On Harry's 40th birthday, the royal father and brother sent blessings, and Harry issued a statement without mentioning Meghan
There is a psychologist who says that the process of human growth is the process of continuous discarding. Just like brothers and sisters who grew up intimately when they were children, when they grew up, they gradually drifted apart, and eventually became the closest strangers they once were.
Just like Prince Harry and his brother William's current relationship. The brothers haven't been in the same frame publicly for a long time, and haven't even spoken to each other.
Recently, on September 15, Prince Harry just celebrated his 40th birthday and is about to start a trip with friends. For this, he even rejected Meghan's offer to hold a grand banquet for him.
Previously, Harry made a brief statement in order to celebrate his birthday:
No matter how old I am, my mission is to continue to appear in the world and do good. Bringing in the next decade. Two children are the greatest miracle of my life, and the luckiest thing for me is to be their father, and I love being their father.
Good things netizens also found out that Harry mentioned himself and his children, but he didn't mention his wife Meghan, who never left his mouth before.
This is a very rare phenomenon.
It shows that Harry is also starting to reflect.
Perhaps at the age of 40, he began to reflect on the first half of his life: 40-year-old Harry finally realized a major mistake in his life?
Some people don't grow up in their lifetime, but there are also people who start growing up at the age of 40. Maybe Harry is the man.
Chinese often say that forty is not confused, which means that when you are forty years old, you are more than half of your life, and there is nothing that can confuse people from now on, and you will go on firmly.
Harry's 40th birthday and 30th birthday are very different.
Thinking back then, Harry, who was 30 years old, was full of spirit and full of infinite possibilities.
At that time, he and William and Kate were still members of the royal iron triangle, and Harry was a sunny boy at that time, who was rough and smiling, and his support rate among the United Kingdom people was as high as 890%, but this value has fallen to 30% in August 2024!
The royal family has also entered an eventful season over the years, since King Charles and Princess Kate have been diagnosed with cancer one after another this year, the royal family has entered a "personnel shortage" situation, and Harry is not unaware of this.
That's why he extended an olive branch to the royal family a few days ago, expressing the idea of sharing the worries of the royal family: part of it will return to the royal family and be a part-time member of the royal family.
The royal family should also feel Harry's kindness and his desire to reconcile with the royal family.
Therefore, on the occasion of Harry's 40th birthday, the royal family also issued a public blessing to Harry on the official website, which has not been treated since Harry officially announced his departure from the royal family in 2020. This year, it's kind of connected again.
First, King Charles and Queen Camilla posted their wishes for their youngest son on the official account X of the United Kingdom royal family:
Happy 40th birthday to the Duke of Sussex today!
Then William and Kate also sent blessings to their younger brother Harry on social platforms, and directly copied the content of the king and queen's copywriting.
Both platforms use the same photo.
The photo is said to be from Harry in 2018, when Harry was still a member of the royal family and he was attending an official event with Meghan.
In the photo, Harry is smiling happily with his mouth wide open, wearing a gray suit with a white shirt underneath, and his smile is heartfelt, with several wrinkles at the corners of his eyes.
After the photo was released, some sharp-eyed netizens soon pointed out that this photo was originally a photo with Meghan, but the royal family cut Meghan!
This reveals two pieces of information, one is that the royal family did not ask Harry for the latest photos, which shows that the relationship between the royal family and Harry is unfamiliar; The second is that the royal family's layoff of Meghan is an attitude in itself and an expression of dislike for Meghan!
We always think that the royal family is similar to us ordinary people, and although we don't usually have public contact, we certainly have no less contact in private.
But in fact, it is not, the royal family may be like this, saying that if you don't contact it, you won't contact it.
Just like Harry and Meghan's current relationship with the royal family, their connection may really be the same as what we see in the media, they have basically lost private contact, and they are communicating completely through the open media.
Everyone tested each other, shouted openly, and completely lost the intimate interaction in private.
In this regard, Harry also felt sad, perhaps because of Meghan's relationship, which led to the tension between him and the royal family.
So he didn't mention Meghan in his statement before his birthday.
At forty years of life, Harry found himself finally living as a vassal of a woman. In California, he lost his royal circle and became a complete spectator of his wife, Meghan's Hollywood network.
Did he regret it?
Let's wait and see~
What do you think?