In "Half-Mature Men and Women", He Zhinan's emotional experience really taught people a lesson.
Qu Yipeng's pursuit of He Zhinan's love process is perfect.
The love words are in place, the action is surrounded, and the warm man is proper.
But, as it turned out, everything was just pretended by him.
On the other hand, Wang Zilu seems to be quite stingy at first glance, but after understanding it, he found that he is a very reliable person.
When he got along with He Zhinan, he owed a lot of money, and he didn't swear an alliance, but in the end, He Zhinan was completely moved, and the two of them achieved positive results.
In love, sweet words are unreliable, and actions are in place. It doesn't have to be true love.
Men who are too perfect are mostly disguised under sugar-coated shells.
The more men who seem to be less "good", not so "in place", and have "shortcomings" to you on the surface, they are often reliable.
A man treats you like this, on the surface, he is affectionate, but in fact he loves you miserably.
The mouth is very straight, and the words spoken are not so good
If you are obedient, everyone will say it, but not everyone will say it.
If you don't like it, you may be unhappy, but sometimes, it's really good for you.
Always saying good and obedient things sounds pleasant, but if it's just to please you, you don't have to.
Those men who always talk sweetly and coax you may not think so in their hearts, but they are just "coaxing you".
On the contrary, those men who "have a straight mouth" and "don't listen" to their words are precisely because they love you very much and are really good for you.
For example, when you make a mistake at work, "coax you"
He may avoid the important and ignore the mistakes at work.
And the man who loves you, he may point to your problems and say things that sting you, but it is really for your good.
I don't give you promises easily, it's a bit "cowardly"
Wang Zilu owes a lot of money, and after nine years of entrepreneurship, he has long been disheartened.
Although He Zhinan gave him a lot of encouragement and told him not to give up, Wang Zilu's psychology was clear that he could no longer afford the pressure of starting a business.
So he didn't listen to He Zhinan's words, and insisted on opening the doll universe instead, but chose to close the studio.
Because of his current situation, he knew very well that he couldn't give He Zhinan a future, so in this relationship, he was very cowardly, so cowardly that he didn't dare to confess, and coaxed to take the initiative to push her away.
Not long after Qu Yipeng and He Zhinan got together, they proposed to get married, just to "become a wealthy son-in-law" as soon as possible.
Such frivolous promises are very irresponsible.
The more you love your man, he will not easily bring up "marriage", and the responsibility behind it is very great.
His cowardice was precisely because he cared too much about it, wanted to give you a future, and was afraid that he would not be able to bear it, so he retreated.
It will not be on call, and will regard "work" as more important than you
The message is replied in seconds, and it is on call, which is the idealized state in love, and it is also what many women crave in love.
However, life is not a TV series, there are not so many romantic episodes, everyone is living in real life.
What kind of people are likely to be available to you?
A man who doesn't do his job and doesn't go to work every day guards you and love. There is only this kind of man.
Even the richest people can't do it.
The higher you stand, the greater the responsibility. When men are mixed into a certain position, there will be more helplessness, and love has long been left behind by them.
A man who is not on call, a man who will regard "work" as more important than you, is truly responsible.
Because they know that only by working harder and harder can they afford your future and be qualified for you to give yourself to him.
Women, don't fall in love, take love too superficially.
What sweet words, vows and alliances are all fake, messages are replied in seconds, and being on call only exists in TV series.
Real love, there are shortcomings, there are shortcomings, there are not so thoughtful places, although it is not perfect, but it is love that makes you miserable.