A touch of tenderness in their leisure time, who doesn't want to have one? It's a pity that reality always doesn't go as expected. Xiao Zhang's beige dress with white sandals, long hair fluttering, sitting on a bench looking at the sky in a daze, no matter how you look at it, it looks like she is acting in an idol drama. This picture is so beautiful that people are envious, but it is a little unreal.
Wait, don't rush to acid. Let's take a closer look at this scene first. Gentle afternoon sunshine, quiet corners, simple benches, and the half-open mysterious door are not the standard of "slow life" that urbanites dream of? Xiao Zhang sat there, looking indifferent from the world, as if to say: "Look, how good I can live!" "
However, listen to me: this is life, this is clearly acting! How can real life be so beautiful? Not to mention sitting on a bench in a daze, most people don't even have time to sit down and catch their breath. The pressure of work is huge, the mortgage and car loan are overwhelming, and you have to deal with various social occasions, where can you enjoy the sunshine?
Besides, even if there is such a quiet afternoon, how can modern people still sit like Xiao Zhang? It's either swiping your phone, playing games, or sleeping in the dark. Sitting dignified and elegant like Xiao Zhang, I'm afraid I'm not waiting for the photographer to shout "click", right?
But then again, this photo does give us a lesson in the fact that we do need moments like this in life. It's not for posing for photos, it's not for posting on Moments, but to really feel the beauty of life. But the question is, who remembers how to feel it?
Think about it, when do we start forgetting how to relax? Maybe it's from the first time I work overtime for KPIs, maybe it's from buying my first house in my life, or maybe it's from having children. Life is like a speeding train that carries us forward at a rapid pace, but we forget to stop from time to time to look at the scenery along the way.
Xiao Zhang's photo is not so much to show the beauty of life, but to remind us: Hey, wake up, life should be like this! But we turned it into a marathon, running endlessly, forgetting why we were running.
So, instead of envying Xiao Zhang, let's reflect on ourselves: Should we learn to steal half a day of leisure? Even if it's just for ten minutes, put down your phone, get away from the computer, find a quiet corner, and let your body and mind rest. You don't need to pose or prepare your outfits, just sit or stand casually, feel the sun, listen to the wind, and let your thoughts flow freely.
Of course, I know what you're thinking: "To put it lightly, I don't have time!" "But friend, time is always squeezed out. Brush your phone for half an hour less every day, chase one less episode, and this time will come out. The key is, are you willing to give yourself this opportunity.
Finally, I want to say to Xiao Zhang: Girl, your posture is very beautiful and your expression is in place, but don't forget to bring your mobile phone next time. After all, how can modern people be relaxed without a circle of friends?
So the question is: in this fast-paced era, can we still find the time that truly belongs to us? Or can we only depict an ideal state of life in our photographs?