In the hit urban drama "Mortal Song", the lovers Na Jun and Li Xiaoyue, who were favored by many netizens, finally broke up.
The reason is that Li Xiaoyue is unwilling to make any changes for the sake of love, and proposed to break up when Na Jun proposed to her.
Li Xiaoyue rejected Na Jun's marriage proposal, rejected Na Jun's 160-square-meter house for her, a 60,000 yuan diamond ring, and many changes that Na Jun was willing to make and had already made for her......
For Li Xiaoyue to suddenly propose to break up at this special moment, Na Jun didn't have any thoughts, he couldn't understand what was wrong with his efforts to let his family live a stable life.
Therefore, when Na Jun deleted Li Xiaoyue's photo and used the hot pot restaurant as a place to go on a blind date again, he completely understood:
In fact, if it weren't for the steaming hot pot, maybe Na Jun would never have been able to deeply understand why Li Xiaoyue proposed to break up when he proposed, and how heavy the entanglement and struggle were
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When Na Jun deleted Li Xiaoyue's photos, each one carried their common memories, from laughter to tears, from youth to maturity. He curled up in the corner of the house weakly, crying suppressed, a nostalgia for the good old days, and a helpless acceptance of reality.
Na Jun knew very well in his heart that on the day Li Xiaoyue proposed to break up, he walked away without looking back, and the gap between himself and Li Xiaoyue was insurmountable.
That Jun's sense of responsibility and planning for the future made him yearn for a partner who could fight side by side with him, while Li Xiaoyue enjoyed the freedom and fun of the moment more, and the values of the two gradually drifted apart.
At the moment of the blind date at the hot pot restaurant, Na Jun may not have realized that this simple dinner would become a new starting point for his emotional life.
The enthusiasm and hustle and bustle of the hot pot seem to be a satire of his past emotional life, and it is also a warm-up of future possibilities. The tacit understanding and deed between him and his new blind date made him feel relaxed and comfortable for a long time.
The girl's directness and independence made him see the possibility of another life, and also made him realize more clearly that breaking up with Li Xiaoyue, although tangled, was necessary.
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In fact, Li Xiaoyue is not a ruthless person, she just chose the lifestyle she likes.
In Li Xiaoyue's view, love should be free and should not be bound by planning and money. However, she ignored that Jun's sense of responsibility and concern for the future.
Najun's hard work and hard work are not only for himself, but also for his family and future children. What he longs for is a partner with whom he can share the burden of life, and Li Xiaoyue is obviously unable to meet this need.
Li Xiaoyue's refusal to change made Na Jun fall into a deep entanglement. He was reluctant to give up this relationship, and he couldn't accept Li Xiaoyue's lifestyle.
In the end, Na Jun felt that his strength could not recover Li Yue, who had been in love for 4 years, so he had to reluctantly choose to let go.
It's just that although Najun is painful, it also allows him to re-examine his emotional needs and values.
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Na Jun's blind date in the hot pot restaurant is not only a simple meeting, but also a collision of hearts.
The resonance and understanding between him and his new blind date made him see another possibility of love. The ease and ease between them is what is missing between him and Li Xiaoyue.
This blind date made him understand that love is not only passion and romance, but also mutual understanding and support.
The warmth and tolerance of hot pot seems to be telling Na Jun that love requires the efforts and dedication of both parties.
Only when you are willing to change for each other and are willing to fight for a common goal can love last for a long time.
Na Jun's blind date not only allowed him to find a partner who is more suitable for him, but also made him more clearly aware of his emotional needs and values.
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Na Jun and Li Xiaoyue in the urban drama "Mortal Song", their stories are the epitome of many people's emotional lives.
The entanglement and relief, Li Xiaoyue's choice and persistence, all let us see the growth and change in love.
Na Jun's blind date in the hot pot restaurant is not only a new starting point for his emotional life, but also a kind of farewell and relief for his past.
As shown in the play, love requires the efforts and dedication of both parties, and mutual understanding and support. When one partner is unable to meet the emotional needs of the other, breaking up may be the best option.
Although entanglement and pain are unavoidable, only in this way can we find a partner who is truly suitable for us and reap true happiness.
The story tells us that growth and relief in love are the only way to go. Only when we are brave enough to face our emotional needs and values can we find happiness that truly belongs to us.
And the drama "Mortal Song" also uses its delicate emotional depiction and profound life philosophy to make us cherish everyone around us more and know how to love and be loved.