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Xiao Jingteng, Lin Youhui's wedding, 4 sets of dresses are beautiful in the sky, and it is the best medical beauty to marry the right talent
The Rain God's Wedding: Reflections from a Wedding – An In-Depth Discussion on Age, Love, and Happiness
"God of Rain" Xiao Jingteng is married! This should have been a happy event celebrated by the whole world, but because of the age of the bride Lin Youhui and the relationship between the two former agents and artists, it has sparked extensive discussions. Some people bless, some people question, some people ridicule that "marrying the right person is the best medical beauty", and some people sigh that "the building near the water gets the moon first". This wedding is like a mirror, reflecting the diverse cognitions and complex emotions of contemporary society about age, love, marriage, and happiness.
Is age really the chasm of love?
Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui are 14 years apart, which seems to be nothing new in today's era. However, the age gap remains an insurmountable divide in the minds of many. The traditional belief is that marriages with large age gaps are prone to problems such as modern ditches and communication barriers, and some people even label this combination as "old cows eat tender grass" or "sugar daddy".
However, the essence of love is the fit of the heart, regardless of age. As psychologist Eric · Fromm said in The Art of Love: "Love is not an emotion that has nothing to do with the maturity of the person, but only needs to be invested in the body and mind." Mature love requires understanding, respect, responsibility, and giving, qualities that are not necessarily linked to age. The love story of Lin Youhui and Xiao Jingteng just proves this. They developed from work partners to lovers, supported each other, grew together, and finally entered the palace of marriage. Among them, the age gap has not become an obstacle, but has become a bridge for them to understand and tolerate each other.
What is the standard of happiness?
"Marrying the right person is the best medical beauty", this sentence has been widely circulated on the Internet, and it has also caused a lot of controversy. Some see this as the objectification of women, equating women's value with their appearance; Others believe that this is just a joke about a happy marriage, and there is no need to over-interpret it.
Controversy aside, this quote also reflects a social phenomenon: people are increasingly paying attention to the impact of the quality of marriage on personal happiness. According to the Research Report on China's Social Mentality (2012-2013) released by the Institute of Sociology of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, the quality of marriage has become one of the important factors affecting personal happiness. A good marriage not only provides emotional support and comfort, but also promotes personal growth and development. From this point of view, "marrying the right person" can indeed improve a person's happiness, and even more effective than "medical beauty".
Is it necessary to be opportunistic?
"The building near the water gets the moon first", this ancient poem is also often used to describe workplace romance. Some people believe that there is a potential power imbalance and conflict of interest in workplace romance, which is easy to breed unfair competition; Some people also believe that the workplace is an important social place for modern people, and it is reasonable to have love.
In fact, there is no right or wrong in a workplace romance, the key is whether both parties truly love each other and abide by professional ethics. According to CCTV news reports, more and more companies have begun to formulate workplace romance management norms, aiming to protect the rights and interests of employees and maintain corporate order. This shows that society's attitude towards workplace romance is becoming more and more rational and standardized. The love story of Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui is not a simple "building near the water", but is based on years of getting along and understanding.
How will the shape of marriage evolve in the future?
With the development of society and the advancement of concepts, the form of marriage is also constantly evolving. The traditional model of "male dominant, female dominant" has gradually been broken, and more and more couples choose an equal cooperation model. At the same time, phenomena such as late marriage and late childbearing, and non-marriage are becoming more and more common.
In the future, marriage may be more diversified and personalized. People will pay more attention to the quality of marriage than to the form. As sociologist Li Yinhe said, "The institution of marriage is dying out, but love and intimacy will always exist." This indicates that in the future, people's choices for marriage will be more free, and the pursuit of happiness will be more diverse.
Epilogue:
The wedding of Xiao Jingteng and Lin Youhui is not only a celebrity wedding, but also an event that triggers social thinking. It reminds us to reject prejudice and respect individual choices; Focus on the essence of happiness, not on its external forms; It is necessary to look at social phenomena rationally and avoid simple and crude judgments. Love and marriage are never simple formulas, but the art that needs to be managed with care. May everyone find their own happiness, regardless of age, identity, or background.