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The ancients said: "Those who seek good fortune and avoid evil are gentlemen." ”
Knowing how to tend to auspiciousness, and avoiding disasters in time, such a person can be regarded as a true gentleman. On the contrary, if you don't know how to seek good fortune or avoid evil, you are a proper fool.
What is the core of seeking good fortune and avoiding evil? Just one point, stay away from cause and effect that have nothing to do with you. As long as there is no beginning of the "cause", there will be no subsequent "effect".
For example, if you don't offend other people's interests or offend others, then others will not target you. If there is no cause for sinning, there will be no consequences of mutual harm later.
Cause and effect are not strange things, it is just the logic of before and after. The most typical example is that one plus one equals two. If there is a cause plus one, there will be an effect equal to two.
When you go out, try not to be contaminated with these causes and effects, otherwise, it is easy to provoke bad retribution.
1. Try not to interfere with other people's lives.
Lao Tzu has a point of view in the Tao Te Ching: The essence of a harmonious and harmonious society is to live their own lives and reduce interruptions. The original text is, the voice of chickens and dogs hears each other, and the old and dead do not get along.
If you come into contact with this sentence for the first time, then you must not understand, why do you have to "hear the voice of chickens and dogs, and never get along with each other"?
The reason is very simple, how you live your life is your own business; How others live is someone else's business. Only by respecting each other can conflicts be reduced.
Otherwise, if you interfere with my life, and I interfere with your life, then there will be contradictions and conflicts between you and me, and all kinds of sharp problems will arise.
Being nosy is actually the most annoying. People will think, what right do you have to meddle with my business? If you meddle in my business, you trample on my dignity.
People in the rivers and lakes, just remember a sentence, don't care about the cause and effect of others, and respect the fate of others. What cause and effect others have, that's someone else's business, so let's not be overly nosy.
2. Don't get involved in the love and hatred of others.
There's a story. A and B have made a feud, and it has reached the point of never dying. As A's friend, C often corresponds with A and wants to give A a head.
In order to get revenge on A, B devises a trap to kill A. C, as A's friend, was the first to fall into this trap and became A's substitute ghost.
Why did C become a substitute for the dead, and he didn't even know how to die? Because C is confused, he is involved in the love-hate relationship between A and B, and he is destined to become a victim of contradictions.
Many people don't understand this truth, and when they see what other people love and hate, they have to go over and join in the fun. As everyone knows, curiosity kills cats.
Nothing that has anything to do with him, if he doesn't join in the fun, then he won't have any disaster. On the contrary, if he has nothing to do with him, he will cause trouble.
If others have any love or hatred, even if we know it, we must pretend not to know. There are some things that interfere too much, and in the end it is not others who die, but yourself.
3. Don't share, other people's good fortune and bad fortune.
Everyone has their own good fortune and bad luck. You have your good fortune and misfortune, he has his good fortune and misfortune, and everyone's good fortune and misfortune are not touched at all.
Here's an example. Your good fortune and misfortune have to do with doing business; His good fortune and misfortune are related to natural and man-made disasters. If they do not interfere with each other, it is the destiny of each other, and it will not affect the innocent.
If you are unfortunate and you are contaminated with his good fortune and misfortune, and he is contaminated with your good fortune and misfortune, it will lead to you being affected by natural and man-made disasters, and he will lose money in the business field.
How to understand it? The good fortune and evil fortune and misfortune between people, once they are contaminated with each other, will be intertwined. His misfortune will continue to you, and your misfortune will also extend to him.
If you look at those poor couples who quarrel every day, they are the most typical examples. The husband drags down the wife, and the wife drags down the husband, and the marriage has no sweetness, only naked pain.
You and I are not saints, so there is no need to share good fortune and evil with others. There is no diamond, but you take the porcelain work, sooner or later you will suffer a big loss.
Fourth, if others have any choices, we should not interfere.
There are no two leaves that are exactly the same, and naturally there are no two people who are exactly the same.
If you have an extroverted personality, you will follow the path of extroversion; He has an introverted personality and will follow the path of introversion. Everyone's path is different, and the choice of future is also different.
The essence is, you take your Yangguan Road, I take my single-plank bridge, everyone goes their own way, as long as you respect me, I respect you, you can do well water without river water.
The reason is very simple, but countless people can't do it. Due to human impulse, he always likes to think from his own point of view, and when he sees that other people's choices do not conform to his own ideas, he intervenes in other people's choices.
Isn't this a bit eventful? What does it matter to us how others choose? If it's none of our business, why should we interfere with others? There is no greater source of trouble than this.
Everyone can only decide their own life, but not the life of others. Everyone's cause and effect are different, so there is no need to intertwine. The world should not be the same, but colorful. So much for..