After the official announcement of her pregnancy, Jin Jing directly became a hot search physique.
In the past two days, Jin Jing has been frequently searched, one black and one red, and he was scolded and praised.
The black hot search is that when she took a selfie of her 7-month pregnant belly, the copywriter used the word "little pregnant woman".
Calling herself a "little pregnant woman", many netizens think that it is a woman's self-dwarfing action.
Because of this "small" word, people will associate with the pregnancy of young and lovely girls, not only in infantilizing women, but also in the sense of male condensation.
In addition, on some social platforms, there are some beautifully dressed pregnant mother bloggers (at least those who look pregnant in the video) who shoot the kind of videos that play the side ball, and also use the title of "little pregnant woman".
Therefore, this word has become a thunder point in Internet slang.
The controversy fermented unexpectedly, Jin Jing apologized in the comment area, and also deleted the original copy.
Maybe it's because I don't want to make too much trouble, so I used some current buzzwords, saying that the little pregnant woman is a popular title, and I'm just playing the stalk of "xxx little sister".
Some netizens said that they could not accept the apology, thinking that playing abstract is not a shield, and serious questions should not be entertained.
Some netizens also said that they didn't understand why this had to be judged, and whether the reaction was too stressful.
Which side is more correct, if you want to discuss, leave a message in the comment area, I don't participate in this kind of sharper discussion if I have an irregular heartbeat.
In comparison, I would like to talk about another hot search: #金靖不办婚礼的原因#
In the interview, she said,
"Those who bear the title of "relative" are not very kind, especially after she became a star.
So I don't want these people who don't really bless me to come to my wedding.
Those things have left a lot of imprints on my heart, including the fact that many people now ask me how to live in Beijing as a Shanghainese, because Shanghai is not so fond of me. ”
This speech really pokes at the contemporary marriageable group!
Since graduating, I've attended seven or eight of my friends' weddings and been the best man twice.
As far as my personal experience is concerned, most of them are formalism.
Unless the newcomer plans the layout by himself, or spends a lot of money to do personalized customization,
Most of the wedding companies produce the same on-site layout, similar process, and even the host's manuscript is the same as copying and pasting.
Especially during the peak period of marriage such as May Day and National Day, the wedding in the circle of friends is like an assembly line.
I have asked more than two couples how they feel about the wedding, and their answers are the same: tired, and it is very expensive.
The holiday for workers is incomparably expensive, and many people take the time to get married after work.
Many people will choose to find a wedding company and spend money to save money. It's a lot of worry, but there's still a lot to worry about.
Determine the shape of the wedding dress; Leasing a team to welcome relatives to purchase decorative items and candy; Choosing a wedding venue may not always be available; Choose the menu, drinks and drinks of the banquet within your budget...... There are a lot of details that need to be controlled in each link.
If the newcomer is not from the same place, you have to worry about whether to do it once on both sides or put it in the same place together. Coordinate and arrange relatives and friends all over the country, how to come, where to live, and how to go back.
It's not just about money, it's about people.
This is where I am most tired.
When it comes to weddings, not everyone you like, and some relatives can really greatly affect your wedding experience.
Either pick and choose, or sour words, or get married without scale.
Not to mention some of the bad habits of traditional weddings.
Don't believe it, there are many people who are unhappy when they get married.
At his wedding, he was the one who spent the money, he was the one who suffered, and he even had to be wronged, just for the sake of the scenery and decency on the scene.
I think many people have dreamed of traveling to get married, but when I got there, I found that
The dominance of the wedding lies with the elders, and the new ideas can't beat the old traditions, and they can't beat their parents.
So what Jin Jing said really resonated deeply with many young people, and they also envied her for having such courage and an enlightened family.
I can feel that everyone is now paying attention to "their own feelings".
It is true that tradition is difficult to break all at once, but there are also people who have succeeded in carving a gap.
up master @康呦 He shared his "three no weddings".
The so-called three nos are, no wedding, no luxury fleet, no kissing and blocking the door.
Friends took pictures with them, rented a spacious business car to pick up relatives, and agreed to pick up the bride at an auspicious time.
Cumbersome and less practical links can be saved. Put the big head of the wedding in the banquet, and focus on one for everyone to eat and drink well.
There was no sensational emcee, no embarrassing performance, and the whole wedding atmosphere seemed much more cheerful.
Your own feelings must come first, and then consider the participation of family members and the experience of relatives and friends.
It may not be realistic to get married on a simple trip, so @yubaobaoyu chose the "destination wedding" that is very popular on Xiaohongshu.
The couple did not choose a hotel or venue, they flew to Xinjiang and held their wedding with the beautiful scenery of mountains, seas and rivers as the background.
Only the parents of both parties attended the wedding, and there was also a follow-up film, which recorded the whole ceremony of their exchange of rings and vows.
After returning home, a thank-you banquet will be held, and the video of the travel wedding will be played throughout for relatives and friends to watch.
Weddings should be a happy choice, not a heavy burden.
For the new wedding model, we might as well keep an open mind:
It is necessary to have a sense of ritual without losing freedom.
Love is, and so does marriage.
Then, the first step into marriage, of course, is also.