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The wind from the collapsed house blew to a certain community again.
This time, it was Qin Gongzi.
A small essay by his ex-girlfriend directly sent him to the hot search.
She had aborted two children for him.
When she learned for the first time that she was pregnant, she was very happy, but Qin Gongzi demanded that she must be killed.
She cried and begged to keep the child, and was willing to quit the circle to take care of the family, but Qin was resolutely opposed.
The doctor said that the ultrasound showed that the gestational sac was too small to be seen and could not be operated, so it was recommended to wait at least a month before having an abortion in order to ensure safety.
How cruel is abortion surgery?
At eight or nine weeks, the fetus has begun to take on a human form, and its fingers begin to explore the mother's womb.
A cold metal probe is inserted through the woman's lower body, deep into the uterine cavity, and then a straw with a negative pressure device is sent into the uterine fundus.
As soon as the machine is turned on, a suction force equivalent to 20 times that of a household vacuum cleaner will tear the fetus into pieces and suck it out of the uterine cavity.
She didn't know what kind of mood she had, stayed up until the day, and said goodbye to the baby.
The man comforted her that if she got pregnant again, she would get married.
The woman agreed, continued to follow the man, and did not take any safety measures.
When she showed the man the pregnancy test stick again, the man still looked indifferent: "Wait, career rise, don't want this child." ”
She lost another child.
The doctor told her that it would be difficult to be a mother in the future.
Looking for a man again, it is still a cold treatment.
She woke up from her hospital bed again and again, and there was no response from her phone.
Thinking back to the man's many cheating, cold and violent, I finally understood:
Getting married is just a flicker of the sperm's brain, tossing a few times, and in the end she is the only one who is injured.
In that little essay, she wrote:
"It's come to this point, I hope all girls take me as a warning, protect themselves in their relationships, and love others before themselves."
Physically and mentally damaged, in exchange for this lesson.
I don't often write about these intimate topics, but this time I made an exception to talk about a few words to warn those self-righteous loves.
Enjoy love, enjoy sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.
However, if you are unmarried, or if you are married and do not plan to have children, be sure to ask your partner to take safety precautions.
In bed, the essence of human beings can be observed most directly.
A man's bedding is his character.
99% of men who advocate not using safety measures can be classified as scumbags.
Think about it, how can a man who is unwilling to avoid even the most basic controllable risks put himself in your shoes?
Where will the bottom line be for a man who can even break a matter of principle?
He doesn't really love you, he just wants to cool off.
When the lust recedes, whether it is an illness or an unplanned pregnancy, it is always you who takes the risk and pays the price.
Talk about two things around you.
My sister's roommate,Got a deal with it when I was a freshman.。
Every time a boy has sex, he doesn't take safety measures.
"I don't feel well, I don't like it, I don't feel it."
Her roommate, who has been in college for four years, has had several abortions.
After graduation, the two talked about marriage, but it was difficult for the girl to conceive children again because of too many miscarriages.
At this time, the boy's family quit: "I'm sorry, our family must have a queen." ”
The boy was silent, the girl was in tears, four years of youth, fed to the dog.
Another story is that a girl who was originally unmarried, but got a certificate with the current one.
Once, after drinking and spitting the truth, she said:
"The first time I had a relationship with him, when I was in love, I found that there was no condom.
Although he was in high spirits, he stopped and went downstairs.
Later, when it rose again, I suddenly had a stomachache and snorted.
It was quiet, but he noticed.
I was distressed and asked me what was wrong, then ran to the pharmacy to buy me painkillers, and also brought a cup of hot jujube tea and took care of me all night. ”
At that moment, she understood that this man was worth marrying.
A man with poor bedding must not be much better in character.
A man who only cares about his own well-being, doesn't care about his partner's feelings, doesn't respect his partner's body, and is cold when he finishes his work, is just venting his lust and has no desire to protect.
When a man is not protective of his partner, the woman is equivalent to a tool.
Throw away the tools when they are broken, and replace them when they are rotten.
In the face of such a man, you only need to say one word to him: get out.
Feelings are actually very practical.
Look at a man, don't look at what he says, look at how he does.
To talk about love in the wild, and to have sex without protection, is to fart.
They can't empathize with the pain of being pregnant before marriage.
Netizen @清清 said that the daughter of her mother's colleague graduated from 211 and 985 double first-class schools, but she made a boyfriend who was not in the stream.
The girl's parents agreed that the boy was very poor and unmotivated, and did not approve of their daughter's relationship with him.
But the boy's motives were not pure, and he tricked the girl into leaving home to live together, and it didn't take long for her to have a big belly.
The reason is very simple, if she is pregnant, the woman has no way out, and she can take the opportunity to bargain for the bride price.
And the boy was so bad that he dragged it out until the girl was five or six months pregnant and then let her go home.
At that time, the abortion was too harmful to the body.
The woman had no choice but to find the man's family to come out and discuss the marriage.
The boy was a single parent, and there was only one mother in the family who had no education and no job.
At the dinner table, as soon as the opened his mouth, it was:
"Your family doesn't look down on our family, and our family is not uncommon to your family."
"Who knows if your girl is clean."
Inside and out, they are talking about the girl's belly, and they devalue a pearl in the palm of their hands to nothing.
The bride price of 188,000 yuan was sold to 20,000 yuan.
The woman also married 100,000 yuan and bought a car.
At the time of the wedding, the girl's belly was so big that she couldn't wear a wedding dress, and the woman's family couldn't raise their heads.
No matter how young people beautify and say elopement as a brave pursuit of love, but others poke your parents in the backbone and say that your daughter does not love herself, and they have nothing to refute.
A good only child, playing the cards to a pulp.
It was supposed that she broke off with this man, and her parents gave Zhang Luo a good young man around her, and then married 300,000 yuan, who knew that she was pregnant before marriage, and gambled on the face of the whole family to fulfill her so-called love.
And the more she is like this, the more the man thinks she is cheap.
Otherwise, how could she be trampled under her feet along with her pride, and the gossip of the rest of her life was attached.
Men, not only do not lose, but also earn blood.
It's cool, I got a white rich beauty, and I picked up a pair of mother-in-law and father-in-law who couldn't bear to see their daughter suffer, and now they are no longer in class, and they take their mothers to gnaw on their daughter-in-law's family.
It all started with just a condom.
So girls, listen to me.
No protection, no sex.
This is not a tiger and wolf word, it is a real vernacular.
I am not against premarital sex, only against unmarried pregnancy, please think twice when love comes up:
"Is it safe sex?"
"Is it your true will?"
"If there is an accident, can you withstand the double irreversible damage of both physical and psychological damage?"
Don't be shy and dare not refuse, don't be able to resist soft grinding and hard bubbles, and don't be carried away by lust.
The promise in bed is not credible, don't wait until something happens, someone else picks up your pants and runs away, leaving you alone to face the mess.
Chromophobia is also sexual, but healthy, to be ranked before sex.
Nowadays, there is a lot of talk about equality between men and women, but women are still at a disadvantage in these areas.
From a male point of view, it doesn't matter if you wear a condom or not, get pregnant before marriage, or get married with a child, we have nothing to lose.
But girls are different, the first option is wrong, and they are facing a series of car accidents.
Out-of-control choices bring about unplanned marriages, once there is a problem, the beauty in love can disappear in an instant, and when the conflict accumulates to a certain extent, you can only divorce.
What about the children who follow the unexpected?
Two people who became parents without being prepared are not financially independent, naïve in their thinking, and constantly contradictory, whether it is their children's food, clothing, daily life or education, they can't do well.
Divorce frees adults, but children can't escape the cage for the rest of their lives.
I don't want women to be passive, I don't want you to be pushed by accidents and impulsiveness, and you lose your dominance.
Although the happiness of that moment belongs to two people, all the risks are borne by you.
Don't listen to the lie of "it's okay if you don't wear it once in a while", and don't listen to the lie of "get married and I'll raise you when you're pregnant".
No passion is more important than your health, and no relationship is worth transitioning from girl to mother when you're unprepared.
Girl, always treat yourself like a treasure.
I hope that male friends understand that respecting and caring for their lover's body is the greatest charm of men.
What does that slogan come about?
There are thousands of roads, and safety is the first.
The driving is not standardized, and the relatives are in tears.
(Excerpted from the WeChat public account Mr. Wang Er)