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In this fast-paced era, talking about marriage is not only a matter of both men and women, but also the eyes of parents, we often hear arguments about bride price, especially among young people, the story of an Internet celebrity Han Jingfeng has attracted widespread attention, everyone is concerned about him wearing slippers, pants and his father-in-law to talk about the bride price, does it sound ridiculous?
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Speaking of which, many people are thinking about what exactly is the relationship between marriage and bride price? Should the harmony between two families really be measured by a bride price? And can Han Jingfeng's dress style really easily affect the outcome of the entire negotiation?
Here's the thing, Han Jingfeng is a well-known Internet celebrity, has a lot of fans on the Internet, everyone likes his straightforwardness and humor very much, when dealing with his fiancée's family, his "presumptuous" attitude seems to make people a little unacceptable, choosing to wear slippers and pants to meet his father-in-law, which is actually a big "offense" in the eyes of some older generations
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Someone came to ask, why can a casually dressed person cause such a big controversy? Isn't it just a relaxed outfit? Frankly speaking, in different eras, the perception and importance of marriage is completely different, in our town, marriage often means the union of two families, the bride price is the lubricant to maintain the relationship between the family, for the older generation, the bride price is not only a symbol of money, but also a manifestation of respect for both families
Many people spoke out that Han Jingfeng's actions were disrespectful to traditional culture, and everyone more or less agreed with traditional concepts, believing that it was particularly important to show due respect on such an important occasion
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Speaking of which, some netizens' comments are thought-provoking, some people think that Han Jingfeng is too presumptuous, and he obviously doesn't pay attention to his father-in-law when he wears slippers, but others sigh that this kind of casualness can better reflect a modern young person's attitude to life, they believe that dressing can be eclectic, and even hope to convey a true self and let go of the shackles of formalism
This view does resonate with many people, in this age of individuality, many people believe that clothing should be in line with personal style, not necessarily bound by inherent etiquette, and in big cities, more and more young people yearn for authentic, comfortable life, and even in some social occasions there is no longer too much emphasis on formal symbolism
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But the problem is that the reality is always full of contradictions, the collision of two families is not a simple "I don't care about you, you are casual with me", different values and cultural backgrounds are often particularly acute on the issue of bride price, so young people have a good attitude and put personality first, which is the primary premise that both parents can accept it
Let's talk about the bride price itself, many young people happily discuss the bride price, at a certain level, it also exposes the attitude towards marriage, some people are happy and some are sad, toast to talk about the bride price is a common thing, but when you really need to face specific things, the idea will be flipped in an instant, for the elders, this is not only a matter of money, but also the embodiment of family face and emotional investment, but in the final analysis, young people still hope to get some practical benefits in this link
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In my personal opinion, marriage at this time should be the result of mutual tolerance, rather than a simple amount of bride price, respect and understanding in married life is the core, some young couples sign a prenuptial agreement, clear in the bride price, housework, economic division of labor, to put it bluntly, hope to use the clearest way to understand and cooperate with each other
In the process, Han Jingfeng's story made me think of more things, what is a wedding? It is a grand ceremony of reunion and celebration, but also the union of two families, in this case, no matter how important the personal image is, it should not exceed the relationship between the two families
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Since, we always have a younger generation, there will always be people who complain that the older generation can't understand them, in fact, think about it from another angle, the older generation's criticism of young people often reflects their expectations of the younger generation, maybe in turn, we young people should also give the elders more understanding, understand their persistence, because each generation has a different culture and responsibility in its hands
Let's talk about the ending of this scene, although Han Jingfeng's dress made him unexpectedly the focus of the topic, but did his conversation with his father-in-law end unhappily because of this? Obviously not, the end result is that both sides have reached a suitable consensus, after all, in modern society, sincere communication between the two sides is the most important thing, and proper communication methods and etiquette may help us eliminate misunderstandings and conflicts
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Although we may not all accept traditional etiquette, respect and understanding of family members are always an important cornerstone of marriage, and this is also a truth that many young people need to gradually understand
Looking back, Han Jingfeng's incident is like a mirror, reflecting the complex relationship between the individual and the family in society, and wearing slippers to see his father-in-law is not a debate over the bride price, but an exploration of each of us to find a balance between self-expression and etiquette
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Marriage is not just a simple union of two people, but a process of respect and understanding between two families, and because of this, in this society, everyone's dress and attitude are also redefining the way they get along
Since we want to enter marriage, then we might as well do a thousand charming, both interesting and connotative, to shape a person who meets himself in respect, with the continuous changes of the times, our way of thinking and traditional concepts are constantly developing, the most important thing is that in this process, do not get lost between the performance of self and the expectations of others, so that the light of the individual and the harmony of the family are inclusive
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In the final analysis, marriage is the integration of individuals and families, the bride price is just a form, and the long-term companionship of people is what we will always be looking for, so to speak, Han Jingfeng's story is just a scenery in front of our eyes, what everyone needs to do is to give new meaning to their lives, and life must also teach us to grasp and cherish everything in front of us, whether it is the slippers and pants of our sister, or the long-term understanding of family affection
In the final analysis, the debate on the bride price is just the beginning, how to carry forward the past and forge ahead in married life, maintain respect and understanding, is the more important thing, I hope that every couple who is about to enter the marriage hall can create their own beautiful life in a real long-term relationship
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