"Dad died unexpectedly, a year later my mother also left us, then, my brother and I have a police mother, every weekend and holiday, the police mother's home has become our home, Xie mother to us tutoring homework, cooking, reading and playing games with us, wearing a police uniform Xie mother will also come to my school to participate in the parent-teacher meeting, I feel particularly proud and proud, my classmates are particularly envious of me......" This is the voice of the female policeman of the Lanshan Public Security Bureau, "Mulan mother" Xie Chengfeng paired children Tongtong and Qingqing (pseudonym), In 2018, Xie Chengfeng joined the "Mulan Mother" volunteer service team, and successively paired up to help 4 children, in order to be a good "Mulan Mother" for the children, she used her spare time to learn family education and mental health knowledge, and was admitted to the national second-level psychological counselor. In Lanshan District, there are countless stories of love in the style of Mother Xie......
In recent years, the Lanshan District Women's Federation has actively responded to the needs of children in distress in life, learning, psychology and other aspects, innovated and explored the work model of "1 cadre of the Women's Federation + N social love organizations + N children in difficulty", continued to carry out the "Mulan Mother" care action, created the work brand of "Mulan Mother · Yi Road Children's Travel", and promoted the work of helping left-behind and difficult children to achieve new results. On the basis of all the full-time cadres of the district and town women's federations taking the lead in striving to be "Mulan mothers", "online and offline" publicity and recruitment have formed and enriched a "Mulan Mother" volunteer service team composed of more than 400 caring volunteers in various fields such as women's federation cadres, family education instructors, teachers, lawyers, psychological counselors, and female entrepreneurs, with a total of more than 1,000 pairs of caring for children in difficulty, and carrying out more than 3,000 loving activities such as home visits, homework counseling, and safety education.
Thought leads education
Set sail for the dreams of paired children
"When I grow up, I want to be a painter and paint the great rivers and mountains of the motherland; I want to be a chef when I grow up, making the best dishes in the world; I want to be a doctor when I grow up, cure my grandmother's waist and leg pain......" In this year's "Magnolia Blossom · Yi Road Children's Travel" summer research summer camp power gas station classroom, the founder of Hongzheng Psychological Counseling Room, "Mulan Mother" He Yufei is leading the children to talk about their life ideals, and Mr. He guides the children to establish life ideals and goals by scientifically setting up game links, group interactions, sharing and exchanges.
In the "Magnolia Blossom · Yi Road Children's Walk" care and assistance action, the Lanshan District Women's Federation has always put ideological guidance education in the first place, actively guided children in difficulty to strengthen their ideals and beliefs, led children to visit and study in family style museums, museums, and red research bases, made good use of parent schools, family education guidance service stations, parent-child reading experience bases and other positions, and used weekends and summer vacations to carry out concentrated learning activities such as Chinese learning reading, red book learning, and red family style story sharing meetings, so as to cultivate children's feelings of home and country. Liuqing Street Qiaofang Community Family Education Guidance Service Station as a caring mother station, every Saturday to open a Chinese culture reading class, the service station director, "Mulan Mother" Zang Mei on time to lead the children to read the "Chinese Studies Classics Reading Book", Zang's mother led the children to learn Chinese culture and read classics together, and guided them to strive to be good teenagers who love the party and the country.
Training Enhancement
Help "Mulan's mother" empower and grow
In order to continuously improve the ability of the members of the "Mulan Mother" volunteer service team to help and care in pairs, the Lanshan District Women's Federation held the "Mulan Mother's · Empowerment and Growth" skill improvement training course on a regular basis, which stimulated the volunteer service vitality and paired care and assistance ability of the "Mulan Mother" through visiting the party spirit education base, learning legal knowledge, and improving caring and communication skills.
·When it was found that more and more "Mulan mothers" lacked skills and common sense in the psychological care of paired children, they actively connected with professional psychological counseling institutions, held public welfare training courses for psychological counselors, and recruited 107 "Mulan mothers" to sign up to participate in systematic learning; In order to better provide professional and accurate family education guidance services for paired children, recruit members of the "Mulan Mother" volunteer service team, hold public welfare training courses for family education instructors and family education backbone training courses, and provide academic counseling and energy storage assistance for "Mulan Mother" for paired children, so far 193 "Mulan Mothers" have successfully obtained the family education instructor certificate.
Rich activity modes
Make care and assistance accurate and effective
Cooperate with the Civil Affairs Bureau, the Charity Federation, the Red Cross and other departments to mobilize caring enterprises and caring people in society to donate money and materials, leverage and integrate social organizations such as social psychological counseling rooms, family education institutions, research and practice bases, and provide support such as activity positions and professional services, so as to ensure that the paired care and assistance activities are rich in content and diverse in form. Since 2017, the Women's Business Association has been linked, and caring women entrepreneurs have been mobilized to form a "Mulan Mother" female entrepreneur team, which has continued to carry out more than 120 activities of centralized care, home visits, and summer research and summer camps, paired to care for orphans and de facto orphans, and distributed 492,000 yuan in care grants.
On the basis of carrying out inclusive care activities such as collective class delivery, collective travel, and collective movie viewing, the Lanshan District Women's Federation has enriched the "inclusive + personalized" care activity model, accurately touched the individual needs and "weak" links of children, and accurately matched "Mulan mothers" for children, such as for children with lively personalities and love to sing, music teachers are mobilized to pair; For children with partial subjects, in-service teachers with subject expertise are mobilized to pair up; For children with insufficient learning motivation and learning disabilities, family education instructors are mobilized to pair up, and in the practice of pairing care and assistance, we continue to accurately take the pulse of the needs of the paired children, implement precise policies, help the children's strengths, make up for the children's weaknesses, and help the children improve their growth in an all-round way.
This summer, in response to the academic, safety and growth needs of paired children, "Mulan mothers" with family education expertise were mobilized to carry out "Mulan Mother Summer Care Classes" in qualified community organizations to provide centralized care and academic guidance services for paired children; Linking the resources of caring enterprises, the "Magnolia Blossom · Yilu Children's Trip" summer research summer camp was held, and the "Mulan Mother" was organized to lead pairs of children to eat and live together at the red research base, and experience the joy of parent-child practice activities such as making pancakes, making moxa sticks, traveling through time and space· exploring history; Link the strength of caring institutions, organize the "Bright Eyes and Bright Teeth, Healthy Growth" eye and oral health action, and guide paired children to develop good healthy life and hygiene habits; Linking the power of social love, we will carry out the activity of "Hand in Hand· Heart to Heart" Your Family & My Family Grow Together and Visit Homes to Send Care Materials, and promote more pairs of children to "have a helpful life, emotional love, ideological guidance, and safety and security".