Who said that a 45-year-old woman should keep to herself, husband and children? When the 45-year-old Zhang Ziyi stepped on the red carpet of the Venice Film Festival and the 45-year-old Qin Lan gracefully appeared at the Suzhou event, we suddenly realized: it turns out that the charm of middle-aged women can be so diverse! These two goddesses interpreted what "top temperament" is in their own way, and also taught us a vivid life lesson. Let's take a look at how these two middle-aged roses have become more and more fragrant under the baptism of time.
45-year-old fork in the road: Zhang Ziyi VS Qin Lan
When people reach middle age, everyone will be faced with different choices. Some people choose to be safe, some people choose to take risks. 45-year-old Zhang Ziyi and Qin Lan seem to be standing at a fork in the road of life, one goes international, the other is deeply cultivated in China, but they both bloom with unique brilliance on their respective roads.
Zhang Ziyi, a girl who was once questioned as "not beautiful enough", has now become a frequent visitor to the international film industry. ON SEPTEMBER 7, ON THE RED CARPET OF THE VENICE FILM FESTIVAL, SHE SURPRISED THE AUDIENCE WITH A GUCCI CUSTOM DRESS. Zhang Ziyi that day seemed to be the Queen of Darkness who came out of mythology, powerful, confident, and invincible.
And Qin Lan, who is also 45 years old, showed the charm of another mature woman at an event in Suzhou. She was dressed in a white gilt dress, and her gestures were full of gentleness and intellectuality. The girl who once played "Zhihua" in "Huanzhu Gege 3" has now grown into an elegant and calm lady.
Two people, two choices, two very different charms. But they have one thing in common: self-confidence.
Zhang Ziyi: The domineering demeanor of an international superstar
Speaking of Zhang Ziyi, many people's first impression may still be the stubborn Jade Jiaolong in "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon". However, time flies, and the young girl has now grown into a big woman who can play well on the international stage.
At the Venice Film Festival on September 7, Zhang Ziyi's appearance can be called a textbook. A black silk satin high-slit dress, with red lips and wet hair, and tiny glitter heels of the same color, the whole look is simply announcing to the world: I, Zhang Ziyi, am the queen of this red carpet!
"Her skin is no longer young, but her heroic and powerful bones are enough to support her confidence on the international red carpet."
This sentence expresses the essence of Zhang Ziyi's charm. Yes, her skin may no longer be as blown-out as it was in her 20s, but so what? 45-year-old Zhang Ziyi, with her aura and self-confidence, conquered the 360-degree shot without dead ends.
Zhang Ziyi's charm is not only reflected in her appearance. As the only Chinese in the jury, her every expression and every movement is showing the world the wisdom and charm of Chinese women. Her success is not only a personal victory, but also the pride of the entire Chinese film industry.
Qin Lan: The classical beauty of gentleness and intellectuality
If Zhang Ziyi is a cup of spirits, then Qin Lan is a pot of warm tea. At the event site in Suzhou, Qin Lan used a white gilt dress to interpret what it means to be "gentle like water".
"Gentle people walk with shyness and pretty, speak softly and softly, three points are angry, seven points delicate, and their eyes are shining, like water and tenderness."
This description is simply tailor-made for Qin Lan. Looking at the current Qin Lan, it seems that he has gone back in time and returned to the touching painting in "Huanzhu Gege 3". However, the current Qin Lan has a little more intellectual beauty of a mature woman.
Speaking of Qin Lan, I have to mention her classic response. When asked about marriage, she said domineeringly: "My uterus is not used, what does it have to do with you!" This sentence not only shocked the whole network, but also issued the strongest voice for countless women who were urged to marry.
Qin Lan's beauty lies in her acceptance of her imperfections. She does not pursue extreme thinness, but maintains a well-proportioned beauty. This kind of confidence and calmness is the real charm.
Two charms, just as exciting
Zhang Ziyi and Qin Lan, one is domineering and leaky, and the other is gentle and intellectual. In their own way, they interpret what it means to be "top temperament".
Zhang Ziyi's charm lies in her ambition and self-confidence. Not content with the domestic market, she bravely stepped onto the international stage. Every appearance is a stunning.
Qin Lan's charm lies in her gentleness and wisdom. She chose her own way of life, not following the crowd, but insisting on being her most authentic self.
Two people, two options, but both equally wonderful. They tell us that a 45-year-old woman can have infinite possibilities.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet. Some netizens think:
"Zhang Ziyi is so domineering! At the age of 45, she can still shine so brightly on the international stage, which is simply the pride of Chinese women! ”
Some netizens also said:
"Qin Lan's temperament is really amazing, that gentle and intellectual feeling is simply the embodiment of classical beauty."
Some netizens think:
"Whether it is Zhang Ziyi or Qin Lan, they have interpreted what 'feminine charm' is in their own way. Age is never a limit, it's confidence and attitude that matters. ”
But there are also different voices:
"Why do we always divide women into 'domineering' and 'gentle'? Each person is unique and should not be simply labeled. ”
This view has also sparked more discussion. It has been argued that:
"It's true that we shouldn't define women by inherent standards. Whether it is Zhang Ziyi's self-confidence or Qin Lan's gentleness, they are only part of their personalities, not all of them. ”
Some netizens said:
"Seeing them makes me feel more confident about my future. It turns out that at the age of 45, you can still be so wonderful and beautiful! ”
Write at the end
Zhang Ziyi and Qin Lan showed us the diverse charm of middle-aged women in their own way. They tell us that no matter what path you choose in life, the most important thing is to stay confident and be your truest self.
As mentioned at the beginning of the article, "three repairs and three maintenances": skin appearance, body management and temperament development. This is not only a requirement for the outward, but also a cultivation of the heart. Zhang Ziyi and Qin Lan are the best examples.
So, dear readers, what do you think is the real "top temperament"? Is it Zhang Ziyi's domineering self-confidence, or Qin Lan's gentle intellectuality? Or, do you have your own understanding? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section!