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In 1983, the crew of "Dream of Red Mansions" issued a national casting notice, like a spring breeze blowing into the Liaoning Provincial Theater. This news not only changed the trajectory of Chen Xiaoxu's life, but also quietly affected Bi Yanjun's future.
On an ordinary day many years later, Bi Yanjun was having dinner when he suddenly received an unexpected call. On the other end of the phone, it was the weak voice of his ex-wife Chen Xiaoxu, who had not been in contact for a long time.
The two were silent for a long time, and then began a three-hour conversation. Chen Xiaoxu said as he spoke, tears slipped down unconsciously. Bi Yanjun listened and listened, his throat choked.
He promised to visit her, but he was unable to do so. This phone call uncovered a long-sealed past and became the last goodbye between them.
In 1955, Bi Yanjun was born in an ordinary family in Anshan City, Liaoning Province. He has had a strong interest in performing arts since he was a child, and with his own efforts and talent, he was successfully admitted to the Liaoning Provincial Drama Theater.
On this stage, Bi Yanjun is like a fish in water, constantly honing his acting skills and showing extraordinary charm.
Bi Yanjun, who was burly and handsome, soon made a name for himself in the theater. In a Liaoning Provincial Drama Actors Art Performance Competition, he stood out and won the first prize.
This achievement made people start to pay attention to this young actor who has just joined. However, Bi Yanjun at that time did not have a clear concept of love until he met Chen Xiaoxu.
In 1979, Chen Xiaoxu, who was only 14 years old, joined the Anshan Repertory Theatre and became a announcer. She was born in a family with a strong artistic atmosphere, her father was a director of the Peking Opera Troupe, and her mother was a dance teacher.
Although her father hoped that she would inherit the mantle and become a Peking Opera actress, Chen Xiaoxu had a soft spot for ballet. Unfortunately, due to the failure of the political trial, she had to give up this dream.
By chance, Bi Yanjun noticed a girl in the corner who was focusing on reading. That is Chen Xiaoxu, who is immersed in the world of "Dream of Red Mansions". Deeply attracted by this beautiful girl, Bi Yanjun mustered up the courage to come forward and talk.
Although the introverted Chen Xiaoxu felt a little embarrassed by the accosting of strangers, she inexplicably trusted this man like a big brother.
Since then, the two have been inseparable in the troupe. Bi Yanjun cared for Chen Xiaoxu with brotherly care, and Chen Xiaoxu was attracted by Bi Yanjun's talent and charm.
The tacit understanding between them does not need words, just a glance can be understood.
Chen Xiaoxu loves "Dream of Red Mansions", especially the role of Lin Daiyu. And Bi Yanjun's appearance just filled her beautiful imagination of love. The relationship between the two is like a sprout in spring, quietly growing in the day and night.
In 1983, the casting notice of "Dream of Red Mansions" was like a thunderclap, shaking the hearts of two young people. Bi Yanjun firmly believes that no one is more suitable to play Lin Daiyu than Chen Xiaoxu, and he strongly encourages Chen Xiaoxu to sign up for the audition.
With the support of Bi Yanjun, Chen Xiaoxu plucked up the courage to carefully select a costume photo taken in his early years, and wrote "I am Lin Daiyu" on the back. Bi Yanjun even attached a poem on the back of the photo to highlight Chen Xiaoxu's talent.
This decision became a turning point in their lives. Chen Xiaoxu successfully starred in Lin Daiyu and became famous in one fell swoop. And Bi Yanjun continued to work silently and follow his beloved.
In order to gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry, he was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy for further study.
Eight years of long-distance love has finally come to fruition. After the filming of "Dream of Red Mansions", Chen Xiaoxu took the initiative to propose to Bi Yanjun. The two walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, envying others.
However, they would not have thought that this love, which was envied by many people, encountered many tests after marriage.
Life after marriage is not a fairy tale. Chen Xiaoxu became famous for playing Lin Daiyu, and his career is booming. However, with the constraints of the role followed, and she found it difficult to break through the image of "Lin Daiyu".
This predicament not only affected her acting career, but also quietly changed her personality. Chen Xiaoxu, who was once lively and cheerful, became sensitive and suspicious, and often sat alone in front of the window and cried silently, as if Lin Daiyu in the play had entered reality.
At the same time, Bi Yanjun will devote himself to his acting career. As a newcomer actor, he struggles in the highly competitive environment of Beijing, running between various crews every day.
Open-minded, he is not good at perceiving subtle changes in the hearts of others, and in his eyes, many small things are just passing glances. However, in Chen Xiaoxu's view, these are the top priorities.
The communication between the two gradually decreased, and the misunderstanding deepened day by day. Chen Xiaoxu expects her husband to take the initiative to care about her emotions and be considerate of her feelings. However, Bi Yanjun, who is busy with his career, can hardly take care of his wife's inner needs.
Whenever Chen Xiaoxu was depressed, she chose to bury her depression in her heart, firmly believing that if Bi Yanjun really loved her, she should be able to detect her emotional changes.
However, the reality is always cruel. Bi Yanjun was busy with work, and it was difficult to detect the turmoil in his wife's heart. Every time he returned home, he carried a variety of perfume smells on him from time to time, which aroused Chen Xiaoxu's suspicions.
She was tormented in her heart, but she was never able to ask. The relationship between the two men became increasingly estranged, often descending into a cold war.
For Bi Yanjun, who has been working hard all day outside, it is undoubtedly worse to face his wife's indifference when he returns home. He begins to feel tired and helpless, and what was once a sweet love seems to have turned into a burden.
Finally, after a quarrel, Bi Yanjun couldn't bear it anymore and said the words that broke both of them: "We are not suitable, it is better to separate." This sentence is like a sharp blade, cutting the last bond between the two.
Chen Xiaoxu chose to leave, and only a year later, he entered the marriage hall with others. Bi Yanjun, on the other hand, chose to remain single and face the challenges of life alone.
The failure of the marriage has brought deep pain to both of them. Bi Yanjun lives alone in Beijing's big alleys, often sitting alone at the mouth of the alley in a daze. The neighbors saw him pitiful and often brought him some food, for fear that he would face the cold kitchen alone.
Although he filed for divorce, in the days after the separation, Bi Yanjun still deeply missed Chen Xiaoxu.
The failure of this marriage became a profound turning point in the lives of the two. It not only changed the trajectory of their lives, but also deeply affected their views on love and life.
However, life goes on, and they each embark on a different path in life and start a new chapter.
After the divorce, Bi Yanjun devoted all his energy to his acting career. He knows very well that in the highly competitive entertainment industry in Beijing, it is not easy to gain a firm foothold. But he didn't back down, but took every role with a more rigorous attitude.
In "Mixed in Beijing", Bi Yanjun played an excellent translator Hu Yi. Although there are not many scenes, his performance left a deep impression on the audience. Subsequently, he participated in works such as "Xiaojing Hutong".
Every role, no matter how big or small, Bi Yanjun has devoted all his efforts to interpret the characters well.
At the same time, Chen Xiaoxu's life went in another direction. After the divorce, her career hit a plateau. She once became famous for playing Lin Daiyu, but now it is difficult to get rid of the shackles of this role.
New works are not interested, and his career is gradually falling into a trough.
Just when Chen Xiaoxu was distressed by her career difficulties, fate played a cruel joke on her again. She was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer. Faced with this bad news, Chen Xiaoxu made a shocking decision.
She refused chemotherapy and chose to become a nun. Behind this decision is her dedication to the image of "perfect Lin Daiyu", and it is also a rethinking of the meaning of life.
She hopes to find inner peace in the last moments of her life. However, as fate would have it, she ended up in a coma in the temple.
At this time, Bi Yanjun, after his career stabilized, chose to remarry an outsider. His life gradually returned to calm, but deep down, he still retained his special feelings for Chen Xiaoxu.
The life trajectories of the two are like two parallel lines, each extending separately. One insists on pursuing the true meaning of art in the ordinary, and the other seeks the meaning of life under the tricks of fate.
Their story seems to be a concerto of life mixed with joy and sorrow, flowing slowly in the long river of time.
At the last moment of his life, Chen Xiaoxu's thoughts returned to the past. In a coma in the temple, she seemed to see Bi Yanjun's figure. The man who had accompanied her through her youthful years was so clear in her memories at this moment.
When she woke up from her coma, a strong urge surged in her heart. She asked the people around her for Bi Yanjun's contact information. With trembling fingers, he dialed the number that had not been contacted for a long time, and on the other end of the phone, it was Bi Yanjun's familiar and unfamiliar voice.
At first, both were silent. Bi Yanjun waited patiently and did not hang up the phone. Finally, Chen Xiaoxu spoke.
Her voice was weak, but full of affection. At this moment, it was as if they had gone back in time, and they had returned to the era when they loved each other deeply.
The call lasted a full three hours. They reminisce about the past, tell about the recent situation, and pour out their inner feelings. Chen Xiaoxu talked about his condition, and Bi Yanjun shared his life over the years.
Although they have been separated for many years, the tacit understanding between them seems to have never disappeared.
Towards the end of the call, Bi Yanjun promised to visit Chen Xiaoxu. His voice was full of concern, as if to make up for the regrets of all these years.
When Chen Xiaoxu heard this promise, his heart was full of expectation and comfort.
However, fate played a trick on them again. In 2007, Chen Xiaoxu, who was only 41 years old, left this world forever. Bi Yanjun failed to fulfill that promise and failed to see Chen Xiaoxu for the last time.
After learning the news, Bi Yanjun was grief-stricken. That phone call became the last goodbye between them, and it also became an eternal regret in Bi Yanjun's heart.
It is rumored that in the 15 years after Chen Xiaoxu's death, Bi Yanjun insisted on sweeping her grave. This persistent relationship transcends life and death and has become a good story in the entertainment industry.
In front of the silent tombstone, Bi Yanjun seemed to be continuing the unfinished conversation with Chen Xiaoxu.
That phone call became the link between their past and present. It bears witness to the sincere emotions of two people who once loved each other at the end of their lives.
Although their love story is in the past, the deep feelings are forever frozen in that three-hour call.
Today, 68-year-old Bi Yanjun is still active in the entertainment industry. Although he didn't have a big hit, he interpreted his love for acting in his own way. In "The Gate of the Mansion", he played the second master of the Bai family, who seems to be cowardly, but in fact hides his father's love; In "Struggle", he became Lu Tao's father Lu Yaxun again.
Every role has been vividly interpreted by him.
Outside of work, Bi Yanjun enjoys a dull life. He enjoys raising flowers and grass, strolling the streets, and spending time with his family. This way of life just reflects his wisdom and calmness.
Bi Yanjun once said: "I just want to devote myself wholeheartedly to the acting career and integrate romantic feelings into ordinary daily life." This sentence may be his philosophy of life.
He does not pursue vigorous, but looks for the extraordinary in the ordinary, and sticks to himself in the low-key.
Compared with Chen Xiaoxu's legendary life, Bi Yanjun chose a stable and down-to-earth path. His story shows us that life doesn't need to have ups and downs, and it can shine in the ordinary.
It is this attitude that has made him respected by his peers and loved by the audience in the entertainment industry.
I hope that this respected veteran actor will be in good health, continue to bring more wonderful works to the audience, and interpret an extraordinary life in the ordinary.
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