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When did the rules for this new daughter-in-law start to call the door, there is no accurate explanation yet. However, in some villages, the rules of the new daughter-in-law calling the door have been retained.
An expert on marriage customs said that the bride-in-law usually calls the door on the wedding day, when the groom leads the bride to the groom's door. The bride has to follow the old rules, "call the door softly", which means that she wants to have a good time with her in-laws, and she has hope in her heart. At this time, the firecrackers went off, and the people watching the excitement were blessed, and the scene was very lively.
The expert also said that when calling the door, the new daughter-in-law has to pay attention to her appearance and words. The voice should not be coarse, you should not shout, you must gently call the mother-in-law to open the door, so as to show respect for the mother-in-law and kiss the mother-in-law.
The expert went on to say that under normal circumstances, the new daughter-in-law has to shout "Mom" three times in a row, and when the shouting is over, the mother-in-law will slowly open the door and welcome the new daughter-in-law into the door with a smile. As soon as the new daughter-in-law enters the door, the mother-in-law has to give a big red envelope, which means to accept the new daughter-in-law and welcome her home.
The expert finally said that the rules of the new daughter-in-law calling the door are not only old traditions, but also rules, and in some places, this is still an important link that cannot be changed. This link not only shows that the new daughter-in-law respects the elders, but also shows that the family is affectionate and hopeful. Although the society has changed now, and the form of the wedding has also changed, this old tradition and this rule are still valued by many families and passed down!
An old netizen said that when the new daughter-in-law called the door, she was afraid that her mother-in-law would not open the door, and if the mother-in-law did not open the door, the scene would be embarrassing!
That's right! No, there is a third-married woman named Zhong, who encountered such an embarrassing thing!
What's going on? Let's move on.
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Zhong, who is 56 years old this year, has been married twice before getting married. The first time was because I was beaten by my husband and couldn't go on; The second time was because my husband was sick and died. Zhong has never had children, and pension has become a problem, no, it's a third time.
This time I was looking for a 46-year-old widower, Huang, who was also widowed. Through the matchmaker's introduction, Zhong plans to spend time with Huang. However, Zhong and Huang are privately agreed for life, and Huang's parents have not met Zhong.
On the day of the wedding, Zhong followed Huang and the greeting team to the door of Huang's house, and according to the rules, Zhong called his mother-in-law to open the door softly. Unexpectedly, Zhong shouted "Mom, open the door" four or five times in a row, but her mother-in-law neither agreed nor opened the door, and the scene was very embarrassing.
Fortunately, the person who greeted the relatives persuaded him, and Zhong's mother-in-law reluctantly opened the door, and Zhong entered the house.
So why is the mother-in-law reluctant to open the door?
Zhong later learned that her mother-in-law saw her from the cat's eye, and felt that Zhong was old and not a good match for Huang, so she disliked her. Because he was disgusted, he was unwilling to open the door and let Zhong enter the house.
Zhong said that she was afraid of having a conflict with her mother-in-law, so she discussed with Huang to find another place to live instead of living with her mother-in-law for a long time.
That's how it happened.
Netizens knew about this and discussed it one after another.
Netizen voices
How can netizens say it: Zhong's mother-in-law has done too much. Huang is in love with Zhong, why does her mother-in-law dislike Zhong? In the end, it is a husband and wife who live a life, as long as Huang is willing!
The story of netizen spring said: Age is not an important factor in marriage, the important thing is whether the heart and the heart can be together. As long as Zhong and Huang are willing, there is no need for the mother-in-law to dislike Zhong.
There are many comments from netizens.
Lao Hu's point of view
As the saying goes: if you have love, you don't care about the age gap.
Lao Hu thinks: The foundation of marriage is love, if there is no love between husband and wife, then this marriage is like a house without a skeleton, which will collapse sooner or later. On the other hand, if there is love between husband and wife, then the marriage is unbreakable!
Lao Hu thinks: Zhong's mother-in-law doesn't need to dislike Zhong, after all, her mother-in-law doesn't live with Zhong, as long as Huang doesn't dislike Zhong. Why did the mother-in-law treat her daughter-in-law Zhong so coldly? Lao Hu hopes that Zhong's mother-in-law can change her attitude towards her daughter-in-law.