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Xiao Jingteng was born by his father at the wedding, which is quite funny
Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui finally made up the wedding, I thought it was a happy event, but I didn't expect my father to give the whole drama as soon as he opened his mouth. On October 13, at the Taipei Marriott Hotel, Father Xiao began to give birth in front of the guests, which made the atmosphere a little embarrassing. I said, old man, you're too anxious, people just get married and want to hold their grandchildren?
But think about it carefully, Xiao Jingteng is 40 years old this year, and Lin Youhui is a 51-year-old "advanced maternal age", and she has indeed reached the age when she should consider giving birth. But didn't Xiao Jingteng say before that he didn't want his wife to suffer and wanted to adopt a child? As soon as Dad opened his mouth, they were afraid that they were going to make trouble.
Xiao Jingteng's marriage road is also bumpy
Speaking of Xiao Jingteng's relationship history, it was really full of twists and turns. As early as 2007, he met his agent Lin Youhui, and Lin Youhui was still his "boss lady" at that time. The two worked hard together, and their relationship slowly warmed up, but it has not been made public.
Until June 27, 2023, Xiao Jingteng finally mustered up the courage to successfully propose marriage, and made a high-profile official announcement on social platforms. This can blow up the fans in a daze, it turns out that the underground love that has been poked and poked has already begun! However, some people say that it is really gratifying that the relationship after so many years has finally come to fruition.
But what a good thing is grinding, not long after the newcomers were officially announced, some people began to question their age difference. Lin Youhui is 11 years older than Xiao Jingteng, some people say that this is "sister and brother love", and some people say that "old cows eat tender grass". I said these people, it's too lenient, is it your turn to dictate the affairs of two adults?
Whether to have children or not, that's the question
Back to the point, Xiao Jingteng's father gave birth to this at the wedding, which is really embarrassing. I think it's a private matter for the young couple to have children or not, and although the old man is well-intentioned, it is somewhat inappropriate to say it in front of so many people.
And didn't Xiao Jingteng say before that he didn't want his wife to suffer? In an interview on February 7 this year, he made it clear that he was unwilling to let Lin Youhui suffer the pain of childbirth, and said that he was inclined to adopt a child. As soon as his father gave birth, he estimated that it would be quite difficult.
But having said that, Lin Youhui is 51 years old this year, and she is an elderly woman, and the risk of childbirth is indeed relatively high. Xiao Jingteng doesn't want his wife to take risks, I think this kind of thought is quite heartwarming. However, now that medical technology is so developed, it is not impossible for elderly mothers to give birth, and the key depends on the wishes of the two of them.
The parenting dilemma of a celebrity couple
Speaking of which, a question suddenly occurred to me: If a celebrity couple really has a child, who will take care of it? Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui are both career-oriented people, one is busy singing and performing, and the other is busy managing the company, how can they have time to take care of their children?
I remember a few years ago, there was a celebrity couple who left the child to the old man after giving birth to a child and went to work on their own business. As a result, when the child grows up, he is not close to his parents, and follows his grandparents all day long. This situation is actually quite common in the entertainment industry, after all, the nature of celebrities' work is special, and it is difficult to work from 9 to 5 like ordinary people.
So I think that if Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui really want to have children, they still have to plan well. Either find a reliable nanny, or someone has to temporarily put down their career to concentrate on taking care of the baby. Otherwise, it will be a bitter child to be born.
Who understands the pressure in marriage
In fact, I think that the biggest pressure on Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui now may not come from childbirth, but from the eyes of the outside world. After all, the age difference between the two is there, and gossip on the Internet must be indispensable.
Coupled with the fact that now that the father is openly urging the birth, it is estimated that the pressure on the two of them will be even greater. I have a friend who has been in a similar situation, and he was born by his parents not long after he got married, which made the relationship between husband and wife strained. So I think the elders should still give some space to the young people and don't be too anxious.
But having said that, it is not easy for Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui to come together. The two have known each other for so many years, and they have changed from the relationship between the boss and the artist to husband and wife, and they must have experienced a lot of ups and downs in the middle. Now that they can survive it, I believe they can also handle the problem of childbirth.
My opinion
To be honest, I think it's really a bit inappropriate for Xiao Jingteng's father to give birth at the wedding. Although it is a good intention, it is a little disrespectful to the wishes of the newcomers. However, the older generation always wants to have a full house of children and grandchildren, which is understandable.
As for whether Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui want to have children, I think they still have to respect their own choices. After all, there is so much pressure in society now, and raising children is not an easy task. If they feel that they are not suitable for childbearing for the time being, then they should not have children first, and they don't have to have children right away anyway.
In short, I hope that the couple can communicate well and not be affected by the voices of the outside world. Marriage is a matter of two people, and whether or not to have children is also a matter of two people, and it is better for others to intervene less. Bless Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui, I hope they can be happy forever!