Text: Rui Zhiyue
Edited by Rui Zhiyue
It is said that the most beautiful thing is the red sunset, but when this uncle goes on a blind date, he has to bring a 37-year-old unmarried girl.
Uncle's daughter also suffers from schizophrenia, and when she was sick, she even "ate" her father! I feel like my head is covered with wood, and it's itchy and painful!
Which aunt would dare to come to such a family?
01
The blind date market is aging
Today's young people are less and less fond of blind dates, like to live alone, appreciate themselves, and love freedom.
The blind date market is gradually biased towards aging, and aunts and uncles are also active in the elderly blind date market.
I lived to be in my sixties, and I was single for various reasons, and when I was getting old, I wanted to find a partner with whom I could be.
63-year-old Uncle Yang passively went on a blind date.
It turned out that the 37-year-old daughter helped him register, and the daughter felt that the old father was lonely and lonely, and wanted to find an old wife for the father, so that the two could chat with each other and spend their old age together.
What is a bit special is that after Uncle Yang's wife died, Uncle Yang didn't think about finding another one.
Because his daughter is sick and has schizophrenia, the old father who can't rest assured of his daughter lives with his daughter and takes care of his daughter's daily life.
In the past few years, my daughter's condition has stabilized, so I thought that I was also a college student who graduated from a serious agricultural university, so I should not waste my talent.
I wanted to go out to work, but I left my old father at home alone, and my daughter was afraid that her father would be lonely, so she wanted to find a wife for her father on TV.
The daughter's condition is not so serious, and now it is well controlled, no, the blind date clothes are all matched by the daughter to Uncle Yang, light pink shirt, black pants, it seems that Uncle Yang is clean and neat.
Even waiting for the gifts from the woman's family at the meeting, the daughter arranged it for Uncle Yang, asking Uncle Yang to send flowers and fruits, and be diligent after that, don't look lazy.
02
Daughter's expectations
The daughter only begged Uncle Yang to fight for breath, find a good aunt, and live a harmonious life with the two of them.
When the matchmaker heard this, she praised her daughter again and again, she was really filial and an understanding person.
The daughter did not take credit, and praised the old father for the TV camera, saying that the father was a loving father and had a high tolerance for herself.
Of course, my daughter's condition is not very optimistic.
The symptoms of schizophrenia are hallucinations, delusions, abnormal behavior, etc., and some may even have certain aggressive or suicidal behavior.
About 40% of patients with schizophrenia can get married, have children, or even work normally after good treatment.
At present, Uncle Yang's daughter is in the 40% of people.
But after my daughter, who was still in college at the time, contracted this disease, she basically recuperated at home and never went out to work.
If you are in good shape, you can do some odd jobs to exercise your social skills.
That's it, until I'm 37 years old.
Calm daughter, looking at everything beautifully.
But once she got sick, her daughter's world became strange, and her daughter called it a terrifying world.
Remarks like "my head is so itchy, I'm going to grow something" became a "real" situation in my daughter's brain.
Even, she felt that she had eaten her father, and such strange thoughts abounded.
Fortunately, now that the disease is under effective control, these strange things never appear again.
03
The peaceful life of father and daughter
The uncle is 63 years old, and his pension is very generous, and he can have more than 6,000 a month.
My daughter also applied for a subsistence allowance because of her illness, and she also had more than 1,000 guarantees a month.
The uncle is a staff medical insurance, and the daughter is a resident medical insurance, and the money spent on medical treatment is also within the acceptable range.
The father and daughter live in a house of 90 square meters, which is more than enough.
After Uncle Yang and his daughter's daily expenses, there are still 3,000 yuan left, and this small day is very moisturized.
The uncle also feels that he is actually concerned about his daughter, that is, when his daughter is well, he has the heart to find a wife.
If the woman can accept it, everyone will be happy.
The uncle became a soldier at the age of 18 and experienced a 4-year military career.
After being discharged from the army, he went to work as a repairman in a factory, where he worked until he retired.
Uncle Yang is taking a steady and steady route, being a down-to-earth person and doing things honestly.
Uncle Yang bluntly said that at our age, those who have been in the army will basically have no problems with their personality and work, and the woman can be completely assured.
Although the matchmaker did not introduce Uncle Yang's daily life too much, Uncle Yang was not idle at all.
is either scrubbing things or cleaning, Uncle Yang's hands have never been idle for a moment.
The father and daughter have a good mentality and look at things gently.
The uncle has no requirements for the blind date, he doesn't have to do housework, he doesn't even have to cook, and he comes to enjoy happiness when he enters Lao Yang's house.
It's really together, if the aunt wants to control the financial power, no problem, take care of the money for the aunt.
The uncle said: "Even if my aunt wants to hide a small treasury with this money, how much can I do, let you be ambiguous, just be good to my daughter." ”
The father and daughter are really going both ways, and the daughter also wants to find someone who is good to her father, just don't bother herself.
04
An aunt who fights with her mother
The 57-year-old Aunt Jiang can be described as full of combat effectiveness.
The matchmaker saw that everything was neat and tidy in Aunt Jiang's house, and the clothes in the wardrobe were even covered with a gauze cover to prevent dust.
After the aunt retired, she had a pension of 2,100 yuan per month.
But after retirement, Aunt Jiang was not idle, and started an online store business selling sunglasses on the Internet.
I used to open a physical store to sell sunglasses, but the physical business has not been good for many years, so I started an online business.
I make a profit of more than 2,000 yuan a month, and I can take care of my pocket money.
Every day, Aunt Jiang also cooks for her 90-year-old mother, who has a pension of 3,007 per month, and Aunt Jiang will take out 3,000 of them to make nutritious meals for her mother.
Aunt Jiang ended her marriage in 1991 after less than six years, and Aunt Jiang is a very upright woman.
The reason for the divorce turned out to be because of a sentence from her ex-husband.
At that time, Aunt Jiang's brother was about to get married, and Aunt Jiang helped clean up the house, which made her ex-husband very unhappy when he saw it, so he said to Aunt Jiang: "Your family is dead, you are left alone, let you keep coming." ”
Aunt Jiang was anxious when she heard this, this was so ugly that the person next to the pillow actually said it directly to her face.
What else have you been living these days? Let's go!
You must know that this ex-husband was the man that Aunt Jiang chose with her old mother back then, and her old mother disagreed, so she had to work against her mother, and chose a man she didn't like.
In this divorce, Aunt Jiang's mother blossomed.
began to give her childless daughter Zhang Luo everywhere to give her daughter a blind date.
As a result, there are two of them, not to mention whether Aunt Jiang likes it or not, these blind dates are all stuck in the strong old mother's pass, and everyone thinks that they are coming to their own house.
Aunt Jiang is angry again, then I won't look for it.
Now, 30 years have passed.
The current old mother feels a little ashamed of her daughter, so she no longer interferes in her daughter's marriage and lets her daughter fall in love freely.
Aunt Jiang is on the show just now, and she wants to find a widowed, 60-year-old, and good-tempered uncle to live with.
05
Big Mom is happy to bloom
The matchmaker felt that Uncle Yang was quite suitable, but her daughter was afraid that Aunt Jiang would have a bad heart, so she told Uncle Yang in advance.
Unexpectedly, Aunt Jiang not only didn't mind, but said arrogantly that if it really happened, she would prepare a dowry for the girl in the future!
Seeing this, the matchmaker made an appointment to let Uncle Yang come to the door.
Uncle Yang took his daughter to Aunt Jiang's house.
The fruit was a big bag and a big bag, and both sides greeted each other warmly.
The three parties have a good impression of each other.
Uncle Yang privately told his daughter that the aunt is very good, but she is a little short.
The daughter said mercilessly: "I think it's very good, you are also short!" ”
Uncle Yang also smiled and did not refute.
In private, he smiled shyly and expressed his feelings: I have a feeling of liking.
And Aunt Jiang also has a very good impression of Uncle Yang's father and daughter.
Sitting together and chatting, Uncle Yang said that he had been a soldier.
Aunt Jiang boasted: "It's good to be a soldier, my dad and my brother have also been soldiers!" I love being a soldier, and I've lived in the army compound for five years! ”
As soon as I heard that Uncle Yang was 6 years older than Aunt Jiang, Aunt Jiang's mouth couldn't close with joy.
said to the matchmaker in private: "I just like maturity, I like him." I don't want to get divorced, his family is widowed, it's fine. ”
Aunt Jiang was very direct, and also told Uncle Yang about her old mother's condition, Uncle Yang's point was that the old mother was so old, are you sure you don't want to live with us?
The love of the elderly is really a sweet crit.
Uncle Yang understands very well and thinks that Aunt Jiang is very filial and suits his temper.
The problem of Uncle Yang's family, in Aunt Jiang's place, everything is not a problem.
Uncle Yang said: "My daughter is mentally ill. ”
Aunt Jiang said, "It's not like it, it's nothing." ”
Uncle Yang said again: "My daughter has never been with a partner until now. ”
Aunt Jiang said: "That's not good, a good fate hasn't arrived yet!" ”
Aunt Jiang looked at her 37-year-old future daughter who liked it more and more, and said bluntly: "Don't say where you go, how good the little girl is, I want to take wherever I want." ”
even learned that the little girl was going to look for a job, so she arranged it on the spot.
"No, you make glasses, give you all my glasses, you can sell them, I will back you up, and the rest is your money." Aunt Jiang looked at Uncle Yang's daughter and said.
This sentence may be the third time the little girl has heard it, and the first two times were said by her parents.
06
Go both ways
The blind date has come to this point, and the two uncles and aunts actually started a dispute over who will manage the money in the future.
Uncle said I'll give you money.
Aunt retorted that I don't want it, I have.
Uncle said again, you take it, you can give as much as I spend.
Aunt retorted that I don't want it, you just leave it there, I can add more to you if you are not enough.
Auntie's straight ball, don't say that the uncle can't resist it, if it's the editor, the editor feels that he can't bear it.
Aunt Jiang is going to follow Uncle Yang to Uncle's house to see the situation.
Before leaving, the aunt beckoned the little girl to take the bag, and began to stuff it in, good tea, good wine, good things, all greeted into the bag.
Uncle Yang next to him, the smile on his face is really not "valuable", and he has never hung it on his face.
As soon as Aunt Jiang arrived at her uncle's house, she went straight to the kitchen to see the situation, and there was no oil on the range hood.
This made Aunt Jiang very satisfied, and felt that the uncle was a particular person.
Aunt Jiang, who has always loved to play straight balls, said directly: "I don't have any opinion on you, since you can be good to your girl, then you will definitely be good to me." ”
The little girl also said happily on the side: "I'm happy for my dad." ”
The "mother and daughter" cherish each other, cheer each other up, and have the confidence to get along with each other.
Uncle Yang next to him was not to be outdone: "I also have confidence!" ”
Seeing that the two elders have found their own happiness, the 37-year-old daughter is also secretly seeking a love partner in the back of the show.
The whole process, the atmosphere is very joyful and peaceful, as the saying goes, kind people will eventually find happiness.
What do you think of this blind date with your daughter?
References:
It's not too late to come "I'll find a companion for my dad"
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