What did the old men of the two eras see?
preface
Time flies, time flies, and when we look back on the past, we often think of the bits and pieces of our family. Family is the most solid support for our growth, and among our families, the elderly are the ones who give us the most care and teaching. They have experienced different eras and witnessed social changes, and for us, their life experiences and values can often give us a lot of inspiration and help.
In the depths of my memory, there are two old people, my grandmother and my grandmother. Grandma came from the rural areas of the northeast and did not have a high level of education, while grandma was born into a wealthy family in the south and received some private school education. Although they come from different places, have different living habits and personality traits, in my heart, they are all kind and great beings, and they have given me a lot of love and teaching.
1. The life background of grandma and grandma
1. Grandma's life background
Grandma came from a small village in Jilin and was born into a relatively wealthy family. In those days, the financial situation of the family had a very important impact on a person's fate, and the grandmother's family was relatively wealthy. When my grandmother was still very young, some members of the family participated in the revolution and were characterized as "landlords", and the family's economic situation changed greatly as a result.
2. Grandma's life background
In contrast, Grandma's family was better, she was born in a relatively wealthy family, and at that time, the cultural atmosphere in the south was stronger than in the northeast, so Grandma also received some enlightenment education and was able to read and write.
2. Personality traits of grandma and grandma
1. Grandma's personality traits
Grandma is a typical rural woman in Northeast China, with a very straightforward and bold personality, and she attaches great importance to some traditional customs and customs, such as killing New Year's pigs during the New Year, steaming steamed buns and making dumplings during the New Year, which is very particular.
2. Grandma's personality traits
In contrast, grandma is more gentle, she hides a fiery patriotic heart deep in her heart, is very concerned about national affairs, and hopes that her children and grandchildren can receive some good education.
3. The living habits of grandma and grandma
1. Eating habits
In daily life, the biggest difference between grandma and grandma is in eating habits, grandma likes to eat some heavy Northeast dishes, such as stewed cabbage, pork, etc., while grandma is good at cooking some soups and southern dishes, the dishes she makes are light and delicious, and it is also the favorite taste of our brothers and sisters.
2. Attitude towards children and grandchildren
Grandma and grandma are also different in their attitudes towards their children and grandchildren, grandma is more straightforward and thicker, while grandma is more delicate, she knows how to listen to the child's inner world very well, and is also good at giving children some warm care.
Fourth, the influence of grandma and grandma
1. The impact on me
This kind of growth environment has also exposed me to different cultural atmospheres since I was a child, and I have also learned how to respect and tolerate different opinions and customs, which is a good edification and education for my growth.
2. Impact on the family
In the whole family, grandma and grandma are also very important existences, although there will be some friction between them because of cultural and life differences, but their mutual tolerance and understanding have given us very good family education inspiration.
epilogue
Time flies, and now my grandmother and grandmother have passed away, but my nostalgia for them and my gratitude to them will always remain. It is precisely because of elders like my grandmother and grandmother that I have been able to get so much love and teaching on the road of growth, and I also know how to be strong and optimistic in the face of all kinds of difficulties in life.
When we become an elder ourselves, we can truly understand the hard work and dedication of grandma and grandma, and we can also pass on and continue what we have seen and heard in their lives, so that more people can benefit from it, which is the best memory and commemoration of grandma and grandma.