In this complex world, each person is a unique landscape, and we walk in a hurry, weaving our own stories in the encounter and parting. However, in this long and short journey of life, there is an important topic worth pondering - how to learn to please ourselves, and at the same time, how to wisely discern and distance ourselves from those who are "not fed".
1. Pleasing oneself is the highest praise of life
Life is like a white horse, just suddenly. In this limited time, we are often too busy dealing with the expectations and judgments of the outside world, but we neglect to have the truest voice in our hearts. Pleasing oneself is not selfish, but a kind of respect and love for life. It means that in the midst of the hustle and bustle, we can still find our own peaceful place, listen to our inner call, and live at our own pace and preferences.
Pleasing yourself is a gift to yourself. Whether it is a quiet time immersed in a sea of books, a spiritual release on a solo trip, or a moment of joy brought by a simple cup of coffee or a piece of music, it is an affirmation and nourishment of self-worth. When we learn how to make ourselves happy, we have a strong armor to withstand the wind and rain of the outside world, no matter how noisy the outside world is, we can always maintain a peace and calm in our hearts.
Second, it is time to learn to let go of the hearts of those who can't feed them
However, there are always some people in life who are like bottomless pits, and no matter how much we try to pour everything we have, we can't fill their desires and greed. They may be those friends who habitually ask but never give, or those relatives who only complain and never be grateful, or those who use your kindness and tolerance to constantly test the bottom line. In the face of such an "empty glove white wolf", we often fall into a dilemma: continue to pay, exhausted; chose to give up, and was afraid of hurting the feelings.
But remember, life is short, and we don't have to sacrifice ourselves to cater to others. For those hearts that can't be fed, it's time to learn to let go. Be brave enough to say no, not afraid of offending, because true friends and loved ones will understand your difficulties and respect your choices. And those who will only consume you are not worth your time and energy.
3. Be kind to yourself and live with your heart
The focus of life should be on yourself. Learning to be kind to yourself is not only material satisfaction, but also spiritual enrichment. Treat every day with care, whether it's work or leisure, and try to do your best. Cultivate your hobbies, improve your abilities, and make every day meaningful and valuable.
When we focus and focus on our own lives, we find that the world is a better place. We will harvest and grow in our efforts and feel happiness in our efforts. And these growth and happiness will become our most solid backing, so that we can be more calm in the face of difficulties and challenges.
Fourth, although the heart is far away, the heart is compared to the heart
Although the joys and sorrows between people are not connected, people's hearts are mutual. We may not be able to fully understand the feelings of others, but we can sense and empathize by comparing our hearts to our hearts. In interpersonal interactions, maintain a kind and tolerant heart, but also learn to protect yourself from endless demands.
Remember, your efforts don't necessarily require the same amount in return, but at least they shouldn't be slighted and wasted. For those who don't know how to cherish you, bravely turning away is the best protection for yourself.
5. Conclusion: Live your life and embrace a better life
Life is a spiritual practice, and we are all constantly learning how to reconcile with ourselves and the world. In this process, learning to please ourselves, stay away from the hearts of the "white wolf with empty gloves", treat ourselves well and live with our hearts are skills that we must master. Only in this way can we maintain a sense of sobriety and independence in the midst of the chaos of the world, live our truest selves, and embrace a better and more fulfilling life.
Let's embark on this journey full of unknowns and challenges with a peaceful and determined heart! Believe in yourself, you deserve a more wonderful and happy life.