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In January 2013, the Xuzhou Court in Jiangsu Province staged a "love tragicomedy".
Brother Dashan angrily sued his ex-girlfriend Jingjing and demanded compensation of 500,000 yuan for "love liquidated damages".
What's going on?
It turned out that the seemingly romantic "guarantee" four years ago was the fault!
Once a sweet little couple, is now a sweet candy or a hurtful blade in love in court?
Let's listen to me, the emotional entanglement of the post-90s generation will definitely make you shout: "Love, it's so difficult!" "
The atmosphere in the courtroom was tense like a pot of water about to boil.
Dashan sat in the plaintiff's seat, his eyes reddened, as if he had been greatly wronged.
Jing Jing's expression was calm, and there was a hint of helplessness in his eyes when he sat in the defendant's seat.
"Judge, I have given everything for her, but she is ruthless and unjust!" Dashan's voice was a little choked.
Jing calmly retorted: "I just chose the right path in life, why should I pay for your wishful thinking?" "
Dashan excitedly patted the case: "In the past four years, I have spent nearly 40,000 yuan for you, and the guarantee of 500,000 yuan!" "
Jing Jing was not to be outdone: "I only owe you 8,000 yuan for tuition, and the rest is your willingness, I didn't force you!" "
Listening to the argument between the two, I couldn't help but fall into deep thought.
To be honest, Dashan's family is good, and his parents are living a good life when they open a small shop.
And Jingjing's family is miserable, and my father is carrying the burden of the whole family alone, and it is so difficult that it is like walking a tightrope.
Such a comparison of Dashan's behavior is simply a "rich second generation" playing prestige!
It really fulfills the saying: without contrast, there is no harm.
But the judge doesn't have to eat this set of emotional cards.
After some verbal war, the court finally ruled that the guarantee had no legal effect, and Jingjing only needed to return 8,000 yuan in tuition.
Dashan's face turned green after hearing the verdict, and he was like an emoji and probably complained frantically in his heart: "This is too difficult!" "
Jing Jing breathed a sigh of relief, as if she had unloaded a thousand pounds of burden.
This verdict was simply a resounding slap in the face, which woke up people who were immersed in love fantasies.
It silently reminds us that love is not a sweet marshmallow, but a small shop that needs to be run by both parties.
It's too naïve to want to bind people with a few pieces of paper, right?
This reminds me of an Internet buzzword: "Love is precious, but freedom is more expensive." "
It seems that Dashan still needs to learn the true meaning of love!
After listening to this farce, I couldn't help but fall into deep thought.
How did this disputed pledge come about?
Let's turn the clock to that hot summer of 2009.
At that time, Jingjing had just finished the college entrance examination, and was waiting for the university admission letter with great antigence.
When the acceptance letter came as scheduled, it was quiet but mixed blessings.
I am happy that her dream has come true, but I am worried that her family's financial situation does not allow her to continue her studies.
This can make Jing Jing sad, and his head is wilted all day long, like an eggplant that has been beaten by frost.
Just as she was about to give up her college dream, Oyama stepped forward like a knight in the sun.
"Don't worry, I'm here to help you!" Oyama swore by it.
After listening quietly, my eyes lit up like stars in the sky, and my heart was full of emotion.
However, there is no such thing as a free lunch.
Dashan's parents are also human spirits, for fear that Jing Jing will "cross the river and tear down the bridge" in the future.
And so the famous guarantee was born.
Jing Jing promised to marry Dashan after graduation, otherwise he would pay 500,000 yuan.
The scene at that time was even sweeter than an idol drama, and the air was filled with pink bubbles.
Speaking of which, I have to insert a history of their childhood sweethearts.
The two grew up together since childhood, and they are simply standard CP next door.
The Dashan family is so rich that they don't have to worry about eating and drinking; Jingjing's family is so poor that they are frugal.
Dashan learns crooked melons and cracked dates, and the transcript is full of red lights; Jingjing is a top student, and she is among the best in the next exam.
This duo is simply a copy of the domineering president falling in love with Cinderella!
On the day of signing the guarantee, I was quietly full of joy, as if I saw a broad road to happiness.
Dashan was even more proud, and the smile on his face was brighter than if he had just won the 5 million jackpot.
But who would have thought that this seemingly romantic piece of paper would later become a talisman for their love!
Looking back, I can't help but sigh: young and ignorant, love is supreme!
Where is this guarantee, it is clearly a "love deed of sale"!
But who hasn't been young and frivolous?
At that time, they probably never dreamed that this promise would become a mantra in the future.
With that hot promise, I quietly stepped into the university gate with great anticipation.
The four years of college should have been the golden period for the relationship between Jing Jing and Dashan, but who expected it to become the period of their love preservation.
In the first days, Dashan simply turned into an "electric small motor", and ran to Xuzhou every three or five days.
He bought this and that for Jingjing, and he was so generous that he was like a nouveau riche, and he was a little embarrassed to be quiet.
Jingjing is also so moved that she can't help it, and she can't wait to serve Dashan as an uncle.
Seeing the mountains coming, she was more excited than beating the chicken blood, and even rushed to do such things as washing clothes.
That scene is even sweeter than the plot in the Korean drama, and it makes me want to get a box of dog food.
But the nature of Changshan is gradually exposed, and it is simply a "reversal of life".
It turned out that he was an adopted child, who had been insecure since he was a child, and there were more inner dramas than Qiong Yao dramas.
It's out of control! The mountain became suspicious, more sensitive than Sherlock Holmes.
Quietly talk to the male classmate, he can be jealous for three days and three nights, as if the vinegar in the world has been wrapped by him.
What's worse is that Dashan is gradually getting into the vice of gambling and alcoholism, and it is simply going downhill.
Every time he loses money, he sprinkles his anger on Jingjing, and uses Jingjing as a punching bag.
A few times he even moved his hand and pushed Jing Jing to the ground, which is simply the advanced stage of "straight male cancer"!
Quietly thought to herself, "Is this still the mountain I know?" It feels like he's not feeling good! "
To be honest, Dashan's behavior is simply a textbook-level demonstration of "how to die quickly".
Jing Jing has been swallowing her anger, after all, people have helped her pay her tuition, and she always feels that she owes a favor.
But endure and endure love has deteriorated like this, just like milk that has been left for a long time, so sour that it is difficult to swallow.
I can't help but sigh: What kind of sweet love is this, it is clearly a "torture competition" that lasts for four years.
The quiet university life should be colorful, but it was made miserable by the mountains.
Her classmates are in love, but she is worried every day, for fear of provoking this "time bomb".
I really don't want to live this kind of life!
Finally, one day, Jing Jing could no longer bear this feeling of suffocation.
She took a deep breath and plucked up the courage to say to Dashan, "We are really not suitable, let's break up." "
This sentence is like a thunderclap, splitting the mountain to the outside and the inside.
He was immediately furious, like an enraged bull: "You are crossing the river and demolishing the bridge!" Ungrateful! "
Jing Jing retorted with a wry smile: "I'm just telling the truth." You're so controlling, I'm out of breath. "
Dashan did not give up and shouted like a resentful woman: "What does the guarantee say? Are you trying to pay off? "
Jing Jing sighed helplessly: "It was just an impulse, and it can't be taken seriously." Feelings are not bought and sold, how can they be counted like this. "
At this moment, I can't help but sigh: love is like a cup of milk tea.
If you don't drink it in time, it will deteriorate and become bitter.
Isn't that the story of the mountains and the quiet?
From sweet love to bitter breakups, their relationship just can't stand the test of time.
Going back to the opening courtroom, we finally understand the ins and outs of this lawsuit.
This verdict is not only a verdict on money, but also a verdict on love.
It silently tells us that sincere feelings do not need to be measured by money.
Love and responsibility should be based on mutual understanding and respect, not on a dead letter.
Although the story of Dashan and Jingjing is over, their lives have just begun.
Looking back many years later, they will be grateful for the experience.
Because it is these twists and turns that make them learn to grow and learn the true meaning of love.
Jing Jing understands the importance of self-worth, and no longer wrongs herself for gratitude.
Daisen may reflect on his own actions and learn to trust and respect others.
This relationship is like a vivid life lesson, teaching them how to love and how to protect themselves.
Finally, let's zoom out and see what this story has to teach us.
In love, we should keep thinking independently and not be blinded by money and commitments.
At the same time, learn to love responsibly and not hurt each other with control and suspicion.
Love should be a process of two people growing together, not a game in which one party suppresses the other.
So the question is: if it were you, would you sign a letter of guarantee for love?
Or do you think true love needs to be guaranteed with money?
This story may make us think more deeply about love.
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