In the summer of '88, at the age of 20, I was assigned by my mother to help my eldest sister with a double robbery. To be honest, although I have a very good relationship with my eldest sister, if it wasn't for my mother's assignment, I really didn't have the idea of taking the initiative to go.
My parents only gave birth to our two daughters, the eldest sister is four years older than me, and she has been very caring for my younger sister since she was a child.
It's just that because I have been pampered by my family since I was a child, I really haven't done any physical work, at most I just help with some housework. Now let me help with the double robbery, it's really a bit like rushing ducks to the shelves.
Seeing that my mother was reluctant, she hugged the policy of carrots and sticks and said something nice, saying that you are also 20 years old, don't stay at home all day, walk around and maybe meet a suitable partner. If you stay at home all the time, the handsome boys will be picked up.
As for you going to the eldest sister's house to help with the double robbery, the eldest sister won't let you do too hard work, it should be just to help bring your little nephew and stay at home to cook.
So, I gladly accepted the order and went to my eldest sister's house.
The eldest sister's house is more than six miles away from us, but they belong to two different townships. We rarely come here until my eldest sister gets married. Even though I'm a relative now, I don't go much, and even my eldest brother-in-law's family doesn't know it all.
The eldest brother-in-law is a big family, there are seven brothers in the family, he is the sixth, the eldest brother is about the same age as my father, but there is a younger brother who has not yet reached a family, I have not yet met.
In the countryside in the sixties and seventies, the biggest problem with having more sons in the family was housing. When the eldest sister got married, she saw a row of houses in their family from a distance, and thought that she would live in a spacious place after marrying.
Who knows that there are many houses, but they are divided into seven or eight households, and each family has only one house in the front and back rooms, the front house is used as a bedroom and living room, and the sundries in the back are used as kitchens and bathrooms, which are simply crowded.
There is also an embarrassing situation, that is, the walls of all rooms are wooden walls, and the sound insulation is very poor. For a big girl like me, there is really not enough privacy, so I go very little.
But now I went to help the eldest sister to harvest rice, and I had to go even if I was reluctant, so I packed up a few changes of clothes, set off on a bicycle, and arrived at the eldest sister's house in more than an hour.
Seeing me coming, the eldest sister and brother-in-law were very happy, and the eldest sister directly stuffed the half-year-old little nephew into my arms, and she hugged me and said: You are good to come, give you this little ancestor, let me also take a breath.
Looking at the eldest sister's disgusted but clearly happy face, I didn't know what to say, so I had to hug my little nephew and tease her.
The little guy was smiling in my hands, and my brother-in-law also said on the side: In the end, it is a human kiss with a fragrant bone, you have not hugged him a few times as an aunt, but he just doesn't recognize life.
When I learned that my mother had arranged for me to help, the eldest sister and brother-in-law were very grateful, but the eldest sister said, "Although you came to help me, I should thank you, but can you work in the field?" Let you cut the seedlings, and you are afraid that the ears of rice will cut your arms, so let you step on the rice machine, but you are not strong enough.
The three of them sat together and chatted without saying a word, and finally decided to let me take my nephew to cook at home, and the eldest sister and brother-in-law went to the field by themselves, and sure enough, it was the same as my mother thought.
The next day, I took over the task. It's okay in the morning, my little nephew just got up and has a good temper, I can still do some.
But at ten o'clock I started to make trouble, crying and crying, and I was at a loss. In the end, it was the brother-in-law's sister-in-law who reminded her that the child was hungry, so just send it to eat some milk.
I had to send my little nephew to the field to feed, and this back and forth made my heart very uncomfortable, and my heart became a little irritable.
I finally survived the first day, although I was just taking the children to cook, but I was almost physically and mentally exhausted, I slept after dinner and bathing, and I didn't even have the mood to talk.
The next day it was repeated again, and at ten o'clock, the little nephew began to make trouble again, and I couldn't bear it anymore, although I was not good at going out to do farm work, but I also began to feel that it was not much easier to take care of the children.
So I made a decision: instead of entangled with this unreasonable little guy, it is better to do some work, although I am tired, but my heart is not so tired.
I have always considered myself a girl who dares to think and do, of course, this is inseparable from the tolerance and tolerance of my parents and relatives since I was a child. The strength of the personality is very advantageous when making some decisions. Besides, didn't my mother encourage me to go out for a walk more before I left, because I couldn't even find a partner at home.
The little nephew in my hand was still humming and chirping, and occasionally howling a few loud times, so that I thought I had accidentally hurt him. Since it is not easy to appease, then hand him over to his mother.
So, I found an oil umbrella to hold on, and with my little nephew in my arms, I walked towards my sister's paddy field.
It needs to be added here that the umbrella at that time was really heavy, although the area was large and wide, but it was really a bit difficult to hold in the hand. If it's just me, I'd rather wear a hat on a sunny day than hold an umbrella at all.
Soon I arrived at my sister's field, and she was the only one planting seedlings. I heard my son's cry from afar, and they all said that mother and son were connected, and although my sister was cut down, she was still planting seedlings.
It wasn't until I walked to the ridge and called her that my sister raised her head and said to me with a smile: Now you know that it is not easy to take care of children.
Of course, the eldest sister would definitely not look at her precious son crying, so she came up with her muddy hands in the field for a while, washed them in the canal next to her, and took him over with a smile and a smile.
The eldest sister sat on the ridge and lifted the placket to feed her son without shame, which is also the most magical scene of a mother, the little nephew who was crying a lot, burst into tears and laughed the moment his lips touched the nipple.
Seeing that the sun in the sky was a little spicy, I continued to hold an umbrella to cover her and my mother, and did not forget to complain to my sister and said:
This little ancestor of your family is really not good to serve, I still have to change my job and hand him back to you, who is a mother, I would rather suffer a little bit to work in the field. It's not like I've never done this rice planting at all, and it's not as hard as cutting rice.
My sister didn't object, patting the child in her arms and saying whatever you choose.
I looked around and found that my brother-in-law was nowhere to be seen, so I casually asked, "Where is my sister?" Are you still in the mood to play poker at this time?
My brother-in-law is good at everything else, but he likes to play cards a little, and playing poker at that time was not a gamble, it was just a pastime.
My sister rolled her eyes in exchange for this question, and she snorted and asked me: You see me planting seedlings, where did the seedlings come from? Could it have come this way from the seedling box on its own? It's not like your brother-in-law pulled it in the seedling field and sent it over.
Then I realized that I was wrong to blame him, so I stopped talking.
The little nephew fell asleep soon in my sister's arms, and I once again emphasized that I would rather plant rice without children, and my sister said to the field: You go down and try it first, if you think you can do it, I will not object.
I want to go down to the field and there will be no one to hold an umbrella, but my sister said to me: I'll accompany you, and then dragged a straw and put it on the ridge, propped the oil umbrella on it, and then put the little nephew under the umbrella.
The two of us went down to the field together, and I was really ashamed to say that the speed of my transplanting was really not fast, but fortunately, the "basic skills" were still there, and the seedlings that were planted were upright and not crooked, and they could be regarded as retaining the last dignity.
The two of us sisters bent down to plant rice in the field, and before we finished planting a row, suddenly there was a "pop" of water next to me, and then there was a splash of muddy water, and almost all my body was covered with mud.
I was full of anger and was about to scold, but when I saw it clearly, I laughed again: my brother-in-law carried a load full of seedlings and sent it, but the ridge was too narrow and I fell down as soon as I slipped under my feet, and the whole person was "smashed" in the muddy water, which splashed my whole body in muddy water.
Seeing me laughing and rolling back and forth, my brother-in-law stopped talking, and he didn't even care about the mud on his body, so he just scattered the two piles of seedlings around him and threw them to all corners of the paddy field.
My sister looked at me at a loss, so she said to me: You go back and wash first, how can you work in the mud on this body? Anyway, your nephew is sleeping well, you can go back and take a shower and cook now.
The muddy water was really uncomfortable, so I went home to the field.
When I arrived at my sister's house, there was mountain spring water from the mountain in the small patio in the middle of the front and back rooms of her house, and I didn't see a single figure along the way.
So he just covered the door of the front room, and then sat down by the water tank, and scooped water from the water tank with a melon scoop to wash the mud off his body.
In the scorching summer sunshine, the mountain spring water was originally cool, but the road leading down from the mountain was heated by the sun, and the temperature was just right here.
I washed very comfortably, and when I saw that there was no one, I unbuttoned my shirt, rolled up my trouser legs to the base of my legs, and scooped up the water to continue rinsing.
Just as I was washing comfortably, suddenly, the back door of a front room next to me creaked open, and a man walked out, still asking loudly: Sixth sister-in-law, did you fall into the mud?
I screamed in fright, and quickly pulled the hem of my shirt and covered it with one hand, and did not forget to wipe the rolled up trouser leg with the other hand. It's just that my trouser leg is wet, and I'm in a panic again, obviously I can't fix it right away.
Hearing my screams, the man was also dumbfounded, and found that it was not the "sixth sister-in-law" he said, and quickly said sorry to me, but the person was stupid and didn't move.
I scolded angrily: I don't know if men and women kiss or not, and you still want to see it?
I reminded him, and he turned his head and went into the next room. I didn't care about the wetness on my body, so I went into the room and bolted the door, found clean clothes and changed them, and then went back to the courtyard and shouted to the next room: You come out.
The man didn't dodge, he honestly came out and stood in front of me, and I realized that this guy was quite delicate, and he was still a little similar to his brother-in-law between his eyebrows and eyes, and he understood a little bit in his heart.
But I still yelled at him: Who are you, why are you so short-sighted?
The young man said to me a little timidly: I still want to ask who you are and why you are in my sixth sister-in-law's house.
I'm even more sure that this guy in front of me is my brother-in-law's youngest brother Xiao Yang. When I came here yesterday, my brother-in-law was still saying that he was working in the south, so why did he suddenly appear at home?
After listening to my question, Xiao Yang told me that he had just arrived home, and he originally wanted to lie down and sleep for a while and then go to help his brothers with double robbery in the afternoon, but he was woken up by the sound of water I made, so he came out to check.
Seeing that his attitude was good and very pleasing to the eye, my anger in my heart also disappeared a lot, but I still refused to let him go, and deliberately asked him: You guy doesn't have long eyes, and you should let you see everything you shouldn't see, what do you say.
Xiao Yang touched his head awkwardly, and held back for a long time before saying something that made me cry and laugh: Otherwise, I will let you see it back, so that you will not owe each other......
This sentence made me laugh, but for some reason, I was not particularly disgusted with his flamboyant tongue, but secretly made a decision: I couldn't let him escape from my palm easily.
After a few pleasantries, we "disengaged" because I still had to cook. But when cooking, Xiao Yang actually came over to help with a shy face, even if I deliberately didn't give him a good look, he didn't seem to care much.
My sister and brother-in-law came back with their little nephew in their arms, and they were very happy to see Xiao Yang. After all, his parents are gone, and the youngest brother has never started a family, which can be regarded as a piece of his brother's heart, and now he appears in front of him, and he is preaching again.
It can be seen that the relationship between their brothers is very harmonious. And Xiao Yang is also very close to my sister, the sixth sister-in-law.
After dinner, my eldest sister asked me what to do in the afternoon, and I suddenly made a decision: I will go home in the afternoon and will not help you take care of the children.
Both my sister and my brother-in-law looked a little surprised, but they didn't stop it, and my brother-in-law also said: Xiaomei really didn't do this, it's okay to go back and rest, anyway, Xiao Yang is back.
As soon as I heard my brother-in-law talk about Xiao Yang, I quickly picked up the conversation: Don't beat him, he has to go with me in the afternoon.
This time it was my brother-in-law's turn to be taken aback, and he looked at me dumbfounded, his eyes full of inquiry, but he didn't know what to ask.
I glared at Xiao Yang and said, "You ask him if you want to go back with me."
Xiao Yang could only laugh awkwardly, embarrassed to say that the mess in the morning, and under my "persecution", he finally agreed to send me home.
After eating, I didn't stay long, Xiao Yang rode my bicycle and sent me home, my mother knew Xiao Yang, but I didn't know why he sent me home.
When I got to my territory, I was more confident in speaking: Xiao Yang, you have to be responsible for me if you see places that you shouldn't see, my parents only have two daughters, and my sister married into your family, so you can marry into my family......
Although it is a nonsense, there are really no twists and turns in this family business, and Xiao Yang and I quickly made a marriage.
After the double robbery, I followed him south to Guangdong, and we got married the next year.
After getting married, our husband and wife have been working hard in Guangdong, and we have gradually found some ways.
Around 95 years, he opened a mom-and-pop shop to engage in a clothing business, slowly started to grow, and lived a happy life.
My husband Xiao Yang was not unwilling because of my "persecution" in marriage, and for so many years, my husband has been very tolerant of me.
I want a strong personality, and I can also help him make quick decisions at certain critical moments, perhaps, this is the most rare complementarity of ordinary couples. #长文创作激励计划#