Chen Qiaoen replied to netizens, is it really "your" to have a baby or not?
Recently, 45-year-old Chen Qiaoen responded to netizens' birth-urging remarks on social platforms, sparking a heated discussion about whether women should have children. The actress, who has just been married for less than 20 days, said bluntly: "I don't think I'm so patient with children. This remark instantly exploded on the Internet, and voices for and against came one after another.
The spawning army attacked, and Chen Qiaoen responded domineeringly
Chen Qiaoen has always been the focus of the entertainment industry, from her love to marriage, every step has attracted much attention. When she was newly married for less than a month, netizens couldn't wait to start giving birth. In the face of these remarks, Chen Qiaoen did not choose to remain silent, but responded directly on social platforms.
She admits that she is not a particularly patient person and feels that she may not be able to take good care of her children. What's more, she mentioned her age, believing that having children at the age of 45 could be dangerous. As soon as this remark came out, it immediately sparked a heated discussion among netizens.
Some people support Chen's decision, arguing that everyone has the right to choose whether to have children or not. But some people think that she is a bit too selfish to say this, thinking that marriage should have children. There are even people who say that not having children is irresponsible, sorry for parents and society.
Celebrities are also ordinary people, why are they forced to have babies?
To be honest, I think these spawned netizens are really a bit excessive. Celebrities are also ordinary people, why should they be forced to have babies? Besides, Chen Qiaoen is 45 years old, and it is indeed quite risky to have a child at this age.
I remember a few years ago, there was an actress about 40 years old who had a big physical problem after giving birth, as if she had postpartum depression and almost committed suicide. This kind of thing really makes people feel hairy, and who can guarantee that they won't encounter this situation?
Moreover, it is really not easy to raise children now. Just thinking about the expensive tuition, cram school fees, and all sorts of extra expenses can be overwhelming. Not to mention being on call 24 hours a day, ready to deal with your child's problems. To be honest, I think Chen Qiaoen can honestly admit that he may not have enough patience, which is a sign of responsibility.
Whether to have a baby or not, who should I listen to?
In fact, it is not only Chen Qiaoen who is facing this kind of pressure. Many married women are often asked the question "when will they have children". Sometimes I'm really speechless, as if it's a big rebellion to not have children after getting married.
I have a friend who has been married for two years and has not had children, and every time he goes home for the Chinese New Year, he is bombarded by his relatives in turn. asked her why she didn't give birth, whether there was a physical problem, and some people even hinted that her husband was not good. This kind of pressure is really devastating.
But then again, having children or not is a very personal decision. Some people think that life is complete when they have children, while others think that freedom is more important. How can there be a right or wrong thing like this? Everyone's choice should be respected.
The risks of advanced maternal age cannot be ignored
When it comes to the issue of Chen Qiaoen's birth at the age of 45, it is indeed impossible not to increase the risk of maternal age. According to medical experts, women over the age of 35 will indeed face more challenges when giving birth.
For example, elderly women are more likely to have complications such as gestational diabetes and high blood pressure. Also, the fetus is more susceptible to chromosomal abnormalities. I remember reading a statistic that it seemed that pregnant women over the age of 35 had a significantly higher incidence of Down syndrome.
However, medical technology is also advancing. As long as you do a good job of prenatal care, many risks can be controlled. However, I think Chen Qiaoen took these risks into account and chose not to have children, which is also a very rational decision.
Everyone has a choice
In general, I think whether or not to have children is really everyone's own business. Whether it is Chen Qiaoen or ordinary people, they should have the right to make decisions about their own lives.
Instead of urging others to have children, netizens should care more about their own lives. After all, everyone's life path is different, and there is no need to impose your own values on others.
I still have to say that Chen Qiaoen is really brave to be able to express his thoughts frankly. In this crowded society, it is really not easy to dare to insist on your own ideas. I hope everyone can be like her, bravely make choices for their own lives, instead of being bound by the expectations of others.
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