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preface
There are two female stars with the same name and surname in the entertainment industry, although the name is the same, but the path of life is diametrically opposite.
Xiao Song Jia's life trajectory is smooth, from her debut to popularity, only falling in love and not getting married has made her enjoy the sweetness, all this is like her destiny; And Da Song Jia is different, on the road of her life, there are more ups and downs and sadness.
Since the road is not smooth, you have to work hard for yourself, so Da Song Jia started her history of being a "ruthless person", and resolutely left her husband when he was sick.
After regaining her singleness, she fell in love with a well-known director again, and with the help of the director's boyfriend, Da Song Jia's career went to the next level, but unfortunately the two of them still died in the end.
thought that this was the case with feelings, but Da Song Jia was still unwilling, and at the age of 55, she embraced love again, married a rich man, and became a wealthy wife.
What is the charm of Da Song Jia that can make so many men willing to be her background board and help her ascend to the top?
One drama makes two people
In 1998, a "Sister-in-law" made Song Jia, who had been out of film for many years, appear in front of the screen again, and the audience felt very cordial when they saw this familiar actress again.
At this time, she has experienced the ups and downs of her life, and after three years of self-precipitation, Song Jia reappeared with a new look, and also funded the filming of the TV series and served as the producer of the show, which also surprised the audience.
Although this TV series only has 7 episodes, in a compact storyline, the audience perceives the meaning of the existence of the family.
Home is a warm haven, although the plot setting is very sadistic, but it is deeply touching, earning enough tears from the audience, the most important thing about this drama is that it can perceive the meaning of family education, so that the viewer can benefit a lot.
Although the works in the play are of deep significance, after leaving the plot, Song Jia also gained a different "happiness", that is, she and director Yu Min had different feelings in contact with each other day after day.
But due to the identities of both parties, neither of them pierced this layer of window paper, and the two discussed the details of the filming of the drama like ordinary friends.
Until the broadcast of "Sister-in-law", which they collaborated on, it was deeply liked by the audience, and the two also won career honors because of this drama.
Song Jia directly won the Chinese TV Drama Feitian Award, and her career reached its peak.
And Yu Min has also changed from an ordinary little director to a well-known director, and from then on, he will no longer have to be controlled by others, he can take the lead alone and serve as the producer of TV series.
It can even be said that without Song Jia's insight, Yu Min should still be able to be his rookie director, after all, it is with Song Jia's hard support that Yu Min can give it a go in the drama "Mother-in-law" and become a famous director.
Controversial emotional entanglements
Both of them have gained the honor and wealth they want in this drama, and the restlessness in their hearts has become more and more obvious with the blessing of fame and fortune.
In 2001, the two officially announced the news that they were together, but at this time, the public did not bless the relationship between the two, but overwhelmingly abused, because Yu Min had just divorced.
From the beginning of the cooperation between the two to the announcement of their relationship a few years later, all the timelines show that Song Jia was already with Yu Min when he was not divorced, but because of Yu Min's status as a husband, they could only be together secretly.
But there is no impermeable wall, and the underground relationship between the two has long become an "open secret", but in the face of the two pretending to be deaf and dumb, no matter how much outsiders say, it will not help.
Therefore, Song Jia's charm is absolutely undoubted, otherwise Yu Min would not divorce for her, and planned to give Song Jia a name openly, but what Song Jia wanted was not what Yu Min could give.
After the relationship was made public, the two attended the event in pairs, and did not shy away from showing their love to outsiders, and Song Jia also starred in "The Dust Settled" with the help of Yu Min's strength.
Because of her likable role in the play, coupled with the blessing of Song Jia's superb acting skills, she was voted the favorite actress by the audience at the China TV Golden Eagle Awards.
It's a pity that the peaks and loops turned, and after Song Jia and Yu Min's love achieved each other, the contradictions were gradually revealed, and they could only end up without a problem.
This is not the first time Song Jia has fallen behind emotionally, before this unfavorable relationship, she also had a well-known marriage.
Abandon the sick man and go to United States
The reason for their divorce is even more jaw-dropping, that is, because her ex-husband is ill, and Song Jia has to abandon her sick husband and go to United States as a last resort.
Some people may ask why Song Jia is so ruthless and chooses to leave her husband when he needs to be taken care of the most, without taking into account the past feelings.
It turned out that in this married life, her husband was the 21-year-old Peking Opera master Zhang Xuejin, Zhang Xuejin suddenly fell ill because of a sudden change, in order to treat her husband, Song Jia temporarily gave up her career and accompanied Zhang Xuejin to seek medical treatment everywhere.
But no matter how hard the husband and wife tried, Zhang Xuejin's did not improve, and after the treatment was fruitless, Zhang Xuejin himself became extremely irritable, and often spoke ill of his wife and daughter.
Song Jia was already exhausted, and she was always careful not to let her husband have close contact with her daughter, and she was afraid that she would infect her young daughter, so she was very careful; On the other hand, she had to endure her husband's abuse.
In the end, Song Jia, who was disheartened, had to stay away from him and go to United States to study abroad.
She is a woman, she needs her husband's relationship and understanding, but when Song Jia was wholeheartedly by her husband's side, she failed to get her husband's respect, which pushed her into the distance.
Song Jia abandoned her husband to United States, and after the public learned about it, the world said that Song Jia was a heartless woman, unscrupulous in order to get on the throne, and she chose to bear it silently, because any justification would seem pale and powerless.
Go around and regain your happiness
Until 2008, 46-year-old Song Jia suddenly gave birth to another son, but who is the father of the child, Song Jia has never given a positive response.
Names such as advanced maternal age and unmarried children are hung on Song Jia's head, and with the addition of the style of behavior in the previous two relationships, people can't help but suspect that Song Jia is still the same as before, using men to achieve her goal of ascending to the top.
When everyone thought that she would go around and around and live a stable life with her pair of children, Song Jia introduced her husband Stephen to everyone on her 55th birthday.
Song Jia's courage to enter marriage again is admirable, perhaps her character of daring to love and hate, and being able to afford to let go is the most attractive aspect of the opposite sex.
Stephen is a relatively prestigious rich family in Belgium, after announcing her new feelings, she became a wealthy wife with peace of mind, almost no longer in the public eye, maybe enjoying love is what Song Jia has been pursuing in her heart!
epilogue
Although Song Jia's emotional choice has always been incomprehensible, I still wish her to find the final destination in life and be happy for the rest of her life.
Now she has opened a store in Belgium, away from the disturbances of the entertainment industry, calm down to do what she loves, such a life is the best arrangement for her!