanted to get married and spend the rest of their lives together. Helplessly, his girlfriend wants to study abroad, and his parents don't approve of them being together.
After the two separated, he never looked for a girlfriend again.
The relatives around him told him to be a matchmaker, but he always refused. There are excellent female friends around him who pursue him, and he refuses.
"As long as she doesn't get married, I won't give up," he said. I love her, everyone else is coming. If I can't marry her, I'll be single for the rest of my life. ”
A man really can't forget you, he will keep you in his heart.
After separating from you, he will not start a relationship at random, and he will not find someone to fall in love with because he is lonely.
In his heart, only she is the most important.
is also like in "Why Sheng Xiaomo", there is a classic line that says: "If that person has ever appeared in the world, everyone else will become a general!" And I don't want to settle. ”
The person who loves you deeply will put you in the most important position in their hearts, and no one can replace you.
03, the person next to him has your shadow
still remembers that in the TV series "The Legend of Zhen Huan", in the emperor's heart, there is a person who can't be forgotten - Queen Chunyuan.
He loves Shen Meizhuang because of her temperament and character, which is very similar to Queen Chunyuan; He loves Zhen Huan because of her appearance, which looks like Chunyuan.
Although the emperor seems to love Zhen Huan very much, after all, she is just a substitute for Queen Chunyuan.
After a man breaks up with you, he can't forget you in his heart, but he can't stay with you, he will easily "fall in love" with someone similar to you.
He is with the lover around him, and he seems to have a good relationship, but there is a gap in his heart.
All love, is pretended.
In his heart, he has left a place for you, and no one can enter his heart.
A man has you in his heart, and when he can't let go of you, the people he "loves" have your shadow, which will only comfort his heart.
04. After you left, he was waiting for you
Not all love can go long.
Sometimes, two people who love each other are strangers because of some misunderstandings and because they don't know how to manage love when they are young.
Or, because of impulse, they quarrel and cause two people to separate.
The man who really can't forget you, after you leave, he will still remember your bits and pieces, and still stand in place waiting for you.
He does not hesitate to continue to protect you and accompany you as a friend.
When you have any difficulties and need help, he will be the first to appear by your side and help you.
A man loves you, and he will always wait for you after you leave. Even if you're already in love with someone else.
He believes that maybe one day, you will return to him.
Ding Mo said in "If Snails Have Love": "I don't mind waiting for you, as long as the last person to wait is you." ”
The man who loves you, after separating from you, will cherish you in his heart and continue to protect you.
05. Summary
People who really can't forget you, the past love will become his cage.
The book says: "I used to love someone inseparable, but now I love someone in my heart." ”
A man really loves you and can't forget you, even if he can't stay with you, he will keep you in his heart and watch you silently.
If you have the opportunity, he will still be there for you and renew your relationship.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.