Wealth, in many cases, is not obtained by suffering alone! In the business war drama "The Way of Heaven", there are such five sentences, which not only taught us a lot of sophistication, but also uncovered the wealth code of making a fortune, and many people turned over after reading it! Be sure to read:
1. In society, there is an iron law, that is, if you say something good, you can get 50% of the people; If you give something, you can get 70% of the people; Say something nice and give something, and you'll be able to get 90% of the people; Say what you like and give you the right amount of benefits, and you'll get 99% of them, and the remaining 1% won't have to be considered.
People themselves crave recognition from the outside world, no matter how powerful they seem or how unique they are. Based on this characteristic, then people like to listen to good words, so so many sycophants in history can be popular.
In the same way, human nature also has a greedy side, and it is human nature to like to enjoy, so it is human nature to ask people to give gifts, as long as the gifts are thick enough, then the probability of success is greater. But there are always some people who don't accept good words and don't want your courtesy, it's hard for you to grasp what this kind of person wants, and it is almost impossible to impress him, so it's better to give up as soon as possible.
Rui Xiaodan's interrogation of Wang Mingyang in "The Way of Heaven" is a very wonderful scene, Wang Mingyang, as the criminal leader, has a very strong psychological quality, and he is stubborn, and he does not cooperate with the interrogation at all. In Wang Mingyang's view, he was destined to be executed, and he didn't want to betray his accomplices, so he didn't cooperate with the investigation.
Rui Xiaodan sought a solution from Ding Yuanying, and finally relied on his favorite, starting from the topic that Wang Mingyang was interested in, and pried his mouth open. The two talked about philosophy and religion to spiritual salvation, and Rui Xiaodan's upright conduct and logical and clear arguments really impressed Wang Mingyang.
2. Don't spend money when you have money, and don't talk when you don't have money. In front of relatives and friends, he said that he was so poor, and in front of strangers, he said that he was so rich. In this way, there will be less right and wrong and more respect. In life, you have to learn to be a person, you can't do what you want, but you have to look at the faces of others and show the side they want to see. In the past, I always felt that it was hypocrisy to see people and talk about people, but now I understand that this is an ability.
When people live, they must not always do what they want, but must learn to exercise restraint. Leave a sum of money for yourself at all times to protect against unknowable risks in the future, such as job loss, family members or yourself getting sick, etc., leaving this money can improve your ability to resist risks.
People must also learn to restrain their desire to show off, don't show off in front of relatives and friends, don't show cowardice in front of outsiders, and don't let anyone find out their bottom line.
It is also an ability to meet someone and say anything, after all, we are alive, and all kinds of people have to interact, this is not hypocrisy, this is learning to survive.
After Ding Yuanying withdrew from the stock market in "The Way of Heaven", the funds were frozen, but he still reserved part of the funds to hand over to his family, and instructed his sister that the money should be used exclusively for the second elder to see a doctor, and the money could not be used at other times. It's not that people are worried about the sky, but that there are unforeseen circumstances, and people have good and bad luck, once the risk comes, money is your greatest confidence. Ding Yuanying's father was sick, and the money also came in handy.
3. An old hen said to the child: one egg a day, and the kitchen knife stood aside. No eggs laid in January, see you in the pressure cooker. So you have to remember: exist because you create value, and eliminate because you lose value. No one wants to be an island, we need the ability to connect with others, and the degree of connection depends on the value you have.
No one wants to be an island, we need to connect with others, one is for spiritual needs, and the other is for the needs of development. How to link with others is a science, more often it depends on your own strength, if you are strong, you don't need to bother, others will naturally take the initiative to find you. If one day you fall and have no use for others, it will be a matter of time before you are abandoned.
In "The Way of Heaven", Ding Yuanying attracted the attention of Feng Shijie, Ye Xiaoming, Liu Bing and others as soon as he entered the ancient city.
If Ding Yuanying is really a worthless poor boy, can Feng Shijie still follow him? Of course not, what he likes is Ding Yuanying's strength, and he has a request for Ding Yuanying, so he will do everything possible to get in touch with him.
4. People who make a lot of money focus on looking up at the road, and those who make a small amount of money focus on working with their heads down. Choose a business, to make food and support your life, and wait for a fortune to turn things around. Wealth is in mathematics, not in labor, in the situation, not in hard work. Hard work does not make people rich at all, and there is no causal relationship between effort and reward. Cognition, resources, and choices are more important than effort; So, look up at the road, not look down at the work.
People have always regarded hard work and hardship as the guideline, and always feel that as long as they are practical and capable, they can make a fortune. In fact, hard work can only make food and clothing, and to make real money, you need to think, you need to break the traditional cognition, constantly arm your mind, and grasp the direction and opportunities of future development. To make money, it is the suffering of mental power, not the suffering of physical strength.
Ding Yuanying and Ye Xiaoming in "The Way of Heaven" are two completely different people, in layman's terms: one can make a lot of money, and the other can only be a little rich.
Ding Yuanying can kill all sides in the bloody wind of the mall, but Ye Xiaoming can't, the slightest wind and waves will make him afraid, and he will choose to return in time. What led them to make different choices, one is courage, and the other is vision, Ye Xiaoming did not have a thorough grasp of the situation, and did not dare to rashly make a bet.
5. When people have no money, wherever they go, they will be inferior if they don't pay attention to it, and sometimes they have to talk less, otherwise they will be humiliated, especially in the crowd, as long as you speak, it seems that you are either refuted, or no one answers. You have to understand that anything else is wrong except to make money from research, and maybe you don't agree with this sentence today, but the older you get, the deeper you feel about this sentence.
There is a saying: "People rely on clothes, and Buddha depends on gold".
It is the inferiority of human beings to watch people put on the plate, which has not changed so far and will not change for thousands of years to come. Because as long as it involves the part of human nature, it has almost always been the same for thousands of years, and the soup is not changed. When you don't have money, it's wrong to say anything, say more and say less wrong, and because you don't have money, no one cares about you at all. People will measure your worth by the amount of wealth you have, which will determine how much respect they have for you.
The reason why Han Chufeng is respectful to Ding Yuanying in "The Way of Heaven" is because Ding Yuanying is stronger than him, far surpassing him in terms of wealth and knowledge, if Ding Yuanying is not as good as him in turn, then is there still Ding Yuanying in Han Chufeng's eyes? From his initial attitude towards Rui Xiaodan, we can see that people have little respect for those who are not as good as themselves.
The drama "Tiandao" has the blessing of Wang Zhiwen and Zuo Xiaoqing, which makes the already wonderful plot more eye-catching. But after all, TV dramas are different from books and texts, and TV dramas are more interesting, which can be accepted and enjoyed by more people. But the words give people a deeper feeling, and the plot inside can make us revisit and be inspired. For example, the scene where Ding Yuanying was discussing the Tao in Wutai Mountain, as well as Han Chufeng's question to Ding Yuanying about the time, the conversation between the two is worth watching repeatedly.