In this life, a woman has "multiple identities", from the "pearl in the palm" of her parents, to the energetic students, to the hard-working workplace elites, to the wife, mother, mother-in-law...... But no matter what kind of identity we are, we should all be ourselves!
After a woman reaches middle age, she must learn to love herself, even if her body is gradually out of shape, she should make her core stronger, learn to take some time to dress up, and use clothing and hairstyles to retain "charm", so that people can ignore the impact of weight and focus on your taste.
Part 1: What should a 130-pound mother be dressed like?
(1) It is a necessary condition that the clothes are not tight and the hair is not over the shoulders
★ Don't wear tights, loose clothes cover the flesh and are comfortable
Being chubby is not a flaw, but it can stimulate our potential! Especially when choosing clothing items, it can test a person's taste. If you are slightly chubby, you can't wear tights, so you can change to a loose and moderate long skirt, trousers, shirt or T-shirt, which is more inclusive of the figure.
★ No long straight hair, short curly hair is fashionable and foreign and reduces age
Hairstyle is very important for middle-aged women, which can not only affect the appearance, but also determine the final temperament. When choosing a hairstyle, first of all, you should avoid long straight hair, which is easy to stick to the scalp and is very greasy, and change to short curly hair with a sense of fluffiness, which can be more beautiful and generous, and it is also very age-reducing.
(2) Chubby mother's clothing selection policy
✓ The fabric is not soft, it is wide and stylish, and it covers the flesh more
For chubby mothers, when choosing clothing items, in addition to avoiding tight-fitting items, the fabric material should not be too soft, with a certain sense of width, in order to successfully cover the body fat.
✓ Wear more solid colors and avoid expansive colors
Color has a great influence on the modeling, color matching is the essence of the modeling, chubby mothers must not wear expansion, such as fluorescent color, Barbie pink, orange red, etc., visually are particularly fat, change to a low saturation of solid colors, in order to wear a high-end thin effect.
✓ Slim but not tight cut, easily outline the body curve
Who said that chubby mothers must only wear loose clothes? As long as you dress up in a well-proportioned and harmonious way, you can successfully create a sense of beauty. In particular, the selection of basic pieces emphasizes the slim effect, which is more attractive than the tight-fitting and baggy shapeless style.
✓ The clothing version is appropriately exposed and not too conservative
Whether it is a top, a bottom, or a dress, when choosing a slightly chubby mother, she must consider the effect of appropriate skin exposure. Especially for the top fit, the neckline should not be too high, the sleeves should be slightly loose and show the arm line, and if it is a skirt, the length should show the ankle.
(3) Hairstyle selection policy for chubby mothers
✓ Refuse to stick to the scalp, and the curvature with a little micro-curl is fluffier
The fluffiness of a hairstyle is never innate, the second is acquired through acquired changes, especially for women who are fine and soft, they must perm their hair into large curls, and the top of the head must be permed to stand up and straight, so that they can support the hairstyle, and our hair looks more fluffy.
✓ Pick the right bangs for your face features
Many people think that when choosing a hairstyle, it is enough to take into account the length, curl, and collocation, in fact, the influence of bangs is also very great. Women with long faces are more suitable for oblique bangs; Women with short faces are more suitable for partials or oblique bangs; For women with narrow foreheads, it is important to increase the amount of skin exposed on the forehead.
✓ Emphasize the layering of hairstyles and reject the old-fashioned feeling
No matter what type of hairstyle it is, if it lacks layering, it will look very old-fashioned. Just like the "one-size-fits-all" that was very popular before, it is not suitable for middle-aged women at all, and it is more beautiful to change it to short hair with layered ears, low-disc hair or short curly hair with a chin!
Part 2: Learn the "Beauty Trio" and let your weight become a number
1. Change from the inside out, completely ignoring weight
★ Unaffected by weight, age and wrinkles, it remains youthful
In addition to choosing the right clothes and hairstyles, we must also correct our mentality and not be affected by external factors. There is no perfect "hardware", we must learn to change through "software" and maintain a youthful state, so that we can live more and more beautifully.
★ Maintain a graceful and dignified posture and be an elegant mother
The posture of a mature woman also has a great influence on temperament, if she is always hunched over, probing her neck and buttoning her shoulders, she will naturally have no beauty in wearing clothes. Only by maintaining a good habit of holding your head up and chest high, and your shoulders are straight and stretched enough, your spirit will be better.
★ Always smile and refuse to be harsh
Your facial state is also the key to affecting your temperament, many women will always maintain a mean state in order to enhance their aura, and they seem to have no affinity, thus losing their gentle and elegant side; Only by smiling at all times can you look more attractive.
2. Paint on a delicate and flattering makeup to enhance the sense of sophistication
Even in middle age, even if we don't have a perfect body, we still have the right to love beauty. Makeup is never the preserve of young people, and chubby mothers in middle age can also paint delicate and clean makeup, maintain a neat hairstyle, and make themselves look more beautiful.
3. Be confident enough to look younger
To see whether a person is confident, in fact, it can be reflected from her state, women with low self-esteem always dare not show themselves, and they dress very plain and low-key; A confident woman is always at the forefront of fashion, walks with the wind, and looks younger.
In the end, I hope that every woman can build up self-confidence, don't feel inferior and anxious because of the defects in the external image, learn more about the "beauty ideas" of elegant women, and learn to constantly cultivate their inner self, so as to become more and more beautiful!
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