In today's society, many people think that raising children is too much effort, too much responsibility, and too little reward.
In fact, although parents are tired of raising their children, they can also feel different happiness and experience in the process of being tired.
When children grow up, they will take care of their parents and love them as they loved them when they were children. This preference cannot be measured in money.
Recently, with Longjiang Yichun, a daughter's father stuffed money, and the father was moved to tears. Netizens said that this is the meaning of raising children.
In the picture, the daughter came back from out of town to visit her father, and when she was about to go out, the daughter stuffed money into her father, and the father kept refusing.
It's not easy to think about his daughter, the father resolutely refuses to ask for it, and the daughter resolutely wants it. The father was moved to tears by his daughter's actions.
The daughter said that her father had never read a word, and in that era, there were many children in their family, and her father was not very good-looking, and he would not please his parents, so he was never taken seriously at home and could not feel the love of his family.
When he reached the age of studying, his family did not send him to study. He's just blind.
Later, she married my mother and gave birth to me and my brother, but my mother disliked my father and was useless, so she left our family to marry someone else.
For this reason, my father had to bring us up alone. He has always had an inferiority complex. The original family was not valued and loved, and after becoming a family, he was also disgusted by his wife.
Now that we're older, I've taken care of my dad. My father was uneducated and didn't know how to use a mobile phone.
I often gave money to my father because he couldn't read and couldn't collect transfers, and every time I gave it through someone else.
He only uses cash, he is 62 years old this year, and it just so happens that I go home and get cash directly for him, I give him money every year, but I haven't filmed it.
I just want to record more days when my dad comes home in his limited time, and it's not easy for him to pull me up alone.
I've never bought myself a luxury, there's no messy socializing, and I try to take care of my family.
I can endure the hardship, I can bear the tiredness, I can no longer choose my own background, but I can choose to put on the armor and fight for the life I want, and become a towering tree to shelter my family from the wind and rain.
I want to tell my father that his daughter loves him more than anyone else. People all over the world don't love you, but girls are willing to give you all their love.
My father may be poor and afraid, and he is reluctant to spend money, and every time I go home to give money, he is unwilling to ask for it, and he may also feel sorry for me that it is not easy to make money.
For this scene, netizens watched it and expressed envy, and some netizens said that this is the meaning of raising children, not to mention how much money his daughter gave him, he rushed to his daughter's preference, and the value cannot be estimated.
Some netizens said that the daughter is the little padded jacket. Really, it doesn't matter if you're married or not. But the son is different, because there is a daughter-in-law in charge. The daughter-in-law treats her father-in-law and mother-in-law like seeing the enemy, and you dare to give money, and you can be scolded to death by having a meal.
However, some netizens said that as long as children are filial, regardless of gender. Looking at other people's little padded jackets, they can also hold up a piece of heaven for their father.
Author's point of view
This is the meaning of raising children, parents bring them into this world, and when they step on their parents' shoulders and see a different scenery, they will think of their parents who lifted them.
They can not only give emotional value to their parents, but also give back to them. Let parents feel the happiness and joy of raising their children.
It doesn't matter how much money the daughter gives, the important thing is that she has a heart to protect her father. She will favor her father and give herself all her love.