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Ye Ke's live broadcast broke the news, and he packed out his father's "gentleman" past and appearance similar to Andy Lau, and successfully brought a wave of hot searches.
Compared with the appearance of this suave father, what everyone pays more attention to is his advice that "men are unreliable".
Netizens threw out the classic Internet slang: "A man's mouth, a deceitful ghost, a man is reliable, and pigs will go up the tree." This statement is ruthless, and it directly gives a negative score to the credibility of the "man", as if this "man" is inherently unable to be counted on.
But when these words came out of Ye Ke's father's mouth, it was quite a slap in the face. After all, this father was a typical representative of the dashing when he was young, and even fell into embarrassment because his ex-girlfriend came to the door to force marriage, which really taught his daughter a lesson: "Look, men are so virtuous." So, since he was a child, he instilled in Ye Ke the concept of "don't trust men", as if all men in the world were carved out of one mold, and all of them were unreliable.
However, netizens laughed "hahaha" and began to think seriously: Should Ye Ke also doubt his father? Dad told you not to trust men, so how are you sure he's telling the truth? This logic has changed, and it is a bit interesting, even Ye Ke himself may not have thought of it, it turns out that his father's advice can still have this kind of reverse understanding.
Let's go back to Ye Ke's own growth story. She heard her father's "men can't be trusted" set of rhetoric a lot, and originally thought it would affect her view of love, but she didn't expect Ye Ke to learn another key truth under the influence of her mother: "It's your own business to be unhappy, don't affect others." This sentence is a bit Zen, how to say it, the world is so big, regardless of whether a man is reliable or not, don't expect others to be responsible for your happiness. Ye Ke herself said that she has never become negative about life because of these teachings, but has always faced challenges with a smile, which is quite sunny.
As for Ye Ke's relationship with Huang Xiaoming, netizens are also very concerned, speculating how Ye Ke balances her father's advice with her own view of love.
Some people are worried that her age will affect her fertility, and others ridicule Huang Xiaoming that she may be more careful, after all, his girlfriend has been instilled with the theory of "men are unreliable" since she was a child, will Huang Xiaoming's future be a little difficult? Some people even said that Ye Ke wanted to use his relationship to verify the "law of true fragrance", saying that he didn't believe in love, but he still fell in love sweetly, and it was not ambiguous to slap his face.
At the end of the day, this incident makes people rethink the matter of "trust". Ye Ke's father was indeed a little unreliable when he was young, but to say that all men are unreliable because of this, is it a bit of a generalization? Feelings sometimes depend on what angle you look at. Dad's advice may be more from his own experience, but Ye Ke's mother's sentence "Don't let unhappiness affect others" reveals a kind of detached wisdom. Believe it or not, whether you can rely on it or not, in fact, is not the point, the key is how to deal with your emotions and attitude towards life. Through his mother's words, Ye Ke learned to face life independently, and finally smiled and lived transparently, which is the most worthy of learning.
So in the end, the editor would like to ask: Do you think Ye Ke's father's advice is really universal? Does "men are unreliable" really apply to all men? What do you think about this?