When people reach their fifties, they should stop just staring at the life in front of them, and should have a little foresight for the future.
Many people are planted here, thinking that they are living okay in front of them, nothing is a big deal, but as a result, they are caught off guard when problems come.
Especially when you are around the age of 50, when you encounter these three things, it is a signal: it's time to plan ahead!
To be a man, you have to learn to look far, don't just stare at the road under your feet, at least have a plan for two or three years, and make plans early.
When the wind and rain come, and the umbrella is not ready, then it is asking for trouble. Foresight is the real "talisman" after the age of fifty.
01
On the economic front, the red light is on.
When people are in their fifties, it's really time to be realistic.
Still doing some rosy fantasies, that's not going to work.
Whether it's a marriage or an economic foundation, you have to weigh it clearly, and don't expect pie in the sky anymore.
What should you do if you suddenly find that it is unreliable to live on your spouse?
Is it possible that when you are old and sick, you can't even make up the money for medical treatment? Who do you live on if you are widowed?
Some people have been doing housework all their lives, but they have no source of income; There are also people whose spouses are too lazy to be like a cat, who don't make money themselves, and only gnaw on your old book.
If this continues, can life be steady?
In the final analysis, at the age of fifty, it is reliable to work to earn money for your own retirement.
Don't wait until you're old, you don't even have money for medicine.
02
own life, lack of basic quality.
If life is in a low-quality state for a long time, sooner or later people will be forced to become world-weary, and even the confidence to live will be lost.
Houses and cars, can you lower the standards? It's time for your son to work hard to save money, don't put all the pressure on you.
People over 50 years old, working several jobs every day, are exhausted, what do they want?
The stress of life accumulates, and sooner or later it explodes, which will only lead to physical and mental exhaustion and illness.
It's not that we all have to be rich and rich, but at least we have to live a quality life, otherwise life will become torment, and it is better to live than to die and be happy.
Adjust your lifestyle so that you don't have too many unnecessary burdens on your shoulders.
You are desperate to buy a house for your son, will he be grateful to you in the future?
Adjust it and make life easier, so that you can truly be worthy of yourself.
03
Children have excessive greed.
If in their fifties, your children start to think about their parents' possessions, or even show greed, then you have to be careful.
In reality, parents always think that they can exchange their children's filial piety by giving them more money and resources, but this is often not the case.
You think that if you pay more, you will be able to enjoy their filial piety in the future, but the truth is that many children only care about their parents' property and lack real concern for their parents themselves.
I know such an acquaintance, the child became an adult and started a family, thinking that the children could be sensible, but as a result, not only did they have no filial piety, but they began to fight their parents' property ideas, and they made all kinds of calculations behind their backs.
Even when their parents are sick, these children ignore them, which is chilling.
The sooner you recognize this reality, the more transparent you will be.
When children become adults, they are greedy for their parents' property, so don't expect them to be filial.
This kind of relationship, on the surface, looks like gold and jade, but in fact, it has long been rotten and cannot withstand scrutiny.
It is common for parents to be soft-hearted, but if they are too soft-hearted, they will only let themselves fall into passivity in the future.
Instead of expecting your children to be filial and naively believing that they will always care about you, it is better to plan for yourself as soon as possible, and I am afraid that you will have to rely on yourself for the future pension.
Don't get your hopes up too much, lest you end up disappointed and sadder.
Let my words come into your heart
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