The girl found a boyfriend, the conditions are very good, but the boyfriend concealed the fact that he had diabetes, and the girl found that her boyfriend's family members all have diabetes, which should be family hereditary diabetes, and now the girl is very entangled, should she break up with her boyfriend?
The girl's own conditions are average, her appearance is mediocre, her work is average, she is a private company, and her salary is more than 3,000. There are two sisters and brothers in the family, my father has a pension, my mother does not, and she usually doesn't need to pay much for the family, but obviously, because of her younger brother, it is impossible for the family to give her a penny, mainly because there is no money for her.
The conditions of the boyfriend's family are much better than that of the girl, the only child, the house and the car, and the parents have pensions. My boyfriend's own job is also good, with a salary of more than 10,000 yuan.
When she was just with her boyfriend, the girl found that her boyfriend needed to take medicine every day, she asked him what medicine he was taking, and her boyfriend said that it was vitamins, and the girl didn't think much about it.
After being together for a while, the two had a stable relationship and began to live together, and the girl found out that her boyfriend was taking medicine for diabetes.
The girl asked her boyfriend why she lied to her that she was eating vitamins, and the boyfriend said that he had been with his ex-girlfriend for several years, and they broke up because of the diagnosis, and he was worried that the girl would also leave him because of this disease, so he didn't dare to tell her, and wanted to wait for their relationship to be stable.
The girl didn't say anything at the time, and the matter was over. But later the girl learned that her boyfriend's family had diabetes, her boyfriend was diagnosed at the age of 26, her boyfriend's father was diagnosed in his 40s, her cousin was also diagnosed in her 20s, and her boyfriend's uncle and aunt were all diagnosed.
The girl felt that this matter was a bit serious at this time, the family was diagnosed with diabetes, and it was diagnosed at a very young age, her boyfriend and his cousin were diagnosed in their 20s, could it be that her boyfriend's family has hereditary diabetes?
The girl was a little worried and considered whether to break up with her boyfriend, but when she thought of breaking up, the girl was very entangled, and with her conditions, it would be difficult to find a boyfriend with such good conditions.
The girl herself was very hesitant and couldn't make up her mind, so she posted to netizens for help. Many netizens gave their opinions in the comment area:
Someone said, "You can accept that your child has diabetes too." How good can it be if the conditions are good? What if diabetes is severe and affects life? Although taking medicine in daily life can be controlled, but he is too early to develop the disease, you know more about diabetes, and you can bear all kinds of possibilities to get married again. ”
Someone said: "First of all, lying is a big thunder, even diabetes has to lie, indicating that the ex-girlfriend may not have broken up with him because of diabetes; Secondly, since you think that you can't find such a good breakup, then guess why the other party is looking for you? ”
Someone said, "Don't divide it, but never have children." ”
Someone said: "This kind of kidney failure may end up on dialysis, the child is still inherited, the husband is short-lived, the child is not healthy, and the family conditions may not be inherited, so they will all be spent." ”
Someone said: "If you want to have a child, you must first find a healthy man, and it is the duty to prepare for motherhood to pick a good gene for the child." Other conditions are in the back row. ”
The opinion of most netizens is to persuade girls to break up, if you really don't want to break up, then don't have children, because the first thing to consider when giving birth to a child is the health of the child.
In my opinion, the netizens' considerations are right, compared to the health of the body, especially the health of the child, other aspects are not so important, the situation of the girl's boyfriend's house is indeed worrying, the hidden danger in the future is too great, it is not worth taking the risk with the child.
I think that since girls have average conditions in all aspects, they should not have such a high vision, and choose a family with not so good conditions, but they are diligent and down-to-earth, and two people work together to create their own lives, isn't it?