preface
"Let such a young girl take care of her brother who is two and a half years older than herself? Who are these people? ”
"I don't know what her father does to eat, is this family really so poor?"
It is said that when happiness comes, it will knock on the door first to see if the people inside want to take it.
And this little girl who has followed her grandparents since she was born and began to learn to dress, fold quilts, and take care of her brother at the age of one is probably the one who connects "happiness" the most.
When the "stepmother" came to see her, although the girl was covered with lice and looked sad.
But the eyes that were obviously eager for mother's love but a little strong still touched the heart of the "stepmother" at once, and finally succeeded in letting the "mother" take her away together.
Now looking at the state of the two, many netizens can't help but sigh:
"Mother and daughter look alike, fate."
And the stepmother said: "If my own mother comes to her, I will bless her too!" ”
But let's just say, looking at the girl's smile now, is it possible for her to go with her own mother?
It's not easy, but she's the hardest
At an unstable age when they are still walking, they have begun to help work as much as they can, which is probably the true state of many children who grew up in rural areas.
It's just that under normal circumstances, the mentality of parents is to simply exercise their children, but when it comes to the girl, she still has a "responsibility" on her back, that is, to take care of her brother.
To be honest, I really feel a little "afraid" at this moment, and I don't dare to think that if this girl really grows up under such a concept, then how much she has to pay for her "brother", she may not be able to escape for the rest of her life, and become a standard "brother demon".
It is said that the girl's father went out to work for a long time for the sake of the family's livelihood, and the girl grew up slowly in an environment where "starvation does not die but becomes heavier and heavier".
Most of the time, he was wearing his brother's old clothes, holding the table with one hand and chopsticks in the other, and a large bowl of noodles could be eaten cleanly without being coaxed.
If you don't look at her eyes, this fat face is indeed quite cute.
But more often than not, the girl's body was dirty, her skin was tanned by the sun, and her little fingers were short, but they looked very rough.
Who would have thought that after she followed her stepmother, her life would get better and better?
At that time, Ms. Weng and the girl's father were already married, and although they had known that the other party had a pair of children in their hometown, it was the first time they visited their hometown.
Maybe before she came, she was still very apprehensive in her heart, but when she saw the girl's eager and timid eyes, she was suddenly touched as a woman and a girl's stepmother.
"A child's childhood should be happy, and I want her to feel it too."
Now his face is full of smiles
When I first received it, I could see that after suddenly leaving the familiar environment, even though she was wearing exquisite Hanfu, the girl's dark face and cowering demeanor made people understand her uneasiness and awkwardness.
But Ms. Weng has always been very patient, not only carefully accompanying the girl, taking care of her cleanly, but also directly spending money to enroll the child in many specialty classes including dancing, violin, calligraphy and painting.
I have to say that looking at the girl's previous living conditions at her grandparents' house, I thought that this family was very poor, so she "squeezed" a young girl like this.
But now that the girl is taken by her stepmother, it seems that even if she enrolls in various cram schools, she has no pressure on this home, and the decoration of the home is very comfortable and spacious.
How did you let the girl live like that before?
In addition, Ms. Weng not only gave the girl material, but also gave her the mother's love and companionship that she needed most.
Just like many mothers who love to take videos to record their children's growth, in the video of the stepmother Ms. Weng, many netizens said that they were moved by the changes in the girl's before and after.
Her skin began to turn white little by little, and her demeanor changed from ignorance and anger at the beginning to innocence, curiosity and happiness.
Now she can read bedtime fairy tales with her mother at night, and she can dance happily with her sister.
Even if her sister doesn't dance well, "Mom" always has an encouraging smile, and at this moment, the girl's heart is probably filled with happiness.
It is said that "once the soul is loved, flesh and blood will grow wildly", this sentence is really embodied in the girl.
Look at the way she looks when she wears Hanfu now, she is a confident girl, and her original face is full of gloom, which is like two people.
The stepmother, Ms. Weng, said that the girl is now very close to her, and the two get along better than their biological mother and daughter.
But even so, she didn't mean to deliberately tie up the girl, according to her, if the girl's biological mother came to her one day "with love", she would let it go generously.
Because of her original intention, she just wanted this child to have a happy childhood that should have belonged to her.
At the beginning, the editor also felt that Ms. Weng had done her part, even if the girl's mother came to her, it was "clear at a glance" how to choose, which was really worrying.
But some netizens said: "I have experienced several examples around me, and the summary is that as long as my mother is still alive, I can't be familiar with it." ”
There are also netizens who have no choice but to be a "stepmother" to prove in person: "My current daughter has never received maternal love since she was a child, and she was fostered at her grandparents' house. ”
"But after I married the girl's father, I raised the girl for more than 20 years and gave her all the love, but now that I have grown up, my mother took it away with a phone call."
If this is the reality, it may prove that Ms. Weng's mentality is still very positive, and she was ready from the beginning that this daughter she brought back by chance may leave.
But even so, she still gave the child the best maternal love and gave her a happy childhood, this mother is really quite great.
epilogue
As you can see from girls, plenty of love can indeed make people better.
It is said that it is difficult to be a stepmother, but Ms. Weng used her real maternal love to make the girl feel happy, and also let countless netizens see the truth.
I believe that by Ms. Weng's side, girls who grow up confidently will slowly forget the "unpleasantness" before the age of 6.
I also hope that when she grows up, the girl can remember that it was Ms. Weng who knocked on the door of her new world with love that was thicker than blood, and brought her happiness.
Although Ms. Weng does not ask for anything in return, she is as big as she is born and nurtured, and hopes that the girl will grow up to be a good child who is filial.
Do you think there is a big difference between the girls before and after?
Source: The original article is based on the information released by Chongqing Focus on "6-year-old girl sentenced to two people after meeting her stepmother".
The original article is based on the views of netizens related to Weibo hot searches.