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Family relationships are always complicated, since it is a family relationship, it may be too late to thank and celebrate some birthdays, and it may not be enough to be surprised by some unattainable good fate, but it may also be too late to prevent it to become a dispute, burying a deep resentment.
Nowadays, there are some family members in society who have extraordinary relationships, and the members of a family should have a harmonious relationship, but some families have attracted some criticism because of this.
An adult, when his father is around, actually let his elderly mother feed him, and some people even have a child on the first day of marriage, but this child is related to their grandparents.
There are even people who start a new life and feel happy with the support of their fathers, only to find that their wives and their mothers have an angry past.
How can these phenomena occur?
Whose moral values are to blame?
Outrageous intimacy.
Of course, not all intimacy between family members is wrong, on the contrary, kinship is the greatest and most respectable one.
After all, it was a day on September 9, and some of the old lady's crying resounded throughout the county, it turned out that the eighth year of the old man's death on this day, when the old lady passed away, the old lady was already over half a hundred years old, it was the life of his parents, and he was not married at that time, so there was nothing to comfort the two children.
However, this woman began to wait for a long time, waiting for this man to go far away, and when she couldn't eat or sleep, she would also listen to Liang Zhu's famous tragedy to cultivate her sentiments.
Time passed minute by minute, and she finally, in the sixth year of the time she had been waiting, began her marriage to a man in this village, and she had a daughter who was not so young.
However, since then, she has also become a mother-in-law, and even had to sell her daughter to a family that a large family can't marry, but the family is not picky about the person who takes her relatives.
Therefore, she thinks that her daughter can have enough food in this home, and even in winter, she can have a warm place to live.
It was his daughter who could spend her life safely, so she agreed to this marriage.
However, her choice of this family business left her with a lifetime of regrets, and there was still a person in this village who had guarded her all her life.
Therefore, when today's men, women and children are thinking that they can make wishes with people who can live with them for the rest of their lives, she endured the tears in her eyes, looked up at the sky and said, "If you can give me one more minute, I can say to him that I love you."
It's so hard for me to want to live without him, and at the same time, I miss you so much. ”
The old lady's words also made her son-in-law a little jealous, and she also broke with the old lady's daughter, who was already at odds.
But it was at this time that the old lady, a life-centered person, was appreciated by the master, but the old lady waited for her most persistent sentence, which was the master's "I love you" to herself.
But these are just intimate relationships that we can all understand, but some families have relationships that are not so well understood by the general public.
For example, there are families where middle-aged and elderly women do not choose to marry after the death of their husbands, but decide to marry their son-in-law, and have three daughters with him.
Or there are times when there are some special relationships between the two generations, such as the Wu brothers and sisters, Wu Qilong and Zhang Ziyan, their brothers probably can't be together in this life, after all, they are already brothers and sisters, so they can't get married.
But Zhang Ziyan said stupidly: "I don't marry, and you are not allowed to marry other girls, I like you."
But Wu Qilong said: "I won't marry you, have you forgotten, I have a girlfriend, you are my sister."
But Zhang Ziyan later died in a car accident.
There are also people who have had personal affairs with their brother-in-law.
This is also puzzling to us now, but they do have some such things.
Where are the family ties?
However, the earliest origin of this incident appeared in Japan, when the Japan Restoration Movement was on the eve of take-off, and Japan was in a state of retreat, during which the Japanese bureaucracy also had a better understanding of China's science and technology, so it wanted to go to the world and go to a broader road.
However, there was a man named Kinoshita Toyoshiro who made Japan's reform movement futile, and Japan's policy of opening up to the outside world reached a dead end.
Of course, the power of women in the Chinese dynasty was still relatively low at that time, so women were relatively small in that era, and Kinoshita Toyoshiro learned fraud techniques in China at this time.
And after returning to Japan with these techniques, he taught these apprentices, among them there was an apprentice named Kinoshita Toyoshiro, after he taught, after two years of practice, he gained the approval of the master Aven, and then let this man called Kinoshita Fujimura start pretending to be a rule activist called Kinoshita Fujiro.
And Kinoshita Fujimura is still greedy for his own interests, and even when the atmosphere of the feast is unprecedented, some people see him drinking too much, and then they still greet his mother, that is, with the awe-inspiring harem women.
Even at the time of marriage, some people saw the same disproportionate action at this ceremony as at the feast, and it was this son-in-law who shouted at his mother-in-law and asked for warmth.
There was even a public touch of the bride's breasts, and some people saw it at the time, but no one expressed their opinions, as if this was the true face of the family.
Later, some people saw an even more excessive scene, that is, this man sat together and greeted his mother, while his mother was holding his head and feeding himself.
At that time, there were still several maids of this man who saw such a scene, but they just didn't have the courage to speak at all, and even this man's wife didn't speak, just went back with red eyes.
But it was seen by this man's master, so he asked Kinoshita Fujimura to stand up and clarify the matter.
As a result, some people also stood up and said to the people: "Look at how this rule activist treats his mother, and he must be able to show respect for his mother, otherwise he will not be a real rule activist."
But the man said, "My mother and I are in the same week, and my wife is in the same week, and your wife doesn't see me coaxing her, but how do you ask me to coax my mother?"
epilogue
The intimacy between family members can be understood, but it cannot be turned into a love relationship between two generations, which violates the moral bottom line of society.