Last Friday, there was an intern incident of China Securities Construction Investment rushed to the first place in the hot search, and I looked at the evaluation of mainstream public opinion, saying that he was born in Rome and rectified the financial circle with his own efforts, but left a bunch of financial cattle and horses to bear all the consequences silently.
From the mainstream public opinion, we can feel the tear between the Romans and the cattle and horses in society. If we further think about how cattle and horses are solidified in the position of cattle and horses, and when we think about class solidification and mobility barriers, we will find that the underlying root of this is that they have been kidnapped by the so-called correct set of social standards and social rules since childhood.
With this set of rules, your actions will be tightly bound by this set of rules, and from the level of thought, you will not be able to break the mobility barrier, but will be solidified in the deterministic path set for you by others. Then at each key node of the path, you are manipulated by each opponent and become the blood bag of each opponent, which is the definitive result.
Being treated as a bull and horse is not about how powerful the opponent is, but because of the set of paths and rules that seem to be correct but limit your behavior that you have been instilled since childhood.
This is somewhat abstract, but let's take an example.
For example, there was a hot topic last week, about a female doctor at the National People's Congress, who reported that her supervisor forcibly molested and asked for sex.
This time it was exposed, it must be just the tip of the iceberg, as Warren Buffett said, when you find a cockroach in the kitchen, it means that there are many cockroaches. Therefore, there are definitely not a few female doctors who have been unspoken by this doctoral supervisor.
And the reason why this doctoral supervisor dared to commit such blatant forcible obscenity was because he grasped the path node of whether these doctoral students could graduate successfully.
He has a legal right to harm.
If we think further from the perspective of these doctoral students, the node of doctoral graduation will not be the end. Because after graduating from the doctorate, whether you go to the system or outside the system, there will be a path of career promotion, so at each promotion node, at the performance node, it is difficult to ensure that you will not be coerced or bullied by others.
For example, last week, the secretary of a county party committee in Jiangxi was reported to have sexually assaulted a female subordinate, which should be just the tip of the iceberg. Although sexual assault is easy to report, it is difficult to report more cattle and horses who are bullied and exploited in other ways.
Every cow and horse, since he was a student, sacrificed his play time and spent all his time brushing questions without resting, because he wanted to get a good university and a good major.
After being admitted to a good university, if you want to study for a master's degree and graduate successfully, you have to be used and manipulated by your supervisor as a free labor force.
finally entered the workplace after graduation, and had to work hard in the 996 style under the assessment of promotion and the last elimination system.
A five-good young man who sacrificed entertainment since he was a child, but he has endless hardships on the whole road of life. The root of this is that it has been instilled with such a definitive path of fighting monsters from primary school to the workplace. When you enter the path of certainty, you will inevitably be seized by the opponent at each node to grasp the certainty and calculate and exploit it.
It is the so-called suffering in the bitter and serving the master.
But these sufferings are completely constrained by your erroneous concepts, and if you don't break this kind of restraint in your mind, you won't be able to get out.
So, how do you get out?
For example, as an example of the female doctor who was hot last week, from her perspective, what can we do?
I've made a successful report, so what's next? Most people may think that they can finally change their mentor and graduate successfully, and then find a good job to continue their struggle. If you think so, then you are being caught up in the fixed thinking and continue the road of cattle and horses.
To get out of the constraints of cattle and horses and jump out of this mindset, we can do a layer by layer disassembly:
On the first level, since there is already such a splash of traffic because of this report, should I find a way to catch this wave of traffic?
For example, using female molestation cases as the starting point, find some cases to share in videos to encourage women to protect their rights and interests. Started the road of self-media as a standard-bearer of female victims.
You must know that this wave of sky-high traffic is something that 99% of self-media bloggers can't get for five or ten years of hard work.
This is the battle point, as long as you grasp this battle point, your earning power is ten times and a hundred times that of the traditional path.
Giving up this wave of traffic to continue the road to doctoral graduation is tantamount to asking for a meal with a golden job. Moreover, engaging in self-media does not mean giving up doctoral graduation, of course, we can both want and want.
So some people may ask, the doctor is so busy, how can he have time to do self-media?
This is not seeing the essence of the problem, and the Ph.D. is busy to a large extent because the doctoral supervisor treats you as free labor. It's because he can decide whether you can graduate or not.
If you don't have a counterattack weapon, you will naturally be manipulated at will, and you will naturally have to work hard to satisfy your mentor.
But since you are already a blogger who has taken on the sky-high traffic, it is equivalent to having a nuclear weapon in your hand. Nuclear weapons can be dispensed with, but others cannot be treated as non-existent.
Therefore, you can continue your studies within the normal 8 hours a day, and then the self-media can be promoted by working overtime outside the 8 hours. In the case that you have nuclear weapons, presumably the other side will not treat you as free labor, and you have no spare time.
When you think about this, it can be regarded as the first step out of the circle of bulls and horses. But that's not the end of the thinking, let's break down the second layer.
The second layer, since the report has gained a lot of traffic, and can be used to improve the efficiency of making money several times. So if I hadn't encountered this kind of thing, could I have created a similar incident to get the traffic of the sky?
For example, can I deliberately approach some people in higher positions, as long as they have this intention and I have evidence. I could have created a similar incident.
It's a bit thick and dark when it comes to this...
Although it is not uncommon for self-media to falsify, such as this year's winter vacation homework incident, such as the fake screenshot of the mortgage of the CICC woman jumping off the building mentioned in our previous article (stolen from a blogger's own mortgage sticker). But if you want to step on the other party to obtain benefits, you do need evidence.
It depends on whether the other party is a righteous gentleman who sits still in his arms when you take the initiative to approach.
But when I say this, I'm not teaching you to cheat. Rather, it is to lead to the third layer that we are going to talk about.
Third, if I am in a position of authority and a woman comes to me on my own initiative, will I be aware of the danger and protect myself?
After all, the forest is big, and everyone has it.
Don't allow yourself to be a stepping stone for someone else's ascent.
If you see the incident reported by the National People's Congress and can think of the three-layer dismantling I am talking about here, then when you encounter similar incidents in the future, you will never suffer and tolerate it in every possible way, but find a way to get evidence and then think about how to write a good essay to get the traffic that splashes the sky.
If I were to take the initiative to create an incident, I might still have a troubled conscience; But if the other party takes the initiative to bully me, don't blame me for using you as a stepping stone.
What I said above is that when you encounter opportunities and battle points, you can jump out of the traditional cattle and horse path and obtain higher earning efficiency.
So, what if I don't get the opportunity and the battle point all the time?
Then you don't have to be a cow or a horse in the traditional way, there are many people who say that I don't have money so I can't help it. But in fact, the problem for most people is not that they have no money, but that they are held hostage by obsessions and social rules.
As we have said in our previous articles, for cattle and horses, their labor output can be stimulated from both external and internal levels, which can be summarized as:
Legalism locks the throat, Confucianism pinchs the ribs!
One is mandatory, external pressure, which we call the Legalist throat lock. For example, buying a house in Beijing and Shanghai and having children require a huge amount of labor expenses, which makes them have to work overtime to maintain labor output.
And the other is the internal, spiritual PUA, which we call Confucian pinching. For example, all kinds of chicken soup texts.
This kind of chicken soup is to use cows and horses to motivate cows and horses, and you believe that behind the chicken soup, it is to send blood packets to the Romans, because relying on 996 cannot achieve your class jump, but can only create a steady stream of profits for the Romans. Your leap only lies in the grasp of opportunities and battle points.
Confucianism's pinching of ribs can be broken ideologically, and the same is true of Legalism's throat locking.
For example, when buying a house in Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen, many post-90s generations lost their down payment in this cycle, and the fruits of their labor in the years after graduation were harvested.
The root cause of this lies in the fact that when you are locked in the throat by the Legalists, you do not regard your labor income and life experience as the most precious foundation, and then fall into the obsession that others design for you, such as buying a house in a first-tier city and staying, such as being dominated by the fear of "if you don't buy it now, you won't be able to afford it again if it goes up".
So, what is the correct concept? It is that I am the most important, my experience, my labor is the most important. For Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen, the cost of building houses is extremely low, and the expensive housing prices are only because the city entry tax is included. If the entrance tax is small, I will pay it with my labor, and if the entry tax is too much, then I can leave at all.
I came to a city to live happily, not to be a cow or a horse. Speculating on housing prices is not the purpose of the opponent's market, but harvesting your labor through high housing prices is the purpose of the opponent's market.
When your perspective shifts from the real housing price forcing me to work hard as a cow and horse, to my labor and life experience are the most important, to see whether the other party's asking price for selling the house is within my suitable payment range, to decide whether to pay or leave. The Legalist throat lock will be ineffective for you.
After these hundreds of years of development, the lower limit of human productivity is very high, and no one will starve to death. As long as you don't fall into the obsession and trap of the opponent's board design, you don't need to be a cow or a horse, and you can live a very nourishing life.
When everything you do is based on your own self, you will not be afraid of being forced to empty, you will not take over, and you will not be harvested.
Postscript:
Most people will go on the traditional path, but I would say that the traditional path is a deterministic path that maintains a lower bound rather than an upper limit. Since it is not a ceiling, there is no need to be a cow and a horse, make yourself so hard, and you don't have to fight for your life for some low-ceiling goals, but you can appropriately turn your attention to opportunities and sites in the market. It's up to you to be aware of it and grasp it.
For example, whether a big girl can realize this wave of traffic may be an excellent battle point that can only be encountered once in a lifetime.
This may depend on each person's perception and understanding of the path of life's struggle.