"Take care of your husband, or I'll hook it up."
It was not Pan Jinlian who said this, but the actress Song Jia who "knows three and is three".
She has won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress and the Magnolia Award for Best Actress.
However, compared to her superb acting skills, her wonderful emotional life made netizens drop their jaws.
seamlessly connected 6 boyfriends, and also lived with a married director, and then forced Zhenggong to abdicate......
A graceful figure, charming eyes, and looming skin.
In the movie "Hibiscus Out of the Water", Song Jia's large-scale shots made the audience feast their eyes.
In addition to the audience, actor Chen Long, who was in the crew at the time and was already famous, also fell completely.
Every day watching Song Jia filming seriously on the set, his heartbeat involuntarily accelerated. He began to find all kinds of excuses to approach Song Jia, from handing out water to helping with sorting clothes.
Song Jia also noticed Chen Long, a man who silently cared, and gradually the two got closer and closer, and gradually became a couple.
However, with the improvement of Song Jia's career, there began to be a lot of contradictions between the two.
First, Song Jia filmed all over the country, while Chen Long stayed in Shanghai to work. Phone calls are also getting frequent.
Until the end, the two broke up completely because they disagreed with the concept of the future.
After breaking up with this serious boyfriend, Song Jia began her "little three" journey.
In 2006, Song Jia became famous for starring in "Curiosity Kills the Cat".
But on the set, there is also constant ambiguity.
She was on the set with the mature man Hu Jun, but she had a lot of trouble. In private, they are even more flirtatious and ridicule each other, and others feel ambiguous at a glance.
There are also rumors that they often spend time alone between filming, and they are even seen hugging each other intimately in the corners of the set.
However, this "love affair on the set" finally came to an end with the end of filming, and the two lost contact completely.
After that, Song Jia starred in "Once Upon a Time in China" directed by Zhang Li.
50-year-old Zhang Li was deeply attracted by Song Jia's youthful charm, although Zhang Li was a full 23 years older than Song Jia and was about to catch up with her father, but this did not prevent the two from warming up their relationship.
It is said that Zhang Li often finds excuses to guide Song Jia to act alone, and the two spend more time alone than other actors.
Once, after the crew had a dinner, Zhang Li offered to send Song Jia home.
In the car, the hands of the two inadvertently touched, and then quickly separated, and the air was filled with an ambiguous atmosphere.
After arriving at their destination, the two did not get out of the car for a long time, and did not reluctantly say goodbye until late at night.
However, it's not that simple.
Zhang Li already had a family at this time, and his wife was still pregnant.
When the relationship between the two was exposed by the media, public opinion was in an uproar. Many people accuse Song Jia of being a "little three" and destroying other people's families.
Someone broke the news that Zhang Li's wife had caught rape on the set and saw the two hugging each other intimately in the dressing room.
Faced with overwhelming doubts, Song Jia simply responded: "Nonsense." "
But the brief response only sparked more speculation.
Despite this, Zhang Li still chose to divorce. Subsequently, he and Song Jia began to live together.
This love, which spanned the age difference of 23 years, lasted for a full 5 years.
But this controversial relationship did not come to fruition in the end.
Five years later, the two parted ways.
Maybe it's because Song Jia is tired of the generation gap caused by the age difference, or maybe it's because Zhang Li can't accept Song Jia's intimate scenes with other young actors.
Song Jia's love life has never had a "window period".
As soon as she ended with Zhang Li, she had an affair with Xie Tianxiao, a rock singer who was 8 years older than her.
The two are often photographed going out on various occasions together, and their relationship is very close.
Some people say that they were bumped into and kissed backstage, although the parties did not admit it, but this kind of ambiguity, no one who sees it feels simple.
Even during this period, Song Jia was revealed to be having an affair with another mysterious "macho man".
This is a good thing, Song Jia once again fell into the turmoil of "knowing three and being three".
Xie Tianxiao is also a family person.
In the face of these rumors, Song Jia did not shy away from it.
She publicly stated that she was only in love and not married, and this chic attitude surprised many people.
Once in an interview, she half-jokingly said: "I just like excitement, who made me young?" "
As soon as these words came out, they really caused an uproar.
However, the show always has to end. Xie Tianxiao finally chose to return to the family.
These successive "little three" incidents really made Song Jia's career plummet.
In the past, she could receive a lot of good roles, but now she is even embarrassed to look for her.
Song Jia didn't care and continued to do her own thing.
When she heard the news of Song Jia's love, her fans were trembling.
I'm afraid of making a "married man" in the cold.
But fortunately, Huang Shaofeng, a music producer, was absolutely single and unmarried before.
At this moment, Song Jia's fans were relieved.
They met during the filming of "Lu Yao Zhi Ma Li", and they met at work and gradually fell in love.
On the set, the two often get together to discuss music and scripts, and others think they are a good match.
After that, Song Jia won the "Golden Rooster Award" for Best Actress with her outstanding acting skills, which is undoubtedly a peak of her acting career.
When receiving the award, she especially thanked Huang Shaofeng for his support and encouragement, which made many people think about it.
Inspired by Song Jia, Huang Shaofeng composed the song "Pushing Open the Door of the World" and gave it to Song Jia as a gift.
This song was interpreted by many as Huang Shaofeng's emotional confession to Song Jia.
However, the good times did not last long, and the two eventually parted ways.
The specific reason is unknown, but it is rumored that it is because Song Jia is unwilling to settle down and start a family.
Song Jia has always maintained an attitude of "only in love, not married", which may disappoint some partners who want to enter the palace of marriage.
After the breakup, Song Jia still went her own way.
This attitude allows her to maintain a unique charm in her relationship and allows her to devote herself to her acting career.
Although her love life has been up and down, Song Jia's acting skills have always been recognized.
She continues to challenge herself in a variety of roles, conquering audiences and judges with her superb performances.
Perhaps it is these rich emotional experiences that allow her to better understand and interpret the emotional worlds of different characters.
In general, although Song Jia's emotional story is tortuous, it also shows her independent, dare to love and hate character.
Whether it is the sweet time with Huang Shaofeng or the decision to stick to her own lifestyle, Song Jia's unique life trajectory has been shaped.
These experiences may become nutrients for her future acting career, allowing her to present more colorful performances on the screen.