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Text: Zhang Ziwen
Edited by Zhang Ziwen
Preamble:
In a woman's life, there will be love, marriage, career, family......
How did she treat it and how did she choose?
Cao Xiwen, a maverick actress, her life trajectory may give us some inspiration.
Emerging edge, acting starts
16-year-old Cao Xiwen had the dream of being an actor and was admitted to Zhejiang Art School.
On the youthful campus, she met a romantic but short-lived first love.
Although the relationship ended without a hitch, this beautiful memory has become a bright spot in her youth.
That high-spirited girl is full of longing and expectation for the future.
By chance, Cao Xiwen participated in "Life is Beautiful Because of You" in the second year of admission.
Although there are not many scenes, it is the starting point of her acting career.
This opportunity is like a door, although it only opens a crack, but it provides the possibility for her to perform.
Cao Xiwen keenly seized this opportunity and took a solid step on the road of acting with his own efforts and talents.
Since then, she has understood that success is never an accident, but a combination of chance and sweat.
The experience of Chinese opera has gradually attracted attention
In 2004, Cao Xiwen entered the Central Academy of Drama, the palace of performing arts, and became a good seedling under the guidance of many famous teachers.
In the place where this dream began, Cao Xiwen was hungry for nutrients and devoted himself to the study of acting.
The rigorous training of Chinese opera has laid a solid foundation for her acting skills, and also exercised her hard-working quality.
Her efforts were not in vain, and in "Walking Feather Duster", Guo Sanfu played by Cao Xiwen began to attract attention.
By chance, the famous screenwriter Hai Yan appreciated Cao Xiwen's performance and took a fancy to this girl full of aura.
Hai Yan strongly praised Cao Xiwen to play the heroine of "Five Star Hotel", which was like giving her wings to take off, making her fame rise.
Cao Xiwen seized this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and proved that she is a potential actor with her own strength.
From obscurity to emergence, Cao Xiwen used his own way to interpret the phrase "opportunities favor those who are prepared".
Huayi newcomer, in love with Chen Sicheng
Opportunities and challenges coexist, Cao Xiwen chose to leave Haiyan and join Huayi Brothers.
In this company with many excellent actors, Cao Xiwen has become a potential rookie actor.
Huayi Brothers provides a broader platform, and Cao Xiwen also looks forward to more development space here.
It was also in Huayi that she met Chen Sicheng.
In 2008, the two met because of their cooperation in "Destiny", and the tacit understanding in and out of the play made the spark of love burst out.
Cao Xiwen, who is in love, is sweet and shy, and Chen Sicheng is generous and unfair to his girlfriend.
However, the mode of getting along with less and leaving more is like a stumbling block on the road of love, which lays hidden dangers for their relationship.
The career is thriving, but love is difficult to maintain, which has become a portrayal of this relationship.
Two equally outstanding and thoughtful people walked together, and after the passion, the test of reality followed.
They are all working hard for their careers, but they ignore the management of their feelings.
Love, after all, is no match for the test of time and distance.
The career exploded and the relationship broke down
2010 was an extraordinary year for Cao Xiwen.
With her outstanding performance in "Wild Duck", she became popular overnight and became a hot actress, refreshing the audience's perception of her.
The girl who longed for love has transformed into a radiant actress on the screen.
However, the balance of emotions is unbalanced at the other end.
Chen Sicheng came to prominence with "Beijing Love Story", which he wrote, directed and acted in, but he also had feelings for Tong Liya in the crew.
The breakup became the end of Cao Xiwen and Chen Sicheng's love, and the two parted ways and opened a new chapter in their lives.
Faced with the frustration of love, Cao Xiwen chose to move forward bravely and put more energy into his career.
She understands that losing a relationship is not terrible, what is terrible is losing herself.
She chose to work harder in her career, fill the void in her heart with work, and prove her worth with achievements.
The marriage was happy, but it was eventually broken
In the ups and downs of feelings, Cao Xiwen ushered in a new chapter in his life.
She and a successful businessman quickly entered the marriage hall and married in a low-key manner, and in the eyes of the outside world, they are an enviable couple.
Cao Xiwen seems to have found an emotional home and gained peace and stability in her marriage.
At the end of 2012, Cao Xiwen gave birth to her beloved daughter, and her mother's love made this woman exude a more gentle and strong temperament.
However, real life is not a fairy tale, Cao Xiwen decided to divorce in 2014 and started the life of a single mother.
In the face of the breakdown of her marriage, Cao Xiwen still holds up the sky with an optimistic and calm attitude, guarding her daughter and guarding her life.
She understands that happiness is not given by others, but earned by herself.
She chose to face it bravely, start anew, and interpret the style of an independent woman in her own way.
The controversy of "drama tyrant" has been repeatedly questioned
On the stage of his career, Cao Xiwen tried to open up more possibilities.
In 2017, she participated in "You and My Alluring Time" as an investor and starring role.
However, this decision has sparked a huge controversy in the outside world.
It was reported that Cao Xiwen "brought money into the group" and "forcibly added scenes", which affected the roles of other actors.
For a while, the label of "drama bully" followed me like a shadow, which made Cao Xiwen's reputation worse.
Even when she starred in "Qingping Le" later, Cao Xiwen was questioned again about adding drama, but she chose to remain silent.
In the face of controversy and criticism, Cao Xiwen did not explain too much, but spoke with his works, hoping to prove himself with his strength.
She knew that in this circle, any explanation would pale in comparison.
Instead of going to great lengths to justify, it is better to devote yourself to the work, impress the audience with your acting skills, and conquer doubts with word of mouth.
She believes that time will give the best answer.
Status: Winners in life
Time flies, 41-year-old Cao Xiwen is still active in the film and television industry.
From "The Big Exam" to "Splendid Stars", she has completed the transformation from a heroine to a "mother role", showing the charm of an actor at different stages.
Outside the camera, Cao Xiwen is a conscientious mother, dependent on her daughter and enjoying the joy of family.
With a privileged material life and a free state of life, Cao Xiwen is regarded as a "winner in life".
However, the so-called "winner" is not only glamorous on the surface, but also a kind of inner certainty and indifference.
After experiencing ups and downs, Cao Xiwen knows how to grasp the moment and live his own life.
She is no longer bothered by the judgment of the outside world, but enjoys her life with a detached mentality.
In her view, the excitement of life is not about how much you have, but about what you have experienced.
Epilogue:
In her own way, she interprets the life trajectory of "winning Cao Xiwen, having the beauty of love, and also experiencing the difficulty of marriage."
has had a brilliant career, but also faced the trouble of controversy.
But no matter how the circumstances changed, she faced it bravely, accepted it calmly, and lived a different and wonderful life in her own way.
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