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My name is Liang Liying, I am 32 years old, my family is very happy, I am quite loving to my husband, there is no problem in terms of finance, and we have a daughter, and the family of three lives very well.
But now, my husband and I are getting divorced because of one person.
This person was his sister.
Now this sister of his and I are about to become enemies, I hate her, and I guess she hates me too.
And the reason I hate her is that she wants to destroy my marriage and introduce a 33-year-old best friend of hers to my husband, and her best friend is still divorced, which coaxes my husband to the top.
When I first met his sister, I was very good.
At that time, when my husband and I were in a relationship, he asked me to meet his sister.
After his sister talked to me about something, she thought that I was very suitable for him, and even called me sister-in-law in advance.
And I originally thought that my husband loves his sister very much, so I have to treat him as a sister.
But in the end, my sister and I fell out completely and became enemies, which has to start when my husband and I first got married.
I used to study accounting in a junior college in a provincial capital, and after graduation, I worked as an accountant in a private enterprise.
My husband and I were introduced on a blind date, and I didn't know what the environment at home was like.
I just think that he has a teacher's salary income, which is very stable, and I am an accountant, I have an income, and I have a family, which is very good.
Later I learned that his parents had died in a car accident when he was a teenager.
There were only two people in his family, him and his sister, who were separated by five years, and at that time they depended on each other, and he took on the responsibility of raising his sister.
When I went on a blind date with my husband, he was twenty-five years old.
And his sister is 20 years old, failed the college entrance examination, and couldn't get into a good university, so she came out to work as a salesperson in a department store with a very low salary.
In the end, I didn't care about my husband's family environment, thinking that without his parents and only one sister, then such a family might be simpler.
But I realized that I was really completely wrong.
Since my husband and his sister are dependent on each other, I want to live with them both after I get married.
My husband's parents left a two-and-a-half-story red brick house, which is located on the outskirts of the county, although the location is not good, but the area is enough to live in.
But his sister, in the process of living with my sister-in-law, had a lot of friction and conflicts, and there were some contradictions in many details of life, even as small as the volume of setting up a stool and watching TV, she also wanted to confront me.
Originally, she lived on the second floor alone, and my husband and I lived on the floor below, so we should be able to get along safely, but she still likes to come down and watch TV, and thinks that watching it with her brother will feel better, but she doesn't like to watch it alone.
And my husband, mixed between her sister and my wife, is also quite difficult, because his relationship with her sister is quite good.
He once told me that in his heart, he had only one relative, and that was his sister.
Because his parents died, and he didn't want to associate with those relatives anymore, he almost didn't go to their relatives' homes.
He only hoped that I could accommodate and understand his sister, and that we would be more comfortable in life, and that everyone would be fine.
I can feel how confused and sad my husband is about this matter.
So I assured him that I would be as accommodating and forgiving as I could for his sister, but I only hoped that his sister would not be so excessive.
And then, my husband and I are both glad that his sister finally met the son of a rich factory owner, and after the two of them had been in love for a while, they actually talked about marriage.
When his sister fell in love, many relatives and friends in our family were not optimistic, and they only thought that he would be dumped by the son of the rich family, but she was able to marry each other in the end.
This is a great blessing for my husband and me.
Moreover, I only thought that I finally didn't have to live with his sister anymore, and there would be no conflicts, and my husband and I could live a truly happy family life, and the family of three lived in that two-story red brick house.
Later, after his sister married the rich man's son, she gave birth to a daughter the next day, and like us, she and her husband had to live with their in-laws.
Sometimes on Sundays, she, her husband and daughter, a family of three, come to live on the second floor of our red brick house for two days, where there is still her boudoir and her bed, so I can't dispose of her boudoir and bed and take up her space, after all, although she married, this house was left to her and my husband by her parents.
In that case, I still have to endure it for a day or two every week, and I can't help it, and I can't help it, and I can bear it.
But her daughter is getting older, and her husband likes to listen to some very popular music songs, and the volume is turned up very loudly, which has affected me and my husband, and our son, and even when they are resting, they will not go to bed until 12 o'clock in the morning or even one o'clock in the morning.
I couldn't bear it anymore and told my husband that I could accept it myself, but our son was going to school, so being argued like this was really affected, so I had to talk to his sister.
My husband finally nodded and passed my words to his sister.
It may be because of such a negotiation, although I didn't say anything to his sister in person, his sister already had a grudge against me, and the seeds of hatred were planted at that time.
However, everyone is still safe.
Their family of three has their days, and our family of three also has our days, maintaining a superficial friendship with each other, although they have grievances, but if they endure it, nothing will happen.
But then there were some big changes, her husband's father, that is, her father-in-law, had been doing a good job in the factory, but in a certain year, there were many problems in the operation, and as a result, he went bankrupt, closed his doors, and owed a lot of debts, and ran away.
Such an incident happened, causing her husband's family's economic situation to take a sharp turn for the worse.
Because all along, her husband has been helping in that factory, in fact, he is not doing his job, there is nothing to do, and now the factory is closed, her husband is also unemployed, and she used to be a full-time housewife, and now she must rely on her own work to maintain her life, otherwise, she and her husband are empty.
My husband, on the contrary, has a great improvement in his career, he used to be just an ordinary boss, as a class teacher, but in this year, he was promoted to the head of the mathematics subject and the deputy director of the teaching office, the salary has increased a lot, and he can be regarded as having a certain status in the local education circle.
At that time, his sister asked him to help, find a job for his brother-in-law, and also help her find a job, my husband is a very helpful good gentleman, not to mention that this is the only relative he thinks is his own relative, his own sister, of course he spares no effort to help.
In the end, my husband helped my brother-in-law and his sister to solve the employment problem, in a private enterprise unit, as a white-collar worker, the salary and work intensity are acceptable, anyway, ordinary people will think that this is a job that is not easy to find.
However, his brother-in-law thinks that he can't work at all, and wants to use a sum of money to open a store and do a business selling sports running shoes.
Because his brother-in-law's family went bankrupt, although his brother-in-law's mother had a pension and could borrow some, it was far from enough.
Therefore, his brother-in-law and his sister wanted to borrow from him, and they borrowed 50,000 yuan.
After I learned about such a situation, I only felt that my husband had helped his sister and his brother-in-law enough, and his sister and his brother-in-law were not at the point of exhaustion, and they still had money to live, but they just refused to work and felt that the work was hard, so they didn't do it.
I said to my husband, don't lend this money to his sister and brother-in-law, otherwise, I may ask him to borrow it again in the future, which is absolutely not knowing how much to borrow, it may be borrowed, more than 100,000 yuan, and it is estimated that his sister and brother-in-law will never pay it back, even if the business is successful, they will not return this money to my husband.
My husband also thinks I have a point, so he said to his sister that it was my wife who was stuck with all the money and didn't want to borrow the money, so there was no way.
As a result, his sister-in-law concentrated all her grievances on me, and only thought that it was my sister-in-law that made her and her husband unable to borrow money, so they could not open that store to start a business.
One day I unexpectedly learned that my husband had been invited out to dinner by his sister.
I thought to myself, in the past, my husband and I were together after work, no matter where we went, especially with his sister and his brother-in-law, when we went outside, I was also by my husband's side, why did I not know at all this time?
In the end, I called my husband and asked for clarification, and the result was that his sister answered the phone, and his sister told me that she didn't need to let me know at all, and she wouldn't invite me out with me, because she wanted to introduce a girlfriend to her brother, that is, my husband, to get to know her.
I was so angry that my head buzzed and I immediately asked where they had gone.
But his sister has already hung up the line. And when I called again, I couldn't get through, probably because his sister deliberately asked him not to answer my call.
I was anxious and angry, and after thinking about it, I finally thought that there was a restaurant that my husband liked to eat the most, so I ran to this restaurant to see if I could meet them.
As a result, I went and found that there was indeed a man and two women sitting at the same table, and the man was my husband, and the other two women, one of whom was his sister, and the other woman, who looked to be in her thirties.
I immediately glared at his sister and asked him, what does this mean?
His sister didn't take me seriously at all, and told me that she was going to introduce female friends to her brother, which didn't mean anything.
When I heard this, I thought, isn't this a challenge to my dignity?
And his sister is going to destroy my marriage with my husband, my marriage with my husband is so stable and happy, is it really going to be divorced by her, a shameless woman?
At this time, my husband could see that his sister and I were already talking about each other, and he immediately stood between the two of us and persuaded me to go home immediately.
I told him that if he wanted me to go back, then he had to go back with me, or I wouldn't go back.
Eventually, my husband said goodbye to his sister and the woman and took me home.
When I got home, I asked my husband why he listened to his sister and didn't answer my phone calls, and I didn't know anything about it, and he said that it was all his sister's request.
And, he said, he is now between me and his sister, I really don't know which side to stand on, he loves me very much, but he also loves his sister very much, he doesn't want his sister to be wronged.
I was completely speechless.
I just think about it, I have been in love with my husband for so many years, and I have been in love with him for so long, is it because of his sister that our marriage broke up?
But I thought to myself, if this continues, my sister and I are incompatible, I guess his sister will continue to trouble me, and it won't make me feel better, I really don't know if I can keep this marriage.
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