The 30-year-old son of heaven passed away in a hurry
I was eagerly looking forward to the beginning of my life, but I ushered in the sad news of a hurried death - such a tragedy not only made my loved ones feel painful, but also made countless people who had never met sigh for it.
Zheng Wenlu, 30 years old this year, has never disappointed. She has a shining resume: a master's degree in finance from Zhejiang University, and after joining CICC, she easily won the top white-collar status with an annual salary of one million yuan with her outstanding strength and performance. While being the envy of countless ordinary people, she also successfully had an equally excellent husband, and unfortunately passed away when she was 3 months pregnant. The best moment of his life was ruthlessly deprived by death.
Looking back at Zheng Wenlu's life course, it is undoubtedly a dazzling legendary experience. During her studies at Zhejiang University, she has an extraordinary resume: a national scholarship winner, a college scholarship winner, and has also participated in a variety of entrepreneurial and creative activities. What's even more enviable is that during her time at university, she also had the opportunity to take the "Semester At Sea" round-the-world study tour, which traveled to four continents and three oceans in 102 days, visited 15 cities, and met students and professors from all over the world. This is undoubtedly a dream trip that most people will never achieve in their lifetime.
In Zheng Wenlu's notes, we can get a glimpse of her unforgettable sailing experience. With humorous and delicate words, she recorded all kinds of interesting observations, as if people were in it, and they appreciated the culture of different countries with her. For example, when visiting the Taj Mahal in India, she and friends from United States, Mexico, and Puerto Rico met unexpectedly at Mumbai Airport, and met a warm United Kingdom brother. Watching these young people from different countries gather together to discuss and communicate with each other, people can feel the cultural charm and international vision behind this trip.
Who would have thought that such a talented and promising girl would encounter such a tragedy at the peak of her life? When she warmly hugged and said goodbye to the "Prince of Pakistan", who could have predicted that this would be her last happy moment.
After graduation, Zheng Wenlu successfully entered CICC with her outstanding strength and became one of the elites of this financial giant. Despite the intensity and pressure of her work, she has grown into a top white-collar worker with an annual salary of one million in just 2 years, which is undoubtedly a remarkable achievement in the eyes of ordinary people. can gain a foothold in such a strong financial enterprise, Zheng Wenlu is undoubtedly a leader among "other people's children".
However, just when his career was taking off and his life was happy, tragedy struck. The woman, who had just turned 30, died unexpectedly when she was 3 months pregnant. This undoubtedly devastated everyone who knew her. Parents witnessed their daughter's untimely death and even fainted in the toilet crying; The husband also became a loner in an instant, and I am afraid that I am helpless about how to plan for the future.
Regarding Zheng Wenlu's unexpected death, public opinion has also speculated about the reason. Some people think that it is caused by excessive mortgage pressure, after all, she and her husband have just bought a house worth more than 10 million yuan in the center of Shanghai, and they still need to repay a loan of 56,000 yuan per month. However, for her, who is studying finance, such an investment decision is undoubtedly well thought out, and it should not be too much for her to bear.
Some people speculate that Zheng Wenlu may have suffered from depression symptoms due to pregnancy and work pressure, and finally chose suicide. As an elite of a top financial company, the pace of work and the pressure are so high that I believe that it is difficult for any ordinary person to bear. And for women during pregnancy, the double stress of body and mind is undoubtedly worse. Unfortunately, Zheng Wenlu's husband seems to have failed to find out in time and give proper care and help. Although the symptoms of depression are not obvious, once it erupts, the consequences are often irreversible.
In short, the occurrence of this tragedy has made countless people sigh. A talented and promising 30-year-old woman should encounter such a tragedy at the peak of her life, which is undoubtedly the biggest waste of life.
We can't help but ask, what is the reason for this end? Is the mortgage too stressful? Or is it a double whammy of workplace stress and pregnancy? Or is it something else we can't predict?
Whatever the reason, this incident is undoubtedly a wake-up call for us. In the pursuit of material "wealth", remember not to neglect inner peace and happiness. Sometimes, excessive desire and luxury can become a stumbling block in life. A woman like Zheng Wenlu has enough "success" in the eyes of ordinary people, but perhaps there is still huge pressure in her heart.
We have to ask ourselves what is the definition of wealth and achievement in today's fast-paced society. Do you want to have a high-paying job, or buy a fancy home? Or is it the ability to flaunt your privilege in the social circle? But can these so-called "success" indicators really bring us inner satisfaction and happiness?
We should learn to control our desires appropriately and plan our budgets reasonably. Don't blindly chase after the immediate material comforts and neglect the peace and happiness of your heart. As the saying goes, "contentment is always happy". Only in this way can we truly live a healthy and happy lifestyle without being bound by external pressures.
Perhaps in Zheng Wenlu's view, she has enough "successful" elements: a superior family background, outstanding education, a high-paying job, and a happy family. But it's a pity that she couldn't grasp the inner balance after all, and finally couldn't resist the thorns on the road of life. For most people, this is undoubtedly a heavy lesson.
We must remember the tragedy of Zheng Wenlu, cherish the happiness of the moment, control our desires moderately, and don't let the pursuit of material things crush our inner world. Only in this way can we live a more fulfilling and happy life.