Ye Ke revealed: I didn't go to the toilet at school since I was a child, and I didn't go to my stomach anymore because I felt rude!
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Recently, the well-known blogger Ye Ke shared a surprising experience on social platforms, she admitted that she has had a unique toilet habit since she was a child - no matter how painful her stomach is, she will never choose to go to the toilet at school. This little secret not only sparked heated discussions among netizens, but also made us wonder how such a psychology was formed in the process of children's growth?
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Ye Ke's self-exposure instantly attracted a large number of netizens to watch, and they left messages to express their shock and resonance. Many say they have experienced a similar mindset themselves. When it comes to going to the toilet, this should be a very common physiological need, but in Ye Ke's eyes, it has become an invisible psychological barrier.
She said that growing up, whether on campus or in other public places, the toilet was a place she couldn't easily set foot in. She was afraid to turn around and face a group of strange classmates, whose laughter echoed in her ears, and maybe even an unnecessary embarrassment. So, even if her stomach hurts again, she would rather endure it until she comes home from school.
This experience is not unique. Growing up, going to the toilet seems to have become a "luxury" luxury, especially in the relatively closed environment of school. Why is this so? In fact, it is closely related to our culture, education, and psychological development.
In traditional Chinese culture, many parents will teach their children to pay attention to their appearance and image, especially in public, and to appear polite. Going to the toilet, the most basic physiological need of human beings, is regarded as an "inappropriate" behavior. This makes many children subconsciously uneasy and afraid of being judged by others when facing their peers.
Ye Ke mentioned that she often felt her stomach churning in class, and she struggled with whether to ask for leave to go to the toilet. However, when she saw that her friends around her were immersed in hard study, immersed in learning, that sense of isolation began to spread. In the end, she chose to suppress her needs, intending to wait until she was released home.
Slowly, Ye Ke realized that this mindset may have affected her mental health. The discomfort brought about by patience made her feel uncomfortable in both study and life. Sometimes, she even misses out on some important extracurricular activities because of this "toilet phobia". This made her angry, and at the same time, she began to reflect: Is going to the toilet really something to be ashamed of?
In fact, in this information age, we need to be more open to the perception of the body. Everyone has a physiological need, and this is not a sign of "rudeness", but a natural thing. As Ye Ke later realized, this fear stems from an excessive focus on the evaluation of others.
She began to work hard to change her mind about going to the toilet. She tries to share her feelings with her friends and encourages them to be brave enough to ask for something if necessary. Gradually, Ye Ke found that discussing such topics did not attract malicious ridicule, but rather promoted a sense of closeness between them.
At a party, Ye Ke joined forces to initiate a discussion about bodily autonomy. She encouraged everyone to share their "little secrets", but she didn't expect to gain a lot of resonance. Many of my friends have recounted their "toilet struggles", which made the whole environment lighter and humorous. It turned out that everyone was worried about this little thing, and when you said it, it seemed that everything was relieved.
Ye Ke tells us through her own story that being brave in the face of physiological needs is a sign of maturity. The taboos about the body in society are often just the product of old ideas. We need to break down these barriers so that everyone can express their needs without fear.
In conclusion, Ye Ke's experience has taught us that we should be calm about the natural needs of our bodies and never be disturbed by the eyes of others. Everyone's body has its own voice, and we need to learn to listen and respect it.
So, dear readers, the next time you feel a stomachache, you might as well think of Ye Ke's story and take that step bravely to seek your comfort zone. And these small changes may be able to bring infinite possibilities and freedom to our lives!