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Love stories in the entertainment industry are always full of drama, but have you ever thought that sometimes a breakup is the best ending? Today we are going to talk about Guli Nazha and Zhang Han, the former golden boy and girl, their love story is not only twists and turns, but also leaves us room for deep thought.
Now, seven years later, Nazha has finally revealed the truth about the breakup that year, and this answer may surprise you. Let's unveil the mystery of this relationship and see how complicated love in the entertainment industry is.
Zhang Han and Zheng Shuang: The reincarnation from sweetness to breakup
Zhang Han and Zheng Shuang, the former on-screen couple, their love story can be said to be the standard for youth idol dramas. The two met and fell in love because of their cooperation in "Let's Watch the Meteor Shower", and became the perfect couple in the hearts of countless audiences for a while. However, love in real life is far more complicated than the script.
Zhang Han, the confident "Brother Gongzi", and Zheng Shuang, the shy "little white flower", seem to be a good match, but in fact, their personalities are very different.
As the so-called "right match" is not empty talk, Zhang Han's generous family background and self-confident personality are in stark contrast to Zheng Shuang's inferiority. This difference accumulates in everyday life and eventually becomes the straw that breaks the camel's back.
"We have very different personalities." Zheng Shuang said in an interview.
Although this sentence is simple, it speaks to the most neglected problem in love. When two people are together, it is not only the appearance of the match, but more importantly, the inner fit. The breakup of Zhang Han and Zheng Shuang seems to confirm the old saying: "It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along."
However, fate always likes to joke. Just when everyone thought that the golden boy and girl would achieve a positive result, the news of the breakup came like a thunderbolt from the blue. What is even more unexpected is that this breakup was not only not as vigorous as everyone expected, but it was extraordinarily bland.
In 2014, Zhang Han and Zheng Shuang successively announced their breakup. Although the reasons given by the two are different, they can both be summed up as "inappropriate". This seemingly perfunctory reason actually speaks to the deepest truth of love: when two people are together, suitability is more important than love.
Nazha: The tragic heroine who innocently bears the infamy of "Little Three".
Just when the breakup turmoil between Zhang Han and Zheng Shuang had not subsided, a new name suddenly broke into the public's sight: Guli Nazha.
Destiny is like a mischievous man who loves to play pranks, always preferring to play jokes on people when they least expect it. Who would have thought that the story of "The Wolf is Coming" would be truly staged on Zhang Han and Nazha?
Five months after Zhang Han and Zheng Shuang broke up, they met Guli Nazha while filming "The Classic of Mountains and Seas". Maybe it was because of the loneliness of being single, or maybe it was Nazha's beauty that moved him, and Zhang Han quickly fell in love. As a person who likes to grasp the moment, Zhang Han did not hesitate to announce this new relationship on social platforms.
However, this moment, which was supposed to be sweet, became the beginning of Naza's nightmare. Because the news of Zhang Han and Zheng Shuang's breakup was not widely recognized, Nazha instantly became the target of public criticism and was infamous as "Little Three".
"I was really innocent and had absolutely no idea what was going on." Nazha recalled in an interview years later.
This kind of situation of innocent people taking the blame is not uncommon in the entertainment industry. But for Naza, who was just emerging at the time, it was undoubtedly a huge blow. She not only has to face abuse from netizens, but also has to endure the indiscriminate bombardment of the media.
In this era of information explosion, the truth is often drowned out in speculation and rumors. Even though Zheng Shuang himself clarified in an interview a month after the breakup that there was no third party involved, this statement was like a stone in the sea and did not attract the attention of many people.
Old love exposed: the unspoken rules of the entertainment industry to make matters worse
Just when Nazha was struggling to deal with the "Little Three" turmoil, fate played a cruel joke on her again. The photos of her and her ex-boyfriend Feng Mingchao were exposed, which undoubtedly added insult to Nazha, who was already at the center of the whirlpool of public opinion.
In the entertainment industry, past romances are like a time bomb that can be detonated at any time. Nazha's experience can't help but remind people of the unwritten unspoken rules in the entertainment industry: newcomers should be "clean", and the past emotional experience is best a blank.
"Have a clear conscience about this relationship." Feng Mingchao said this after the photo was exposed.
This seemingly unintentional sentence plunged Nazha into a deeper whirlpool of public opinion. People began to question her character, and some even speculated whether she was a "splitter". In this era of information explosion, an unintentional remark can cause an uproar.
Just when Nazha was in trouble, Zhang Han stepped forward and publicly reposted Nazha's Weibo, praising her as "cute". This move not only moved Nazha, but also won the favor of many netizens.
However, does this public display of love also imply some kind of helplessness? In the entertainment industry, sometimes maintaining a relationship is more important than managing a relationship.
The truth about the breakup: Nazha's mate selection criteria are revealed
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, the relationship between Zhang Han and Nazha has become a thing of the past. In 2017, Zhang Han's studio issued a statement saying that the two broke up because of "less gathering and more separation". This seemingly old-fashioned reason was once accepted by everyone.
However, the truth is often more complicated than we think.
In the latest episode of "Travel Any Door", Nazha inadvertently revealed her mate selection criteria, which may be the real reason for the breakup that year.
"The other party has to have 'momentum', and we have to keep it fresh between us." Nazha said this on the show.
This seemingly simple criterion speaks to the most difficult part of love. In the high-pressure environment of the entertainment industry, artists are rushing for work every day, how can they have the energy to study how to make themselves more "motivated"?
Does Nazha's standard also reflect the new demands of modern young people for love?
We are no longer satisfied with a bland relationship, but crave a relationship that constantly brings surprises and excitement. This kind of pursuit, in the fast-paced modern society, is particularly precious but difficult to achieve.
Netizens are hotly discussed: The concept of love has different opinions
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet. Some netizens think that Nazha's mate selection standards are too high and difficult to achieve in real life.
"Fresh every day? I can't even cope with work, how can I have the energy to change tricks every day to please my girlfriend?" A netizen with the screen name "Workplace Expert" said.
Some netizens also expressed their understanding of Naza's thoughts, believing that in the complex environment of the entertainment industry, maintaining freshness is indeed an important factor in maintaining relationships.
"I think Nazha is right, especially for celebrities, if they can't stay attractive, they can easily be replaced by other people." A netizen who claimed to be a practitioner in the entertainment industry commented.
Some netizens analyzed Nazha's mate selection criteria from a deeper level, believing that this reflects the new demand for love among modern young people.
"Today's young people are no longer satisfied with ordinary life, we need a partner who can grow and progress together. Naza's standards actually represent the thinking of our generation. A post-90s netizen said.
Of course, some netizens questioned Naza's remarks, thinking that it might just be an excuse for her to be single.
"To put it nicely, it's to be fresh, but in fact, you haven't met true love, right? In the face of true love, who cares about these vanities. A netizen who seems to have a lot of experience commented.
This discussion not only involved the relationship between Nazha and Zhang Han, but also triggered people's deep thinking about the modern concept of love. In this fast-paced society, how exactly should we manage a relationship? Is it to pursue the freshness of excitement, or to cherish the warmth in the ordinary? There doesn't seem to be a standard answer to this question.
Looking back on the emotional entanglement between Zhang Han, Nazha and Zheng Shuang, we can't help but ask: What does true love look like in this fast-paced era?
Love is never a fairy tale, it requires two people to work together, constantly adjust and run in.
The breakup of Zhang Han and Zheng Shuang tells us that the appearance of the match does not guarantee the inner fit. Nazha's pursuit of "momentum" reflects the new expectations of modern people for love: we must not only find a suitable person, but also find a person who can make us continue to improve.
Perhaps, true love is to accept the ordinary side of the other person while maintaining a sense of freshness. It's a mix of passionate moments and watery everyday life. In this process, two people grow together and face the challenges of life together.
So, on the road to pursuing love, should we be like Nazha and stick to our own standards? Or should you learn to compromise and adapt?
This question, perhaps, everyone has their own answer. But no matter what, love is always worth pursuing and cherishing.
Finally, I would like to ask you: what does ideal love look like in your mind? Are you willing to change yourself for the sake of love? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.