Text: Su Jian talks about life
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Teacher Feng Tang said:
"The smarter people are, the more peaceful they tend to be."
In life, many emotionally unstable people, each other's words, a look or a scene.
can make the inner war chaotic, and then all kinds of negative psychology gushes out.
When we are emotionally unstable, we tend to do things that we regret.
The biggest disaster for a person is that he has been unable to manage his emotions and have not been able to maintain a peaceful state.
If a person wants to overcome himself, the most important thing is to overcome emotions.
If you control your emotions, you control the source of life.
1. Can't control your emotions and can't keep your blessings
Kazuo Inamori said:
To see whether a person is strong or not, it depends on his emotional management.
In real-life bits and pieces, everyone has emotions.
If you can't control your emotions, you can easily become a slave to them.
As everyone knows, the greater the emotion, the shallower the blessing.
Zeng Guofan's personality in his early years was irritable, he often got angry over trivial things, or hurt people with bad words, so he offended many people.
Not only was he defeated by his good friends, but the court no longer trusted him.
Tsang's temper has affected his career.
In addition, Zeng Guofan, Zeng Guoquan, Zeng Guohua, and Zeng Guobao all had awkward troubles, and the incidents were all caused by Zeng Guofan.
Later, his mentor, Mr. Tang Jian, gave him a portrait of himself and persuaded him, and he began to introspect.
After returning to officialdom again, Zeng Guofan's temper changed a lot.
became extremely kind, humble and courteous, and his career gradually improved.
Everything in the world comes and goes definitely, and if there is a person or something that makes you feel wronged, you don't have to resent it.
Find out the reason, is there something wrong with you? If so, then refine it. If not, you have to be open-minded and let go of the past.
People who are in a bad mood can't keep their money, because anger drives away luck.
If you control your emotions well, your family will be better, your job will be better, your body will be better, and your financial luck will be better.......
If you don't control your emotions well, the above good will disappear without a trace.
All the blessings of a person in this life are hidden in emotions.
2. All bad emotions are paid for by you
"The Yellow Emperor's Neijing" says:
"Joy and sadness, anger hurts the liver, thoughts hurt the spleen, sad lungs, fear hurts the body".
When it comes to Lin Daiyu in "Dream of Red Mansions", our first feeling is: very emotional, crying all day long, small-minded, and loves to fight with others and get angry.
Lin Daiyu was originally a scholar in Jiangnan, and her mother was the daughter of Jiafu, but later because of the death of her parents, she lived in Jiafu and was lonely.
The heaven-sent marriage of wood and stone, the golden and jade relationship that is difficult to reach the reality, the life is cunning and the world is hot and cold, this weak woman can only bury her heart in the bottom of her heart.
Later, he fell into a lot of illness and depression, although he was well-fed and self-pitying, and his condition became more and more serious.
The sentimental Lin Daiyu was swayed by bad mood all year round, and finally died of depression.
In many cases, negative emotions are the biggest "killer" of health. ”
All of our emotions are fed back to every part of our body.
These bad emotions will wantonly relax the body's senses, and over time, the body will have a lot of bad situations.
If you are in a bad mood, no matter how good the health care products are, it is difficult to protect your health.
Don't keep it in your heart if you have something, emotions are like water, easy to sparse and not blocked.
Taking care of your emotions is more useful than any regimen.
Being kind to your emotions is the best health for a person.
3. People with strong hearts have long quit their emotions
Whether a person is weak or strong depends on his emotions.
The reason why people are in a bad mood is that they want too many things, which often leads to a lack of wisdom.
In this troubled world, it is impossible for people to be without emotions.
Be sure to learn to stabilize your emotions and control them.
Su Shi has had ups and downs in officialdom and has been degraded many times in his life.
But he has always maintained a good mood and an optimistic outlook.
When Su Shi's mood was low, he wrote poems to release his inner emotions.
Avoid a constant build-up of emotions that trigger anxiety and depression.
He can also enjoy the scenery and calm his emotions surrounded by nature.
In addition, he cooks a variety of cuisines.
It is precisely these loves that allow him to relieve his boredom and comprehend life.
The worse the temper, the worse the fate, even if you get a good hand, you will play poorly.
The life of our middle-aged people is to meet Buddha and demons every day.
Only by maintaining a peaceful mind and calmly facing the thousands of things in life can we give our lives a new look.
Many times, what determines the direction of your life is not IQ and talent, but the ability to control emotions.
Behind a person's emotional stability is strength and pattern.
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We are all ordinary people, we all have seven emotions and six desires, and only by transforming our emotions can we live a relaxed life.
This world is complicated on the surface, but in essence, it is still your own world.
Let's be an emotionally stable person, move forward steadily on the road of life, and reap our own happiness and success.
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