In the relationship between the opposite sex, how to maintain friendship and stability, without crossing the red line between men and women, has always been a headache for young people.
Some men and women feel that they have a good relationship with each other, they can talk in generalities, share each other's affairs, understand each other, and the two of them are very close because of this.
But sometimes, even if men and women are close, they can't always say something casually, and they must pay attention to the timing and attitude, otherwise it is easy to cross that line.
Will you stay with me all the time?
In this world, only family members and lovers can accompany us until we grow old, and everyone else can only be with us temporarily. And the one who can grow old hand in hand with us should be our other half.
Therefore, when getting along with friends of the opposite sex, we can't easily say the kind of words that make the other party and you forever, such words are a bit inappropriate, easy to misunderstand the other party, and not suitable for communication between friends.
If you say it directly, it will make the other person very uncomfortable and it will easily damage our relationship, so it is best not to say such things easily in order to be able to get along amicably.
It's good to have you by my side
It's best not to say "it's nice to have you by my side" between people of the opposite sex, this sentence sounds a bit ambiguous and easy to misunderstand.
Being with friends of the opposite sex can easily lead to rumors, others will misunderstand your relationship, and it will also make the other person mistakenly think that you are interested in them.
Therefore, we should always remind ourselves in our daily life that we are clear that relationships are just friends, pay attention to the proportions of words and deeds, and always be vigilant to ourselves.
It's good to be your girlfriend
Sometimes we always envy other people's boyfriends, thinking that all the good men have been snatched away by others, and we can't find a good one, and we always feel frustrated.
So when you get along with a good friend of the opposite sex, you may joke and say, "I'm so happy to be with you", but in fact it's just a joke, but others may misinterpret it as implying something.
When getting along with the opposite sex, we should pay attention to our words and deeds, the other party may think too much in their hearts, so it is best not to say some things to avoid misunderstanding.
Can you come in a bad mood
Many people feel that there is no truly pure friendship between the opposite sex, but as long as you pay attention to proportion, do not foul the rules, and control your words and deeds, you can still have pure friendship.
When we are in a bad mood, it is best not to talk to friends of the opposite sex, solve it by ourselves if we can solve it ourselves, and don't give ourselves the opportunity to be alone with friends of the opposite sex.
It's best not to say the phrase "I'm in a bad mood, can you come", because after a long time, you will develop such a habit, and there will inevitably be some friction and contradictions when two people are alone, and the friendship will not be as pleasant as before.