Today's topic: I bought a new car worth more than 400,000 yuan, which was a happy thing, but I didn't expect it to attract relatives to call to borrow a car for 3 consecutive weeks. How can we deal with this situation?

Buying a car is a joyful thing, but when relatives call to borrow your new car, do you feel a little helpless? Refuse, for fear of hurting the harmony; Agree, but worry about the damage to your car. I believe that many car owners have a deep understanding of this mood.

For car owners, the car is not only a means of transportation, but also a symbol of their hard work and a member of the family. Therefore, when others propose to borrow a car, there are naturally many concerns in their minds: the safety of the vehicle, maintenance, and even possible accidents, these are the reasons for hesitation.

In Chinese culture, family and kinship occupy an important place. In the face of a relative's request, a direct refusal seems impersonal. At the same time, however, we must recognize that everyone's property and rights should be respected.

If you really can't agree to borrow a car, it's also important how you say no. You can put it mildly, for example, "This car means so much to me that I really don't feel comfortable lending it." Or offer other ways to help, such as helping them rent a car or providing transportation advice.

Let's take a look at what netizens have to say

We had a guy who borrowed a car, and then this guy lent him a friend to drive without a license, and he was killed and the car was scrapped. Then you have to pay for the family's money, and then the insurance company doesn't pay for the car, and the friend who borrowed the car has no money, you sue me.

A friend said that he urgently needed 40,000 yuan to turn around, and he would return it to me the next day. It's been more than half a year, and I've asked for 10,000 yuan a few times. Every party blows that he has a few suites and wants to hammer him to death. So, you can't borrow anything.

At this time, it is necessary for the in-laws to come forward to be evildoers, as a brother-in-law, it is a big face to get forty or fifty thousand, and the house is bought by the in-laws and cannot be sold. The wife has no job and children, and there is no benefit to divorce

Borrowed once, refused, actually hit a wall in a row, borrowed continuously, this is definitely not the need to borrow a car to drive, ten percent is to want to do something bad.

You don't dare to ride the bike hard, others stand up and pedal

I also remembered a sentence: the whole car only has the data cable is its own [shy] [shy]

There are too many idiots who use someone else's car to load X. It's okay to borrow a wedding car, but the driver should be your own.

I can't figure out these marriage borrowers who borrow luxury cars. What's so vain, don't others know how many steel hammers there are at home? When I got married, I used my own BJ40, and my husband's riders formed a BJ40 team! How interesting!

If your colleague really wants to refuse, your relationship is work, and if you leave, you will basically never see each other. My colleague is also my master, who lost money on a loan to speculate in stocks last year, and asked me to borrow money several times. I managed to refuse

Facts have proved that if you have money, don't show off, be low-key, our Tao Te Ching also tells us to be humble and low-key, and our I Ching is signed by a humble hexagram.

I met two uncounted, one of them was a novice, I was afraid that something would happen to him, I didn't want to borrow, I told him a reason, in fact, I understand, it's just a kind of rhetoric, but this guy has to borrow, so I have no choice but to borrow. Before returning the car, I asked me about the average fuel consumption, I didn't figure it out, and then I learned that I wanted to calculate how much fuel should be added to me, for fear that he would suffer if I filled it up. . . I waited until midnight for him to send it back, but he had to send it the next day, and I insisted that he send it back that night, and sent back a thick layer of ash outside, saying that he didn't dare to take the highway and go down. There were cigarette butts all over the place, and there was no force to count. The key is that this kind of person is really invincible, and he will borrow it next time.

Your fault, why did you take him out for a walk? Show off? If you take him as an ordinary Santana with a normal mentality, and don't mention the words luxury car, he probably won't mention driving and stepping on the gas pedal to make you feel it.

Those who have taken on a lot of debts because of improper behaviors such as playing money often have no sense of shame, and can do anything to get out of trouble - remember, not everyone who is splashing in the river is worth saving, and before entering the water, you must first consider: if you are not capable enough, the other party will drag you to the bottom of the river (this sounds impersonal, but it is the insight of countless painful lessons in real life).

Hahaha, 4,000 kilometers a week confirms that sentence, what car has the best performance--- of course someone else's car!

You don't want to drive your car, but once it's in someone else's hands, they can build it [laughs], and you don't maintain it, you have to maintain it yourself.

Relatives said, then I can do you a favor, help you go to the 4S store to reconfigure the key, you quickly give me the password card with the car key, no thanks!

The most important thing when dealing with such issues is to maintain a peaceful and understanding heart. We must not only cherish the deep friendship with our relatives, but also learn to protect our rights and feelings when appropriate. Through the combination of wisdom and warmth, I believe we can find the most suitable solution, so that the family relationship is stronger in understanding and respect.

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400,000 new cars were called by relatives to borrow a car for 3 consecutive weeks, and it is not good to refuse directly, what should I do?