True love for someone is embodied in the daily bits and pieces, love should happen naturally, not pretending to be shown to others, no matter where the eyes of the person who loves each other will only be filled with each other.
Whether a couple is in love with each other or not can be seen from their daily interactions, their contact is very natural and always for each other's sake, which is enviable.
There is such a story, a couple and friends have dinner, the man sees that it is very inconvenient for his wife to have her hair scattered when eating, so he naturally combs her hair, and their loving appearance makes friends envious.
Men and their wives have been married for more than ten years, although there have been times when they disagree, but they will not choose to quarrel to vent their emotions, but from the perspective of resolving contradictions, calmly analyze the causes of contradictions, and have a calm dialogue.
They didn't fight, and they were able to keep their sanity even when the other person did something that made them very angry.
Once when his wife went back to her parents' house, her brother-in-law borrowed money from her to buy a house, which was a big deal, but his wife transferred all the savings of 200,000 yuan to his brother-in-law without consulting him, and he was very angry when he found out about it.
The 200,000 yuan was saved by them after more than ten years of marriage, and they originally planned to sell the house when the child went to middle school, plus the 200,000 yuan to buy a school district house in the city center, so that the child could receive a better education, but she lent the money to her brother-in-law, and the child will graduate from junior high school in one year.
When he got home, he said calmly: Let's talk, why don't you discuss with me and give all the money to your brother? Have you thought about it for your children?
The wife explained: My brother is in a hurry, his girlfriend is five months pregnant, and if he doesn't buy a house, he won't say that he won't get married, so let's do his business first, that's my own brother, I can't just watch it.
His wife looked at him and found that the expression on his face did not ease at all, and continued to explain: I also thought about our son's schooling, he still has a year to study hard, if he studies well, we don't have to change the house, in case he still has such grades, I will let my brother pay back the money, and he can't be an uncle, don't you say?
He asked rhetorically: What if he can't get the money when the time comes? Have you thought about it?
The wife said: I thought about it, I said when I borrowed the money, and when I asked him to pay it back, I had to pay it back, and he agreed.
As long as the children's school is not delayed, it is okay to lend money to the brother-in-law, but he still cares about one thing, so he asks again: Then why don't you discuss it with me? It seems that I have no family status.
The wife said impatiently: My brother's mother-in-law was next to me at that time, and if I couldn't come up with the money, she would leave with my daughter, so I didn't have time to discuss it with you.
After such an explanation, the man's heart was a little more comfortable, but he advised: If there is anything to discuss with me in the future, don't forget that I am the head of the family.
The wife smiled and said: I know, this is not a special situation, next time I have to ask you what you mean.
His wife smiled and took him by the hand to sit on a chair, brought out his favorite braised pork from the kitchen, and the two of them ate happily.
This time the disagreement was resolved in such a relaxed atmosphere, and it would not have an impact on their feelings at all.
The man is an ordinary person, with an ordinary family background and an ordinary job, and the most important thing for him is the relationship between him and his wife, he said to his friends: My wife and I have never quarreled for so many years of marriage, and we have a good relationship.
Friends didn't believe it, thinking that he was just a good face and didn't want to say it, and some friends deliberately said: Don't be embarrassed to say, who can two people not quarrel? I don't believe it, you let us see my sister-in-law to believe it.
These words aroused his desire to win, and he had to show his friends what it means to be a perfect couple.
He told his wife about this, and she didn't want to mess around with him, but he smiled and said, "You should give me face, just have a meal with them, so that they don't always believe me."
In desperation, his wife agreed, in order to fight for his face, she dressed up well that day, wore a black dress, her hair was carefully groomed, and she looked intellectual and elegant when she was draped over her shoulders.
After meeting with friends, my wife buried her head in eating after greeting for a while, and she was not very comfortable with such a meal.
When she lowered her head to pick up vegetables, her hair slipped off the sides, which made it very inconvenient for her, so she smoothed her hair behind her ears with her hand.
The man who was chatting with a friend on the side saw his wife's movements with his peripheral vision, and naturally turned over to comb his wife's hair, so that she could easily bow her head and pick up vegetables.
His wife looked at him embarrassedly and found that his eyes were still looking at his friend, and his hand movements were so skillful, all of which were seen by the friend opposite.
After combing their hair, the two looked at each other and smiled, and his wife approached him affectionately, and there was a natural love between the two.
He put his arm around his wife's shoulder, and she put a piece of meat in his mouth, and he took it, if it weren't for the fact that he had long been accustomed to it in his daily life, this natural interaction between husband and wife would not have been expressed.
Now the friends on the other side finally believed his words, and one of them sighed from the bottom of his heart: The love between your husband and wife makes me envious, and my daughter-in-law and I will never quarrel again after returning home, and it is still good to be harmonious, I want to learn from you.
The man earned enough face in front of his friends, and his mood was better, and he even ate an extra bowl of rice.
Author's point of view: This couple gets along well, does not affect the relationship between husband and wife because of the small things in life, they will solve disagreements in a rational way and avoid quarrels, which is worth learning from many people.
There are very few couples who have never quarreled in real life, and there will always be times when two people are together, but we should also be rational and find ways to resolve conflicts instead of venting dissatisfaction in the way of quarrels.
Quarrels will only hurt feelings, we have to leave a good temper to our lover, after all, the lover is the one who will be with you for a lifetime.