Text/Flying Fish
There is a sentence in "The Story of the Small Window" that says, "Everything in the world has a degree, and there is no degree of victory." ”
When people reach middle age, they understand that life is chicken feathers, and there is no easy word in the adult world.
If you are too honest and kind, you will only be bullied and taken by others. If you are too sharp, you will only be jealous. If you are too impulsive, you will only be paid for by your actions.
When people reach middle age, they should accept it, they should be hard, they are not afraid of offending people, and it is a kind of success to protect themselves and their families.
When people reach middle age, the most painful realization is nothing more painful.
One
will only engage in interpersonal relationships, have no outstanding ability, and will be eliminated from the workplace sooner or later.
In "Mortal Song", it tells about the middle-aged unemployed side.
Na Wei inside, who is middle-aged, is actually a successful career, has become the vice president of the company, has a car, a house and a deposit, which is the envy of many people.
But Na Wei doesn't actually have any actual ability for the boss, but he can socialize and engage in interpersonal relationships, so he has always kept him.
When it came time for the company to change, it began to lay off employees, and Nawei, who did not have outstanding ability, was targeted, and his entire department was also laid off.
The boss thinks that Nawei has no business ability, has not done creativity, and has not operated projects, but can only move his mouth and sign, and there is a department that can replace them, so it is useless to keep it, so he laid off all the employees in Nawei's department.
Na Wei has always thought that it is enough for him to only engage in interpersonal relationships, how many business cooperations, aren't they all brought by drinking?
But the boss just thinks that he has no core competitiveness, and loyalty can't be eaten, and he can grab a big handful.
Therefore, the most painful realization of middle-aged people is that they have not even consolidated their core competitiveness.
Only when you are strong can you stabilize your position.
Two
To be a man, you have to be tough in order to protect yourself.
Na Wei in "Mortal Song", because he was too honest, was cheated by the boss Wang Ruizhi, so he posted 800,000 yuan into it, because without this 800,000 yuan, the family also suffered with him.
Therefore, after learning that Wang Ruizhi went out of the mountain, he found him and wanted to pull him into the gang to do business, but Wang Ruizhi said that 800,000 yuan was considered his own shares. At this time, Nawei has seen human nature clearly and learned to pay attention to himself.
So no matter what Wang Ruizhi said, he was not moved, so he firmly wanted to get back his 800,000.
Wang Ruizhi didn't want to pay back the money, Na Wei began to harden up, the two of them had a fight, Na Wei was resolute, and finally Wang Ruizhi confessed, so he returned 800,000 to Na Wei.
Nawei asked for the money back, and began to do business with his wife in a down-to-earth manner, opening a store to buy marinated goods, and the business was getting better and better.
In our daily life, sometimes because we are too good at talking, so we lend money to others, but we encounter scoundrels who do not pay back, then we have to be tough to get our money back, so as to protect ourselves.
Three
Family stability is the greatest happiness.
When people reach middle age, watch their parents grow old, watch their children grow up day by day, and watch their partners trust, support, and encourage them, so that no matter what happens to this family, they can live well and be nourished by happiness.
Na Wei and his wife experienced unemployment, also experienced entrepreneurial failure, and finally went to the suburbs to set up a stall, and eventually had to rent out their house, so the family moved to the suburbs.
Because of the decline in income, the mother and the child have to suffer with themselves, and Nawei, who can't give them happiness, instantly understands that he is the pillar of the family, no matter how big the difficulties are, he is strong, brave to face, put down face, endure the hardships of life, as long as the few in his house are good, he can do anything.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, compared to the happiness of their families, even if they are hard and tired, it is worth it.
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