Late at night on June 22, the boiling Sun Yang ban finally had a result: the judgment of the International Court of Arbitration for Sport came out, but it also broke Sun Yang's hopes of a recent comeback, and the judgment was changed from an eight-year ban to a four-year and three-month ban from February 2020.
Regardless of how much the 4-year and 3-month ban has affected Sun Yang's future sports career, today we will discuss how Sun Yang came to this result step by step under the influence of his mother.
Sun Yang's mother, Yang Ming, was the main force of the Zhejiang women's volleyball team, a professor of the Department of Physical Education of Hangzhou Normal University, and also served as Sun Yang's agent. Sun Yang's father, Sun Quanhong, also came from a professional volleyball background and worked as a physical education teacher at Zhejiang University of Science and Technology. In such a family background, coupled with Sun Yang's proud swimming talent, it is natural that Sun Yang can become an excellent swimmer.
Sun Yang is a talented swimmer, as his mother, there is nothing wrong with placing high hopes on Sun Yang, but the parent-child relationship should be in a relationship that supports you to grow and watch you soar, rather than in the state where the child has reached adulthood but has always been under the mother's wings and obeying everything.
In the sports circle, Sun Yang's mother's doting on Sun Yang is almost well known, such as giving Sun Yang soup all year round during his injury, participating in variety interviews, interviewing Sun Yang's questions almost being answered by his grandmother, the relevant costumes required for going out to compete are prepared and matched by his grandmother, and Sun Yang's Weibo is also taken care of by his grandmother. As a mother, there is nothing wrong with loving her son, but Sun Yang is already an adult and should have his own thoughts and thoughts, but we can only see a giant baby and a strong and unwilling mother in our relationship!
It was under such a relationship that there was a later Incident of Sun Yang's "violent resistance to prosecution"! From the trial video, we can feel that Sun Yang ignores the rules, which has a lot to do with the fact that he was spoiled from childhood to adulthood, making him mistakenly think that he is the center of the world, but never thinking about whether he has obeyed the rules of this world! From refusing to provide bloody urine samples to court trials, from finding a temporary translator to arrogant tone, it nakedly shows the arrogance and arrogance of privilege.
Similarly, through the video of the trial, we can also see how terrible an ignorant and strong mother is!
On such an important occasion related to Sun Yang's career, the grandmother did not pay attention to it, and in the hearing, she answered questions that were not asked, repeatedly avoided questions and talked to herself, giving people the feeling that she did not care at all, so that in the official report, there was a rare description of "his mother seems to have played the most useless role for her son"!
In the end, Sun Yang was sentenced to 8 years of ban, until today's sentence was changed to 4 years and 3 months!
We are overwhelmed by the fact that the talented swimmers have fallen to this point, but behind the whole incident, there are many things worth pondering: how to get along between parents and children. Sun Yang can be said to be the grandmother of Cheng ye and the grandmother of defeat. Maternal love is great, but excessive love is harmful!
There is a sentence in the book "The Most Beautiful Education is the Simplest", the first task of parents is to be intimate with their children and take care of their children's growth; the second task is to separate from their children and promote their independence. If you reverse the order, you are doing something against nature.
I hope that we parents, when we know how to let go, do not treat our children as our own private goods, and firmly grasp all matters in our hands, so that children lose the ability to think and lose their most important self...
I am Ming Xue Shining Rain Morning, thanks for the attention