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Yu Qiuyu, perhaps many people are familiar with this name, his book "Cultural Journey" can be said to be very famous in the Chinese literary world, and few people do not know it.
However, it is a pity that although it is famous, not everyone is willing to read this book when they can calm down, and people appreciate literary works, but often do not have much desire to read them.
In stark contrast to the work, people are often extremely interested in the author's private life, and what is the person who can write such a work like in private? With such curiosity, let's talk about Yu Qiuyu's personal feelings today, why Yu Qiuyu's ex-wife even scolded him as a hypocrite.
In 1946, Yu Qiuyu was born, and when Yu Qiuyu was a child, New China was in a time when everything was in ruins, and there was an urgent desire for talents.
Perhaps seeing the importance of future talents, in 1957, when Yu Qiuyu was only 11 years old, his parents even moved the whole family to downtown Shanghai in order to enjoy a better education for him.
Although I moved to Shanghai, I only borrowed someone else's house, and my family's life was definitely not rich.
In 1963, Yu Qiuyu did not live up to the expectations of his family, according to China.com information, Yu Qiuyu was admitted to the Department of Drama and Literature of Shanghai Theater Academy, so his parents were quite dignified when they said it.
If they have not experienced the polishing of reality and have not really felt the hardships of life, many writers, even if they write about the lives of poor people, are often floating in the air, relying entirely on imagination and not at all in line with reality.
At the beginning, Yu Qiuyu was the same, although he was quite talented in literature, but what he wrote always had a feeling of moaning without illness, however, God did not let Yu Qiuyu waste such a talent, during the time when Yu Qiuyu was in college, the domestic political situation was quite chaotic, and Yu Qiuyu was not immune.
This period of suffering became the cornerstone of Yu Qiuyu's understanding of the poor people, and at that time, modern Chinese literature had not had a work that directly hit the hearts of the people for too long, so when Yu Qiuyu's book on cultural hardships was released, it caused a huge response in the literary world.
Who is Yu Qiuyu? What a talent this guy is! This book is so well written! At that time, the topic of the literary world was basically inseparable from the name Yu Qiuyu, and Yu Qiuyu suddenly gained a firm foothold in the literary world, which is something that many writers cannot do in their lifetime.
Perhaps because of the work, or because of the strong ability, Yu Qiuyu was a teacher at the Shanghai Theater Academy at that time, and one day, a young girl contacted Yu Qiuyu.
The photo is Li Hong, Li Hong at that time, she was still a little shy in front of the camera, but the young girl's vigor and vitality were still involuntarily reflected, which made people feel good and couldn't help but smile.
Li Hong, that is, Yu Qiuyu's first wife, Li Hong, who was also admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, has a good impression of Yu Qiuyu, who used to be his senior and later became a teacher.
Li Hong found Yu Qiuyu, in fact, he also had something to ask for, if you only look at the strength, Li Hong went to the Shanghai Theater Academy, which was more than enough, but at that time, the admission was to review the family.
And Li Hong's family conditions did not meet the admission requirements, which made Li Hong, who had always regarded the Shanghai Theater Academy as her life goal, doubly devastated, and even rushed to the hospital when she was ill, and began to ask Yu Qiuyu, a famous literati, for help.
However, the school's rigid rules say that Yu Qiuyu is just a teacher, and he can't solve Li Hong's problem at all, even if he feels pity for this girl, he can only help Li Hong's problem.
People often have a good impression of literati, as long as they are not too literary, especially those famous literati, and this kind of good impression sometimes even breeds romance, because there are not a few people who fall in love with the author of the work.
When communicating with Yu Qiuyu about admission, Li Hong felt that Yu Qiuyu was exactly the same as the person who wrote about the cultural journey in his imagination, and in Li Hong's heart, the person who wrote the cultural journey should be such an elegant, easy-going and knowledgeable person.
With an easy-going and elegant personality, coupled with Yu Qiuyu's reputation in the literary world, Li Hong soon fell in love, and Yu Qiuyu also had a good impression of this girl who admired her, and the two of them soon came to meet their parents.
Li Hong's parents, after knowing that Yu Qiuyu was busy with Li Hong's enrollment problem, can be said to be quite satisfied with this boy, and confidently and boldly entrusted their daughter to Yu Qiuyu.
Li Hong and Li Hong's parents thought at first that Li Hong and Yu Qiuyu would also be able to spend a happy life, but no one would have thought that they would end up in divorce.
People who are in love are blind, and under the stimulation of dopamine, they tend to ignore each other's shortcomings, only notice each other and meet their own requirements, and shout that they have found a life partner, Li Hong and Yu Qiuyu are like this.
But after getting married, the two people get along longer than when they are in love, and getting along is no longer as simple as having a meal and a date, but also taking into account the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, and the contradictions between the two people have gradually become prominent.
Yu Qiuyu likes literature and drama more, but Li Hong doesn't like it, Li Hong didn't get into the Shanghai Theater Academy in the end, but Yu Qiuyu's cultural level can serve as a teacher there, and it's okay for the two of them to exchange some superficial problems, once the problem is deep, the contradiction between the two people is almost inevitable.
When they first got married, the two of them blended oil in honey, and these problems could barely be ignored, but after a long time, there was always a time when they were exposed.
Li Hong has also changed from the beginning of the ten fingers not touching the spring water, to a housewife who can do all kinds of housework at her fingertips, just to let Yu Qiuyu create with peace of mind and give Yu Qiuyu a better creative environment.
After the birth of the first child of the two people, the family's economic conditions were already tight, but the house leak happened to rain overnight, and Yu Qiuyu got hepatitis again, and the treatment was a big expense.
In the past, if the small family had insufficient funds, Li Hong's father had a factory and could get subsidies from his father, but at that time, the family's factory happened to be inefficient, and it was obviously hopeless to take money from the family.
So, in order to allow the family to operate normally, Li Hong went to work in other places and came to Shenzhen, even if she misses her husband and children at home, even if she works hard.
As long as Li Hong thinks that the money she earns can make the children in her family live a happier life, and her husband can create with peace of mind, she has the motivation to persevere.
When Li Hong's work was on the right track, the children were gradually growing up, and her husband's hepatitis was gradually improving, what Li Hong didn't know was that her husband Yu Qiuyu cheated on her husband because she was away from home.
During the Spring Festival of that year, Li Hong went home happily for the New Year, and when she was cleaning at home, she cleaned up the table, and one of the envelopes caught Li Hong's attention, with two big love letters on it, so that Li Hong could not ignore it.
is an old husband and wife, why are you still doing this, Li Hong pretended to complain about Yu Qiuyu, but his heart was sweet, he thought that this love letter was written to him by his husband, so he opened the envelope with great interest, but the more he looked at it, the more pale his face became.
Malan
The photo was written by her husband well, but the recipient was not Li Hong, but a person named Ma Lan, who is Ma Lan, who has been working away from home for too long, Li Hong is not very familiar with Yu Qiuyu's dating circle, and after many inquiries, she knows that this is an actor.
Yu Qiuyu, once when he went to watch Huangmei Opera, sat with Ma Lan, the two had similar interests and similar opinions, Yu Qiuyu became interested all of a sudden, and the relationship between the two became naturally close.
With the deepening of the relationship between the two people, although they did not pierce the layer of window paper, the goodwill of the two people has broken through the boundaries of ordinary friends, and the communication is even more ambiguous, like a couple in love.
Li Hong looked at the words on the love letter, maybe Yu Qiuyu also said these words to her, but time has passed, the passion of the past is no longer there, and it has become an established fact that her husband falls in love with others.
Do you want to pretend that you don't know how to continue with your husband? Just for the sake of the children? Li Hong felt unbearable heartache at the thought of this, she didn't want to live her life with someone who didn't love her, so even if she was reluctant to her husband and this originally happy family, he still resolutely chose to divorce Yu Qiuyu.
Yu Qiuyu knew that after his wife saw the love letter, she was not without panic, but perhaps she was more relieved, and Li Hong divorced him quite easily, which made Yu Qiuyu even more pleasantly surprised, so that he could boldly pursue his love with Ma Lan.
However, while chasing love, he is also guilty of his ex-wife's children, and apologies are of course inevitable, in that world, it is not easy for a divorced woman, not to mention that this woman still has a child, so Yu Qiuyu promised to pay the child living expenses every month.
After divorcing Li Hong, it didn't take long for Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan to enter the palace of marriage, and this marriage has even lasted to this day, even if she married Ma Lan, Yu Qiuyu did not forget to take care of the daughter born by her ex-wife, and her financial support has never been broken.
This photo was taken by Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan, the two of them were intimate, Yu Qiuyu put his hand on Ma Lan's shoulder, Ma Lan looked at Yu Qiuyu, and her face was full of the shyness and dependence of her little daughter.
Perhaps because of her failed marriage, or because her former husband and another woman were too affectionate, Li Hong posted a long Weibo post titled "My Rogue Ex-Husband Yu Qiuyu" on Weibo, according to the Observer.com, in which Li Hong scolded Yu Qiuyu as a "hypocrite".
"No one knows this hypocrite better than I do...... There is always a kind of beast dressed in clothes, there is always an accomplice who squeezes tears, there is always a kind of hooligan who calls himself a master......"
In all fairness, after the divorce, Yu Qiuyu did not have much problem with the handling of his ex-wife and his children, but Li Hong's scolding of Yu Qiuyu was also reasonable.
Cheating in marriage, Yu Qiuyu did leave Li Hong with a very bad experience, she worked hard for the family outside, but her husband was in love with other women at home, and it was natural for Li Hong to scold Yu Qiuyu.
If it is really a gentleman, then his words and deeds must be restrained, and he must not be out of line, and Yu Qiuyu has not done this yet, so it is understandable that Li Hong scolded him as a hypocrite.
Resources:
Observer.com - Yu Qiuyu's Weibo statement responds to divorce rumors, alluding to Sha Yexin 2013-04-29
China Net Information - After Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan got married, they were scolded for more than ten years, Wang Shuo angrily criticized him for "not being a cultural person, not entering the stream", Liang Hongda scolded him for being hypocritical, but he only replied lightly2023-08-03
Minnan Net - Yu Qiuyu and the beautiful writer fornicated with his wife Ma Lan filed a divorce lawsuit2013-04-25