A psychologist said:
"People's inner world is hidden in words and deeds."
A woman truly loves you, you can feel it in her words and deeds, and you can see it in her body language.
If she gives you the feeling of coldness and alienation, then she probably just wants to have fun and doesn't want to go to the end with you.
Only when she makes you feel warm and is willing to take the initiative to get close to you, it means that she has the heart to interact and just wants to spend the rest of her life with you.
In fact, to know if a woman truly loves you, look at one detail: her attitude towards you.
1. A woman who is just having fun will make all kinds of demands on you
Sometimes, a woman's words can't be taken too seriously, maybe she says "don't bother me anymore" one second, and the next second you ask her to meet, and she will gladly go again.
At this time, don't think that she is attracted to you before agreeing to your request, it is very likely that she is bored or has no one to accompany you to choose you.
I've seen a video:
The boy is very distressed, he often can't guess the other party's thoughts, to say that she is true love, but always behaves coldly, even close to perfunctory, you ask her several times and refuse.
But you said that she was just playing, and she didn't feel like it, after all, every time they were together, the two of them were very happy, and she also said that she would accept his invitation next time.
The boy is lost in this "big pie", unable to extricate himself, he only thinks that if he works harder, he can make the other party fall in love with him completely, so he doesn't give up!
As a result, it was even more excessive, and the girl often asked him to give gifts, or invited her to eat very expensive things, not that she was reluctant to do this, but obviously felt that she just wanted, not wanted to be with him.
When the boy finally came to his senses, he decided to delete the other party's WeChat, a person who really wants to have a relationship with you, she will not make random requests, and the relationship between the two people is not anything, which is uncomfortable.
Second, a woman who really loves you will not treat you as a spare tire
In the face of people she doesn't like, women have always behaved coldly, no matter how much you pursue, she will not give you a good face, and she will directly refuse every time.
But when she really likes you, she will behave differently, at this time she is very enthusiastic about you, what you say is basically answered in seconds, and you ask her to say "yes" quickly.
She will never treat you as a spare tire, but seriously think about the relationship, think about how to maintain it, and really go to the end, such a woman really loves you.
is like Liu Miantang in "The Story of Liu Zhou", she is a woman who understands the sense of proportion very well, even if she hates Cui Xingzhou for lying to her, she will not treat her as a spare tire.
At that time, there was also a noble person pursuing her, it was said that she was an ordinary woman, she could please both sides, and she could enter any wealthy family.
But Liu Miantang is a proud woman, even if she has an average family background, she has her own bottom line, if she likes it, she likes it, and if she doesn't like it, she won't drag each other back.
On the surface, she has been rejecting Cui Xingzhou, but in fact, she has never regarded Cui Xingzhou as incidental, but as the whole of her life, so she will have such entanglement.
If you want to distinguish a woman's mind, it is simple to say that it is simple, it depends on her attitude towards you, whether it is like two people, if she truly loves you, she will refuse the overtures of other members of the opposite sex, and wait for you wholeheartedly.
Whether a woman is sincere to you or not can be seen from her attitude towards you.
If she truly loves you, she will take the relationship seriously, instead of looking for you when she needs you, and she will not treat you as a spare tire and hang you all the time.
And when she's just playing, she'll make all kinds of demands on you, she'll accept your gifts, you'll lose your temper if you're not satisfied.
Finally, I hope you can love the right person, so that you can reap a perfect love, and for those who are wrong, stay away from it from the beginning!