Feng Tang has always been known as the cross-border king, he became a multimillionaire with his own efforts, and then he wrote a book called "Ability", in this book, Feng Tang hit the nail on the head and said: If a person wants to make a breakthrough in what you do, he should face the world openly.
Feng Tang's life can be called legendary, after he obtained his medical doctorate, he turned to become a businessman, so he harvested wealth that ordinary people could not popularize in their lifetime, after Feng Tang gained financial freedom, he gave five words of advice to contemporary young people in the book "Ability":
1. Only the poor will be obsessed with technology, and only the stupid will want to do things well. The lower the person, the worse the ability to deal with interpersonal relationships, and the higher you go, the more you will find that you think that people are studying things every day, and they are often studying people.
In the book "Ability", Feng Tang directly wrote his perception of life, after you read this book, you will find that if a person really has the ability, it is not that this person is a highly educated graduate, nor because this person is in a high position, but no matter what happens, he has the courage to face the wind and rain of life, and is reborn in adversity, so as to realize the value of his life.
In this book, Feng Tang pointed out some things in interpersonal communication in combination with real life, when people knew what Feng Tang said, they suddenly realized in their hearts, in fact, if you want to be successful, you must make reasonable use of the resources in your hands, only by understanding human nature more thoroughly, can you get the first chance in some things, although Feng Tang said this sentence has some direct heart, but this is an indisputable fact in this society.
Second, deal with small level people, don't be too easy-going, the more you respect them, the easier it is for them to bully you, in their cognition, you talk to him well, he thinks you are easy to talk. Low-level people, who are very animalistic, tend to tear each other apart and do not pay attention to the rules. For some people, if you really want to gain their respect, you have to show that they are one level above him, otherwise they will kick their nose in the face.
In fact, after a person enters the society, he will find a problem, if you want to get the attention of your superiors, you must show the shameless spirit, although some young people want to change their sincerity no matter what, but it means that he will be unknown in his job for the rest of his life, because when you get along with people with the same position as you, you will find that before you know it, they will come and backstab you.
In fact, the reason for this is very simple. Because there is a word in this world called profit, in addition to another sentence called bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, if you go to the workplace to show a very easy-going time, they will have some people will think that you are a soft persimmon, but when you show your strong side, you will gain the respect of others.
In this world, everyone wants to be among the upper class, after all, people are the product of the environment, what kind of environment you are in, it means what kind of things you will get in the future, if you are blindly weak, it will make others think that you are a bully, so in a certain period, you must be strong, otherwise your future work will be a mess.
Three, it's just a part-time job, you're really good. Work is not a hard work, don't have an excessive sense of responsibility, and don't blindly take care of everything. If you don't do it, the company won't go out of business; If you work hard, your body will definitely collapse.
Colleagues talk about you and laugh it off; The leader criticizes you, don't take it to heart. Colleagues who are intrigued, don't listen, don't ask, don't mix, work quietly, and do their best is enough. Going to work earns a salary, not a mental loss fee, and being unhappy at work is simply a loss-making business. Going to work is a play, if others are angry with you, you are not angry, if you are angry, you will be happy.
Feng Tang said this sentence and said that countless people live in the hearts of grassroots workers, after you carefully read the book "Ability", you will find that if you are not in your unit, you will find that without you, after you leave, the unit is still running, in this world, there is a saying called a radish a pit, when you leave this pit, there will be another radish to make up.
In this way, when you are working, please don't do everything, then you will be like an old scalper is very tired, if you don't do some work, it will not have much impact on your unit at all, after all, you don't care in the eyes of your leader, when you read the book "Ability", you will find that there are actually many jobs that have no meaning at all. Today's leader's pie is big and round.
In this way, there are many young people, and they have a deep germination in their hearts: If I do this well, I will be reused by the boss, and at this time you are very wrong, after all, the company is not yours after all, you are just an employee.
Fourth, in the unit, tired and tired, idle and idle, if you are unfortunately tired, it can only be a reason, the leader may just treat you as an easy to control employee, a "free nanny" who can be called to do things at any time, if you still believe in the success of the set, it will be even worse.
Feng Tang said this sentence in the book "Ability", although it is very simple, but it speaks the voice of countless workers, in this era there are many people who fight to the end for their so-called career, but the hardship of this, only the parties themselves know, some people will think that hard work is the day will descend on the people, after you have experienced these hardships, you will eventually get a new life.
But at this time, please think about a question, your attitude towards work, this society is full of anxiety, is it true that everyone is recognized by others at work? In fact, this is a very simple question, and then some people began to learn success, in fact, the real success is not how good you are as a person, but whether you can be satisfied in your heart.
Fifth, there are three truths in society, one is that people have three, six, nine, etc., the second is that the winner is king, and the third is that capital is above all else. Don't complain about the cruelty of society, you are suffering because your abilities have not increased, your IQ has not been recharged.
After we saw what Feng Tang said, we invariably sighed with emotion, there are no congenital poor people in this world, and there are no congenital rich people, but through a person's continuous efforts, so as to change the living environment of their own family. In the book "Ability", Feng Tang pointed out this problem sharply.
In addition, it is the so-called capital, that is, when you have a certain amount of wealth, you can easily solve everything in front of you, if you want to become a really capable person, please don't complain about the injustice of the world, the reason why you will get such a life, is not because you have no ability, nor because of your IQ, Feng Tang has always used his actual experience to tell us that if you want to change your life, you must have the courage to struggle.
If he hadn't wanted to change himself at that time, then he would have probably become a very good doctor, but Feng Tang did not become obscure in his job like others, but bravely stepped out of his comfort zone, which allowed him to achieve what he is today.