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"Only one day can be loved": Yang Kasa talks about a relationship, why is it so difficult?

author:The Paper

Husheng

Whether you like yang or not, the show "Only One Day to Love" at least illustrates one problem: Yang Ka is absolutely not misogynistic, and he really has the idea of falling in love. However, after watching the whole show, it is probably a little difficult for Yang Kasa to achieve his wishes.

"Only one day can be loved": Yang Kasa talks about a relationship, why is it so difficult?

Yang Kasa

As far as the creativity of the show is concerned, "Only One Day to Love" is not too new. Let the female guests and the male guests fall in love for a day, and then constantly change the object, which is a bit of a "human observation" flavor. But if there is no Yang Kasa to prop up the scene, the watchability of the show will be at least a 50% discount.

The reason is very simple, the audience wants to see, like Yang Kasa, a girl with sharp teeth and can speak the Tao, how will she fall in love? Besides, in the face of such a "powerful" opponent, can boys withstand it?

If you watch a show with such an idea, I have to regret to tell you that this show may disappoint you.

Yang Kasa on the stage and Yang Kasa in life are not alone. Some sharp and even harsh-sounding views are only for the sake of work. Yang Kasa's daily life is no different from that of ordinary girls. Understanding this, when everyone faces a controversial topic, should they also be more calm? It's too real, it's really unnecessary.

"Only one day can be loved": Yang Kasa talks about a relationship, why is it so difficult?

Male guest No.1: Zhai Yi (musician)

Back to the point, the program team is still very intimate and tries to meet the needs of Yang Kasa as much as possible. She said she was interested in musicians, and the program team immediately found a mature uncle who was famous in the music circle. Unfortunately, from the first male guest, the audience recalled the fear of being dominated by blind dates. Strangers meet for the first time, they have to find words when they have no words, and they obviously can't talk together and have to survive a night... This date, what an "awkward" word to get.

The uncle has an obsession with music, and Yang Kasa is not interested at all, in the final analysis, it is that the two "three views are not compatible". What's more, the uncle also has to reason with Yang Kasa, such as music to listen to the scene, what is wrong with the current music, what is the real music... Blabla, anyway, every sentence poked at Yang Kasa's thunder point.

To be fair, it's a bit of a daddy. The wordless ending has long been doomed.

"Only one day can be loved": Yang Kasa talks about a relationship, why is it so difficult?

Male guest No. 2: Xu Longhan (Aidou)

The second male guest to appear is an idol who is a trainee. "Year-down love" sounds romantic, but it is not the same thing when put into real life. Nothing will happen, but also rely on his sister to teach, Yang Kasa himself feels "tired". Maybe you can really relax when you get along, but this is love, this is basically to be a babysitter.

This also reveals some fatal problems in the current idol production industrial assembly line. Just pay attention to the appearance, talent (is there another to say), but the head is completely empty, I don't know what points can attract girls? At least for an independent woman like Yang Kasa, a leather bag really doesn't have much charm to speak of.

"Only one day can be loved": Yang Kasa talks about a relationship, why is it so difficult?

Male guest No. 3: Yu Minghao (drama actor)

The third male guest to appear is a literary and artistic man who focuses on the theater business. To be honest, he was very sincere, and specially prepared a performance for Yang Kasa that integrated into her personal life experience, and she was moved to tears. This empathy is quite touching, in Yang Kasa's own words, she may have become a literary and artistic worker with high and low music, but in the end she chose a more popular and profitable talk show.

There is no right or wrong in this choice itself, but as far as love itself is concerned, the common point between Yang Kasa and the literary and artistic man probably stays at the level of mutual understanding. Although none of them have broken the words, if they want to go further, "reality" may be an obstacle that cannot be crossed. Where is the future of the literary and artistic man, he himself has not yet figured out, can Yang Kasa accompany him and wait? This gamble, maybe everyone can't afford to lose.

"Only one day can be loved": Yang Kasa talks about a relationship, why is it so difficult?

Male Guest No. 4: Wu Chongyang (Health Manager)

The fourth male guest to appear is a fitness instructor. He is probably the first boy in this show to make Yang Kasa feel excited. Needless to say, the communication and interaction between him and Yang Kasa is much more natural than that of the previous boys. Everyone feels comfortable, and the favorability will naturally come up.

But do you say that two people have a fate? It's hard to say. Yang Kasa finally joked that he would find him to "get a card" in the future, are you telling the truth or lying? Probably a little bit. After all, although two people are happy when they get along, they have not touched much of the essence of life and work. Two people who are far apart in all aspects, whether they can run into each other well or not, they still need time to answer. Perhaps, after the show, Yang Kasa will give him a chance to continue to understand?

"Only one day can be loved": Yang Kasa talks about a relationship, why is it so difficult?

Male Guest No. 5: Lee Ming-lei (comedian)

The fifth male guest to appear is the actor of Happy Twist. He and Yang Kasa's fighting mouth is very interesting, and this classmate may also be the only one who can always catch the stem thrown by Yang Kasa. But it seems that the two people get along with each other no more than "fun". In the end, I'm not too optimistic about the final result anyway.

There was a feeling that before the show started, Yang Kasa was looking forward to it, but after one contact after another, she was also a little tired. The pictures in the program should be very familiar to the young people who are arranged by their parents to go on a blind date at the moment. Interestingly, everyone wants to fall in love, but when it comes to a critical juncture, they all shrink back, what is the problem?

Generation Z young people, more individual consciousness, Yang Kasa is a typical example. They have more opinions and ideas, both boys and girls, more want to be respected by the other half. This is the progress of the times, but also brings a new issue - independence is true, but love is also inseparable from mutual compromise and accommodation, who wants?

Take Yang Kasa, in the whole show, she knows how to respect people, whether she likes it or not, she has saved enough face for the other party, but just like this, it is still far from the state of love. Young people are too smart and too wise, so that everyone sees each other too thoroughly, and love has become a "war" of mutual game. So how much fun and warmth is there to speak of?

"Only one day can be loved": Yang Kasa talks about a relationship, why is it so difficult?

Of course, this is not a problem for Yang Kasa alone. In an era of self-emphasis, it seems that there is increasingly no room for "concessions". Persuasion and dissuasion have become the mainstream of public opinion, and people have long lost that patience with love. Life has become better, and today's young people will not easily grievance themselves for material conditions and practical difficulties, and love will retreat to the secondary position of life.

I don't mean to emphasize that "in the past, the carriages and horses were very slow, the letters were far away, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime", after all, there is no point in adding filters to the old times. But what exactly are we willing to give for love? How much to pay? Or do you not want to give at all and just want to get? Just be alone?

Before you think about these questions, don't fall in love.

Senior Editor of this issue Xing Tan

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