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Is there a pure friendship between men and women?
Perhaps, when you "love someone but can't", you can only become a so-called friend.
You have a good relationship, one step closer than friends, one step farther away than lovers, but it seems to be closer than a lover's relationship. Your relationship is like "best friends".
There is a hot search about Hu Bing Qu Ying on Weibo: The lovers above AUO are not full.
What do you mean? More intimate than friends, friends, bosom friends, and the closest friends of the other party; But they are not lovers after all. What's even more interesting is that both of them are still single. It's very emotional, so compatible, it's still a little worse in terms of falling in love, it's a pity.
Regarding the relationship with Qu Ying, Hu Bingyou posted a Weibo:
"Qu Ying, my family." Yingzi is a unique existence to me, we have so many days that we can't describe in words, laughing, crying, struggling and low moments together, walking with each other together. We already know each other very well, but she is still the hearty, optimistic, sunny girl, who has always given me encouragement and support behind me, and she is there whenever I look back.
Not a lover, but family.
This is perhaps the purest friendship between a man and a woman.
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Did Hu Bing like Qu Ying?
If you go to Hu Bing's Weibo and search for the word "Qu Ying", you will find that many Weibo related to Qu Ying pop up, and the interaction between the two of them has been since 2010. Personally, I think Hu Bing really liked Qu Ying, but it's a pity that he liked it and missed it, and then he could only become friends, which is also a better ending.
I remember that in 2018, there was an episode of "Everyday Upward" that invited Hu Bing and Qu Ying.
That year, Hu Bing and Qu Ying were both 47 years old.
At 47 years old, they are not young anymore, but the two of them still look the same as they were back then, and they are very right.
Some people say that it would be nice if the two of them were a couple, but if they were a couple, are they already a few children, but unfortunately they have never really been together, but they have always been each other's best friends.
Qu Ying talked about her relationship with Hu Bing in the show, she said that Hu Bing is a very careful and gentle person, as long as Hu Bing is there, she is the girl who can let go freely. Every year on his birthday, Hu Bing will make a video, which is very warm. Qu Ying also said that Hu Bing can let him beat and scold, in a word, he is a male girlfriend with a very good relationship, if Qu Ying is wronged, Hu Bing will definitely give her a shoulder to comfort her.
The two of them also joked in private, if the two of them are too young or single, they can simply have a child together. But in the final analysis, the two are still destined. It's been 50 and we haven't been together yet, how can we be together in the future?
In fact, I can understand why the two of them are not together? If they fall in love or get married, their relationship will definitely not be as good as it is now, Qu Ying is also a more free and casual woman, she doesn't like to be bound by marriage, she can get married early, she can give birth early, and now at this age, in her 50s, she has looked down on all this.
Falling in love and marriage is really troublesome, and sometimes it's better to be friends.
Because once you become lovers or husband and wife, there are related interests between you, and quarrels are inevitable.
Hu Bing admitted frankly in the show that he liked Qu Ying, and every time he wanted to tell her "I like you", but he was too familiar and couldn't say it, and when he wanted to say it, Qu Ying already had someone around him, and he was very good, so he could only hide his love in his heart and tell himself that it would be good to be with him.
Regarding love, once you lack courage, you will miss it, most likely for a lifetime.
Hu Bing and Qu Ying both debuted as models.
In 1994, the company pushed Hu Bing to enter the film and television music scene, and also helped him release an album, but it was not very ideal. It wasn't until 1999 that Hu Bing and Qu Ying collaborated on the TV series "True Confession" that they became famous. Later, Hu Bing starred in "Pink Girl" again, and once became the prince charming in the minds of many girls.
Among the talents in the entertainment industry, Hu Bing knew that it was difficult for him to achieve any great achievements, and he returned to the modeling circle.
As for Qu Ying, the development has been quite smooth. She served as the heroine of the movie "Don't Ask Me Where I'm From" in 1991, and also became the heroine of Zhang Yimou's "Something to Say" in 1996, and also became the first Chinese female star to appear on the cover of the international magazine "Vogue".
When a woman's career is particularly good, men who really like her will not dare to pursue her, for fear that they will delay her. Once a woman gets married and has children, it is difficult to have any great achievements in this career, especially in the modeling circle, which is why Qu Ying is still single.
They're the "couple partners" of modeling, and they'll take pictures that look like couples, and that's it.
Is there a pure friendship between men and women?
Looking at the relationship between Qu Ying and Hu Bing, it is also a kind of happiness to be friends and accompany each other for a lifetime.
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Do you have to be together if you like it? If he just doesn't feel for you, you can't force it.
When you were young, you may have had a heart-warming feeling, but if you miss that particular stage, you don't want to be in love anymore. There is no way to be lovers, but you can still be friends, depending on what kind of attitude you have towards each other. There are really people like them in the entertainment industry, like the relationship between Zhou Xun and Chen Kun, as well as the relationship between He Jiong and Xie Na. He Jiong and Xie Na have a good relationship enough to stay at her house, and then Zhang Jie never cares.
If you are too familiar with each other, it is impossible to develop into lovers, and you will hug very closely, but it is impossible to "go off the rails".
I envy this kind of friendship that is better than family.
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Today's topic: Do you think there is a pure friendship between men and women?
Author: YIBAO, the original creator of emotions, millions of emotional bloggers, marriage and family counselors, practice writing the warm feelings of this world.