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My name is Hu Qiuyue, and I am the dean of a school.
It was a few days before school started, and I was at home with my kids.
Suddenly, I received a call from the principal and asked me to go to the school, saying that there were several children who wanted to go to the school, and asked me to find a number of language papers to take the test.
Coincidentally, I had just arrived at the school by car and actually met a person, my cousin-in-law, no, my former cousin-in-law Liu Minghui.
I saw him standing there, with an anxious look.
This was embarrassing, but I politely called him: Brother, why are you here?
He raised his head and looked at me for half a moment: It turned out to be autumn moon. Am I not anxious about my child's reading?
It turned out that his daughter had studied in another district before, but when she thought of the girls in junior high school, she was easily distracted, and decided to go to the middle school in the district, and she could return home every day, so she turned back again.
His daughter and several children took entrance exams inside.
I was chatting with him on the side, when I noticed a woman standing next to him.
Medium-sized, medium-to-high looks. As soon as I spoke, I knew that she was Liu Minghui's current wife, and I couldn't help but look at her a few more times.
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Heck, it's complicated to talk about his past with my cousin.
He and my sister were married in 1999, when the two had just joined the work for a few years, plus my cousin loved to dress up, but the family burden was also heavy, so she did not have any money on her own.
At that time, their salary in school was only more than three hundred dollars a person.
The two wanted to buy a house with a mortgage in the city, but they couldn't get the money.
I also did not think of going to a training institution to use the holidays to make some money.
So he asked Liu Minghui's parents to borrow money.
Liu Minghui's mother refused: there was no money in the family.
Borrow money from your sister-in-law who is doing business: the capital turnover is not enough.
The cousin said: The same are sons, why lend money to the eldest son's family to do business, but do not lend us money to buy a house?
Since then, the cousin has rarely returned to her in-laws' house, coupled with the fact that the cousin is young and ignorant, in a fit of anger, she has carried her cousin-in-law to do the abortion, and has never conceived a child since then.
Went to the hospital to check and said it was blocked fallopian tubes. The relationship with Liu Minghui has also been cold.
Until the news of her cousin's cheating came out later, her 8-year marriage with Liu Minghui finally came to an end.
The cousin cheated on the doctor in the hospital. She was 15 years old.
After the two divorced, the doctor did not divorce, and the cousin did this to the underground lover.
One day, the doctor's wife knew about it, and there was a big quarrel with her cousin on the street.
Passers-by on the street looked sideways, and the doctor's wife insulted her cousin on the street, saying that she was a dignified person. The people's teachers actually did something unethical and unconventional.
Since then, my cousin's temperament has changed dramatically. It is extremely difficult to control emotions.
Later, the cousin used thunderous means to force the doctor to divorce and marry her.
But the doctor's son and daughter, the eldest son, who was 18 years old, followed them.
Of course, the son hated his cousin for breaking up his family, and of course did not think that his doctor father was also responsible, and he also did all kinds of things in his cousin's life.
The tortured cousin was exhausted.
But by this time everyone knew, and her cousin thought she had no way out. It is also helplessly consumed in this marriage.
When I returned to my mother's house that time, I happened to meet my cousin, and I inadvertently said that Liu Minghui's daughter was studying at my school.
The cousin was silent for a moment. Say: What about the child?
"Listen to the homeroom teacher, OK, good grades. Unite classmates and be more quiet. ”
The cousin sighed thoughtfully. He murmured, "If I had a child, I would have gone to college now."
Suddenly, my cousin's expression became complicated.
That day, the school was engaged in teaching and research, and my cousin came to the school to listen to the lessons, and suddenly she asked me, which class is Liu Minghui's daughter in?
It was the end of class, and I pointed to her, and she stood outside the window looking at the child for a long time, and I didn't know what she was thinking.
She didn't leave for my office until after class when the bell rang.
It just so happened that there was a stack of outstanding awards from each class on my desk. Liu Minghui's daughter is at the top.
"Liu Shiqi? Rated as a three-good student? The cousin picked up the award certificate and looked.
Liu Shiqi is Liu Minghui's daughter, and it seems that her cousin already knows her name just now.
Somehow, I saw my cousin's expression was subtle.
That night, I received a call from my cousin, who meant that I should use my position to brush off Liu Minghui's daughter.
My cousin and I both know that there is a policy in the district that is to be rated as a three-good student or an excellent student cadre, and can be recommended to study in a good middle school.
Later, she said a lot of words, to the effect that liu Minghui's family also had a certain responsibility for her situation today.
His parents were so unfair. She also beat the fetus out of breath.
I was shocked to hear this, but in order to stabilize my cousin's emotions, I did not immediately reject her.
Instead, I asked the child's homeroom teacher to see if there was a more suitable candidate.
How do I open my mouth to my child's homeroom teacher? Could it be the story of the child's father and cousin? Or just use my position to remove the number of good students for my child.
I don't think I can be at ease with either of them.
I lied to my cousin that I had already handled this matter according to her words, and asked her not to worry too much. Live your life. I also blame myself, I should not have said that Liu Minghui's daughter was studying here. #Emotions##Marriage & Family##我要上头条 #
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@Tree Hole Emotional Cottage says two sentences:
1: Here is a man named Liu Minghui, who, according to Hu Qiuyue told me, knew that she was the director of academic affairs at this school.
That is to say, Liu Minghui still believes that the reason for the failure of his previous marriage is that her cousin cheated on her, and he and his family are all right. This is typical of introspection.
How can I think this man's real thoughts are so simple? If Hu Qiuyue's colleagues didn't know that Liu Minghui was her former cousin-in-law, if they knew, what would Hu Qiuyue say?
Would it be said that my cousin cheated on him and was sorry for him? Or will he say that his parents are unfair, so there is something later?
After all, people are relatives, relatives for relatives, this is common sense, people divorce you, will still be towards you?
Unless you have value in her.
The cousin was wrong, but it was also because the in-laws were unfair and resentful to do such a thing. Everything still has a fuse.
2: Cousin and Liu Minghui are not hard-working people who have plans for the future, otherwise they will use holidays to work at training institutions, plus the wages of the two are not enough to pay the down payment of the house more than ten years ago?
3: Fortunately, Hu Qiuyue did not listen to her cousin's words and removed the little girl from the quota of the three good students, which is the best result.
Really, there are some things that can't be said casually, and if you say them, there will be a lot of trouble.
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