The highlight moment of the double actress: 29 years from glory to dullness
Who would have thought that on that night in 2019, Yongmei would actually win the Golden Rooster Award? This girl in a white dress who once glimpsed in the MV of the Black Panther Band finally stood at the top of the entertainment industry.
On the night of the award, Yongmei's speech made the audience red-eyed. She didn't talk about how difficult it was for herself, but thanked her husband Luan Shu vigorously. "Thank you for your continued silent support, which has allowed me to pursue my acting career with peace of mind.
But who would know that this couple who have been in the entertainment industry for 29 years met on the set of the MV? At that time, Yongmei, wearing a white dress and short flowing hair, sat in a jeep and smiled lightly at the camera.
This touch of amazement not only captured the hearts of countless male fans, but also made Luan Shu who was present stunned.
If you want to talk about Luan Shu's means of chasing his wife, it is really romantic enough. He specially invited Yongmei to watch his concert, just to sing "Beautiful Heaven Without Sadness" to her in front of all the audience.
This song later became their love song, and Yongmei couldn't help but raise the corners of her mouth every time she mentioned it.
29 years, not long, not short. During this period, how many celebrity couples were together vigorously and quietly separated. But Yongmei and Luan Shu have been moving forward hand in hand in a low-key manner, and they rarely show affection even on Weibo.
But anyone in the know knows that true feelings never need to be shown to others.
Luan Shu never wavered in his support for his wife when she was at the lowest point in her career. When Yongmei wanted to return to the film industry, many people said that she was already angry. But Luan Shu said: "You look the most beautiful in acting, don't care what others say."
It was such a simple sentence that gave Yongmei the courage to start again.
Today's Yongmei is still the Jiangnan woman with a gentle temperament, and the years seem to treat her very favorably. And Luan Shu is still the man who is silently waiting behind her.
The Unknown Twists and Turns of Love: Chen Daoming's Chapter
Speaking of Yongmei's acting career, I have to mention the play "Chinese-style Divorce". This is not only a turning point in her career, but also the starting point of her relationship with Chen Daoming.
In and out of the play, the relationship between the two gradually warmed up. At that time, Yongmei would carefully prepare breakfast for Chen Daoming every day. In this way, a breakfast, a word of advice, and a meeting of eyes made this on-screen couple lovers in reality.
The seven-year itch did not wait, but their relationship was tested first. As Chen Daoming became more and more popular in the entertainment industry, announcements were made one after another, and the two got together less and left more.
But Yongmei chose to take a back seat during the rising period of her career, in order to be able to spend more time with her increasingly busy boyfriend.
But who would have thought that her concession not only did not bring stability to the relationship, but made the relationship between the two weaker and weaker. As a result, Yongmei began to devote her energy to the business world, and with the professional background of the School of International Trade and Economics, she also broke into a world in the shopping mall.
From a popular actress to a strong woman in the business world, Yongmei has proved with her strength that she is not just a vase that can act.
However, career success cannot fill the emotional void. After seven years of relationship, in the end, he still did not escape the curse of "gathering less and leaving more". As soon as the news of the breakup came out, I don't know how many fans were heartbroken.
In fact, the truth is far from so bloody. As Yongmei later said: "Some people are only suitable for cooperation, not for love." These words sound sad, but they say the common problems of many celebrity couples.
When both people put their careers first, feelings naturally become dispensable accessories.
However, attentive netizens found that even after the breakup, Chen Daoming would still mention Yongmei in the interview. Every time I talk about her, there is a trace of regret and appreciation in my tone.
This may be the breakup of mature people, no tearing, no slander, all that is left is good memories.
And Yongmei, after experiencing this unforgettable relationship, knows better what true love is.
A twist of fate: the story behind a return to showbiz
Who said that actresses can only play mothers after the age of 35? Yongmei proved with her strength that good actors are regardless of age. But she was able to return to the entertainment industry because of a man behind her, and that was her husband Luan Shu.
To be honest, when Yongmei decided to make a comeback, many people thought she was making a fool. How old are you and what good roles can you play? The market is so cruel, can it really stand up? But Luan Shu stood firmly on his wife's side, he said: "You originally ate this bowl of rice, you can act if you want to, I support you."
In this way, Yongmei began her "second venture". It was really not easy at first, and there were always people who said that she was "not the right age" during the audition, but Luan Shu always comforted her at the first time: "They don't know how to appreciate your acting skills, this is their loss."
"Sometimes, a simple word of encouragement can be powerful.
Luanshu's support is not just lip service. Every time Yongmei filmed, he would take the time to visit the class and give her her her favorite snacks. The crew said that Yongmei's husband was the most intimate celebrity family member they had ever seen.
And every time Yongmei sees Luan Shu coming to visit the class, her eyes will light up, and she will be as happy as a little girl.
Hard work pays off. Yongmei's performance over the years has impressed insiders. She has proved with one good work after another that a good actor will not be defeated by time.
When she finally lifted the double queen trophy, the audience applauded, but the most emotional thing was the man who watched her silently.
Interestingly, the couple "complemented" each other in their careers in a very interesting way. When Yongmei encountered a bottleneck in her acting career, Luan Shu's music creation was blossoming; And when Yongmei returned to the film industry and shined, Luan Shu was willing to be her "agent" and silently supported behind the scenes.
Now Yongmei still maintains her love for acting. She said: "With Luan Shu behind me, I have the courage to chase my dreams.
A legendary woman who walked out of Hohhot
But the most poignant thing is Yongmei's childhood. In a traditional Inner Mongolia family, her daughter is not taken seriously. The favor and attention of the family seems to have been given to the younger brother who was born later.
Xiao Yongmei often wonders: Is it because she is not good-looking that she is not liked by her family? This kind of thinking has made her particularly eager to be recognized since she was a child.
Destiny is all about jokes. As she grew older, Yongmei's beauty gradually revealed. When she was in college, she studied at the Institute of International Trade and Economics, and originally wanted to become a business elite after graduation.
Who knew that her good looks attracted the attention of the modeling circle, and in this way, she stepped into this circle in a daze, and really let her earn the first pot of gold in her life.
But Yongmei is not the master who eats by her face. She won the hosting opportunity of the "Date Sunday" program with her strength, and since then she has started her acting career.
Interestingly, although Yongmei was born in the north, she always gives people the feeling of a Jiangnan woman. There is tenacity in gentleness, and stubbornness is hidden in tenderness. This contrast makes her unique in the entertainment industry.
Even Chen Daoming said back then: "Yongmei's temperament cannot be imitated by others."
Today's Yongmei has long gotten rid of the shadow of childhood. "I'm thankful for the experiences that have taught me to be strong," she said. And this strength not only helped her gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry, but also allowed her to withstand many tests in her 29 years of married life.
Behind the seemingly glamorous star life, Yongmei and Luanshu's marriage has also faced many challenges.
The trials and truths behind the 29-year marriage
The marriage in the entertainment industry can last three years, even if it is a long-distance run, but Yongmei and Luan Shu have gone through 29 years. But who said that the life of a fairy couple must be a fairy tale? They have also experienced the darkest moments of their lives.
A few years ago, Yongmei lost her parents one after another, and suddenly fell into deep grief. During that time, she was almost not interested in anything, even her favorite performances were put down.
Luan Shu saw it in his eyes and felt pain in his heart. He knew that what his wife needed was not words of comfort, but a harbor that would allow her to escape from reality temporarily.
So, Luan Shu made a decision that surprised everyone: he bought a horse farm. Yongmei, who grew up in Inner Mongolia, has had a special relationship with horses since she was a child.
Luan Shu remembers that she once said, "When I ride a horse, I feel like the whole world is mine."
In this way, Yongmei began her journey of "healing on horseback". Whenever she was in a low mood, she would go to the horse farm and ride a horse on the grassland. Luan Shu always followed her silently, for fear that something would happen to her.
Gradually, the brilliance in Yongmei's eyes returned.
However, on the road of 29 years of marriage, the biggest regret is that I failed to give birth to a crystallization of love. This couple, who are proud of their careers, have repeatedly suffered setbacks in having children.
The Chinese medicine that Yongmei has drunk may not be able to be drunk by others in a lifetime. But every time Luan Shu saw his wife swallowing the Chinese medicine with the bitter taste, he would feel a faint pain in his heart.
Finally one day, Luan Shu said to Yongmei: "Stop torturing yourself, it's good for us to be like this." It was this sentence that made Yongmei let go of the obsession of having to be a mother.
She understands that sometimes, love itself is the best gift.
Today, they are still recognized as a model couple in the circle. There is no vigorous show of affection, no glamorous marketing, and some are just foaming in firewood, rice, oil and salt.
At Luan Shu's concert, Yongmei always sat in the audience and listened silently; When Yongmei was filming, Luan Shu was always waiting quietly behind the set.
29 years, not long, not short. But in this "flash marriage and divorce" entertainment industry, Yongmei and Luan Shu use plain but sincere love to interpret what it means to "hold the hand of the son and grow old with the son".